ON THE EVENING OF MONDAY, APRIL 8, THE DSN BEACH CLUB PLAYED HOST TO A DEEPLY MOVING AND INSPIRATIONAL OCCASION, MARKING THE EXTRAORDINARY RESCUE OF FORMER HOSTAGE LUIS HAR AND HIS FAMILY. THE EVENT, FILLED WITH PALPABLE ENERGY AND UNITY, STOOD AS A TESTAMENT TO THE UNWAVERING SUPPORT AND RESILIENCE OF THE JERSEY SHORE COMMUNITY AND THE JEWISH NATION.

The journey to this celebratory moment traces back to October 7, a date that reshaped the world stage for Jews around the globe. In response to the challenges faced by Israel and its people, DSN swiftly activated Israel programming, channeling efforts into fundraising, raising awareness, and providing aid to various affected groups, including the IDF, families of hostages, survivors of the NOVA Festival, as well as impacted artists and businesses.

In November, DSN and the Jersey community had the privilege of hosting two daughters of hostage Luis Har, Rinat and Natalie, who left their families in Israel to visit America to share their heartfelt stories. They were brought to see Rabbi Edmund Nahum, who blessed them that Hashem should bring Luis back safely. With his inspiration and encouragement, they would hope and pray during the following weeks and months. The sisters had explained that Luis was more than just a hostage; he was the beloved grandfather, the Saba of the kibbutz, renowned for making pizza for everyone. Moved by their story, DSN made a promise: if Luis were to ever be released, DSN would honor him with a siyum Hoda’ah and pizza party at the Beach Club.

The promise became reality in April, as DSN fulfilled its pledge with a gathering brimming with love and gratitude. The evening was filled with heartfelt performances and speeches. The atmosphere was adorned with Israeli flags, a symbol of solidarity and support. Irving Kairey’s rendition of Hatikvah began the evening, eliciting stirred emotions, while Rabbi Edmond Nahum and Rabbi Joey Haber shared stories of resilience and faith. Then, the guest of honor, Luis Har, took the stage, his spirit undiminished by his ordeal. Moved by the outpouring of support from several hundred attendees, whom he regarded as family, Luis expressed his gratitude. He explained his months of captivity starting from how he was taken captive on October 7th and forced to walk for hours through Gaza’s deep tunnels. The crowd was mesmerized by every word. A poignant moment came with the screening of a video depicting the soldiers who rescued Luis, capturing the emotional weight of his journey to freedom. Witnessing Luis embraced by his daughters in the audience was a testament to the power of hope and the resilience of the human spirit.

Rabbi David Tawil and Rabbi Joey Dana led the prayers for the State of Israel and for the soldiers of the IDF. Rabbi Tawil remarked, “Seeing the Har sisters in their time of pain was unbearable, but helping them carry that weight during their time of despair, no doubt, prepared us for the light of joy destined to arrive. This is the power of supporting the weight of another’s sorrows.

Community member Honey Dayan was overwhelmed by the evening. She said, “This was a night we will never forget. We all felt like one big family coming together.”

As the evening drew to a close, the DSN community stood unified in strength and embrace, reaffirming the timeless motto: Am Israel Chai – the people of Israel live on. Yet, their prayers extend beyond their own, as they hope for the safe return of all hostages, echoing the sentiment that guided them through adversity: unity, faith, and unwavering support.

DSN President Lee Zekaria was moved. “Our community witnessed a walking miracle tonight — someone saved against all odds from captivity by Hashem. It was a very emotional and special experience.”

DSN Executive Board Member Victoria Sutton put the event into perspective. “The night was a culmination of the journey that started in November with the Har family and the DSN community. Like Rabbi Nahum described, we witnessed a miracle above nature. As we continue to pray for Israel and the remaining hostages, like Rabbi Joey Haber said, a night like this one gives us hope. With Hashem’s help, we pray to do the same for all the hostages. The Har family, as Luis’s son-in-law Edan said, will forever be part of the Deal and DSN family.”

ARI BAUM, CFP®

ON A DAILY BASIS, HOW MUCH TIME DO YOU SPEND MANAGING YOUR MONEY? IF YOU’RE LIKE MOST OF US –– PROBABLY LESS THAN 2 MINUTES, OR NO TIME AT ALL. IT’S UNDERSTANDABLE. YOU’RE BUSY, DISTRACTED. OR, MAYBE THERE’S SOME INTENTIONAL AVOIDANCE DUE TO FEELING OVERWHELMED AND ANXIOUS.

When trying to navigate retirement, budgeting, or debt management, it’s natural for analysis paralysis to flare. “I’ll do it next weekend,” starts to play on a loop.

Though sweeping money matters under the proverbial rug may feel like the safest option, there are better (even painless) solutions that could help you experience both short- and long-term abundance.

It starts with a few simple steps. From there, you just might watch successes grow.

1: Create a strong foundation

Always assess your “soil.” If your finances aren’t rooted in solid ground, growth could be stunted from the start. And any “seeds” you try to plant (such as savings) may never sprout into the healthy and sustainable resources you want.
Check in:

• What is my monthly spending?
  Don’t forget about your “set-it-and-forget-it” items, like automated payments, subscriptions, and deposits.
• What am I investing in my retirement and savings accounts? Exact numbers and dates can help –– be specific.
• What type of insurance coverage and other financial safety nets do I have (and need) right now?

2: Remember what inspires you

Re-energize your “wilted” goals by allowing yourself a moment to reflect on your values. Do you dream about living in a certain house or city? What makes you happy? (Or what could make you happy?) Reviving your vision can encourage smarter money moves today and tomorrow.
Check in:

• Are my current financial strategies and habits aligned with my vision?
• What is my financial trajectory? Do I notice any
  patterns or seasonal ups and downs?
  Whether it’s positive or negative, explore why (i.e. money is tight, but I haven’t asked for a raise).
• What’s my success plan for: next month, 1 year,
  5 years, 10 years?

3: Learn new skills

As individuals, we are constantly evolving –– as is the economy, technology, and the ways we build wealth. Boosting your financial knowledge can give you the confidence and energy to expand your perspective and try novel strategies. It’s time to continue your personal development and shake off financial fatigue by planting fresh seeds.

Check in:

• Listen to podcasts? There are endless financial options, whether you enjoy market updates, tips and trade secrets, even humor and “what not to do” stories.
• How about financial webinars? There are several to choose from and many of them are free.
• Ask a financial professional for recommendations for both of these!

4: Maintain your momentum

Your finances are like any garden –– you can sow the right seeds, but without the consistent care of rain and sun, your green may wither or droop. The great news is, once you have a well-informed strategy that is planted and in place, it’s much easier to regularly tend to your goals.
Check in:

• Have I asked my advisor to arrange a monthly chat?
• Do I have a set schedule for monitoring my portfolio or financial tasks?
• What healthy financial habits can I start now
  to prevent stagnancy?

FINANCIAL LESSON

Don’t Let Abundance Be Out of Reach
Whether you found those steps new and surprising or they’re part of your routine, it’s clear that our financial vision may not flourish without daily care.
If we don’t pull the weeds of uncertainty and inaction, we feel less control over our wallets and our lives. However, with the right guidance to inspire, and some decisive proactivity, it could be possible to strengthen your money roots to watch them thrive. And you never have to wait for spring.

The content is developed from sources believed to be providing accurate information. Investing involves risk including the potential loss of principal. This information is not intended to be a substitute for specific individualized tax or legal advice. Consult with a licensed professional regarding your specific situation.

Ari Baum, CFP® is the founder and CEO of Endurance Wealth Partners, with over 26 years of experience in the Financial Services industry. He brings his in-depth experience to Conceive. Believe. Achieve. for his clients.
Securities and Advisory services offered through Prospera Financial Services Inc. Member FINRA/SIPC. Brokerage and Advisory accounts carried by Wells Fargo Clearing Services, LLC.

A YEAR OF ADVOCACY AND ACTION BY THE SEPHARDIC COMMUNITY FEDERATION

In the vibrant tapestry of New York City, the Sephardic Community Federation (SCF) stands as a beacon of unity, resilience, and advocacy for the Sephardic Community. This past year, the Federation’s accomplishments are marked by steadfast dedication to our community’s well-being, spearheading initiatives that have left a lasting impact on the lives of our members.

Mayor’s Jewish Heritage Event at Gracie Mansion
The year kicked off with a momentous occasion as the Sephardic Community Federation proudly sponsored the Mayor’s Jewish Heritage event at Gracie Mansion. Against the backdrop of this historic landmark, community members from all walks of life gathered to celebrate and honor the rich cultural heritage of the Jewish community across all five boroughs of New York City. Mayor Adams spoke of his unwavering support, gratitude, and appreciation for the entire Jewish community, declaring us his “brothers and sisters.” The event served as a vibrant testament to the enduring spirit of the Sephardic community, and the broader Jewish community.

Legislative Engagement and Support
for Candidates
Throughout the year, the Sephardic Community Federation actively participated in legislative breakfasts and events, providing a crucial platform for community members to engage directly with elected officials. These gatherings fostered meaningful dialogue and collaboration, allowing community leaders to advocate for issues of importance to the Sephardic community. Notable attendees included Councilmember Inna Vernikov and Assemblymember Helene Weinstein, whose unwavering support and dedication to our community have been instrumental in advancing our collective interests.

Politically, the SCF played a pivotal role in supporting candidates who championed our community’s interests and held our values. Including Councilmember Kalman Yeger, and Councilmember Inna Vernikov, we rallied behind candidates who demonstrated a deep commitment in representing the needs and concerns of the Sephardic community. Through targeted outreach and mobilization efforts, we ensured that our voices were heard and our interests represented at all levels of government.

No Coney Casino Initiative:
Protecting Our Community’s Future
One of the most significant undertakings of the past year was the SCF’s steadfast opposition to the proposed casino development in Coney Island. Under the banner of the “No Coney Casino” initiative, community members mobilized to voice their concerns and advocate for the preservation of our neighborhood’s integrity and well-being. Through community board engagement, government outreach, and grassroots organizing efforts, we amplified our collective voice, securing support, and assurance of being kept abreast within the decision-making process.

Social Media Initiative:
Amplifying Outreach and Engagement
Recognizing the importance of digital communication in today’s interconnected world, the Sephardic Community Federation underwent a significant social media revamp over the past year. Featuring new branding and a revitalized Instagram page, our digital presence was transformed into a dynamic platform for outreach and engagement. Through compelling content and interactive features, we expanded our reach and connected with a broader audience, fostering a sense of community and unity online.

Click-to-Action and Email System:
Mobilizing Community Support
In a groundbreaking move towards grassroots advocacy, the Sephardic Community Federation adopted a Click-to-Action system to empower community members to directly engage with elected representatives. With the press of a button, individuals are able to mobilize support for our initiatives, amplifying our collective voice in delivering messages to drive meaningful change. This innovative approach to advocacy has proven instrumental in galvanizing community support and garnering attention for our causes.

Recognizing the importance of effective communication in driving advocacy efforts, the Sephardic Community Federation additionally revitalized its email marketing strategy. Through targeted messaging and strategic outreach, we disseminated calls to action and kept community members informed and engaged in our initiatives. By leveraging email as a communication tool, we concentrated advocacy efforts and empowered community members to take action on issues of importance to all.

Collaborations and Advocacy Initiatives: Building Partnerships for Change
Beyond traditional advocacy channels, the SCF forged partnerships with local organizations to address pressing issues facing our community. Collaborating with organizations such as “Enough is Enough,” we took a stand against antisemitism and worked to ensure the safety and well-being of our community members, particularly those attending City University of New York campuses. Through joint advocacy initiatives and collaborative efforts, we leveraged our collective strength to effect positive change.

State Budget Advocacy: Fighting for Educational Equity
On the education front, the Sephardic Community Federation heavily engaged in advocacy efforts to ensure equitable resources for all students throughout New York. Within the state budget process, we fought to extend funding for school meals to all NYS students, regardless of their background or where they attend school. By echoing the community’s voice and advocating for educational equity, we alleviated some of the financial burden that community parents carry while sending their children to private schools.

Fostering and Maintaining Relationships with Elected Representatives:
Advocating for Community Needs
In addition to advocacy, the SCF initiated, fostered, and strengthened meaningful relationships with elected representatives who support(ed) our community’s interests. Our partnerships yielded vital support for our community charities and institutions. Through ongoing dialogue and collaboration, we advocated for resources and assistance to address the needs of our community members and the Jewish community as a whole.

As we reflect on the past year, the Sephardic Community Federation stands as a testament to the power of community-driven unity and action. From cultural celebrations to political engagement to grassroots initiatives, our efforts have left an indelible mark on the fabric of our community. Looking ahead, we remain committed to empowering and strengthening our collective voice. Together, we will continue to champion our interests, advocate for meaningful change, and hold our values steadfast while building a stronger community for generations to come.

RENA LANIADO

For the past 40 years I’ve worked with and written about children and their families. My world consisted of my own kids, your kids and everybody else’s kids. My articles were about “How to fit in, how to improve grades, how to parent, how to achieve success…” My philosophy has always been to write what you know about. I’ve graduated from school and kids and now I’m conquering what I feel and what I know is aging. I’ve been talking endlessly to folks about what they feel and how they feel about getting older. Counseling my peers has been a very humbling experience. We’re facing the aging process together with the clear knowledge we’re in the last trimester, baby.

I’ve joined several chats dealing with the issues of aging. My favorite chat group is one I joined with my aging cousins. We share genetics and a common history. My cousin Debra shared, “We are the elders now.” And it’s really a sobering thought. My Aunt Rose called it the tarnished years. Recently, I recalled a conversation I had with my dad. He went to look for his older brother at a resort. The concierge said the only Mr Levin staying here is an elderly gentleman. My Dad looked at me and said, let’s go, he’s not here, unable to accept that his sibling was an elderly gentleman.

We joke about what life will be like in the old age home. Someone says, “pass the bread,” and ten people want to know who’s dead. I’ve done dozens of interviews with my fellow Boomers and one in particular stands out. An 80 something, ex-military man who served in the equivalent to the CIA made a fantastic transition. He planted a garden which turned into an orchid and he and his wife spent 60% of their day weeding, seeding, and planting together.

Step one in the process is navigating the world of 2024 and all the technological advancements. This isn’t easy for us Boomers. I’m a writer and for the past 30 years pen and paper worked fine. Welcome to 2024 and this baby boomer has graduated to a Mac! However, the complexities of navigating this high tech world hasn’t been easy. There are hundreds of passwords to remember, accessing documents and retrieving lost information has been quite the challenge. Luckily I’m the parent of four highly intelligent middle aged adults and the grandparent of several millennials and gen zees. They’re usually the only help I need. However, once after a few unsuccessful attempts to reach my relatives, I scored an appointment at the Apple Store. G-d bless the young man who helped me. He had the patience of a saint. When we finished I asked him,”Do you have a grandma?“ He replied, ”I do,” I told him, “if she asks for help, help her.”

Watching TV, or should I say turning on the TV, should be relaxing, but for some it has become a job. Last summer while visiting a cousin I actually tutored her in turning on her set. She wrote down lengthy, step-by-step notes. Today she proudly called me with the news she can actually manage without the notes.

The pandemic and Covid changed the world for all of us. Yes, it’s been years, but it has impacted on all of us. It was a difficult adjustment especially for seniors. Most of us never did online shopping. Personally, I like to walk the aisles, pick my own products and feel the fruit. No more casual walks to the boardwalk or schmoozing with friends. If your hearing is not great you miss the whole conversation, especially if someone is wearing a mask. If you’re lucky enough to have a spouse the togetherness is stifling. Loneliness and isolation were the byproduct of this new stage in everyone’s life. The effects have been stunning and lingering on.

YOUR EXODUS TO EXCELLENCE

RABBI EZRA MAX

In our collective human experience, the story of Yetzias Mitzrayim, the Exodus from Egypt, offers profound lessons, especially for us Jews. It’s a tale of transformation, from deep servitude to uplifting freedom, illustrating how we shifted from being prisoners physically and in our limiting beliefs to performance at our highest potential.

THE SHACKLES OF LIMITING BELIEFS
Your journey, much like mine, often starts in a place of constraints of external pressures and limitations. We, like our ancestors in Mitzrayim, can find ourselves trapped by beliefs that limit our potential, blinded to the possibilities beyond our perceived constraints. This “prisoner’s mindset” leads to feeling stuck, helpless, and hopeless.

THE EXODUS: A LEAP OF FAITH AND IDENTITY
Leaving Mitzrayim was much more than just physical liberation; it represented a monumental shift in identity and mindset. Imagine yourself being captive under a harsh taskmaster and then walking out as a free person with hope and possibility because of your belief and deep connection with the Almighty. This transformation required a significant leap of faith, releasing the blinders of the past to embrace a divinely guided future.

THE BUSINESS OF BREAKING FREE
In business, as in life, we also face obstacles and constraints. These can be limiting beliefs and also operational bottlenecks and challenges in aligning vision with action, especially when leading our teams through uncertain times. Overcoming these challenges gets easier when approached with emunah (faith) vision, strategy and focused actions.

PROFIT AND PURPOSE
BOUNDARIES THAT FOSTER GROWTH
The Torah’s introduction of specific divine laws transformed a group of former slaves into a purpose-driven nation. Similarly, establishing clear values, goals and boundaries within your organization will transform your team into a cohesive, driven force. Boundaries act as focus filters, decrease distractions and increase better decisions. True freedom — and true success — come from operating within a framework that resonates with our deepest values.

UNITY AND SUPPORT
THE POWER OF A LEADERSHIP GROUP
The unified commitment at Har Sinai wasn’t just about receiving the Torah; it was about understanding the importance of community and support. In business, the value of a leadership group or braintrust, provides not just strategic insights and accountability but also emotional and moral support essential for navigating the complexities of misaligned vision, operational challenges, people management and more. As it says in Avot, Aseh L’echa Rav, U’knei L’echa Chaver (Make for yourself a guide and get yourself a friend). Therefore, I’m committed to creating and supporting a community of Jewish business leaders, because you deserve this level of support to elevate and accelerate your impact.

REFLECTION AND RECOGNITION:
A SACRED GIFT
As we reflect on the journey from Mitzrayim to Sinai, and beyond, it becomes clear that our roles are dual in nature. Like our forefathers, we are called not only to be the heroes of our own stories, emerging triumphant from the shackles of limitation and doubt, but also to serve as guides for those who follow. The liberation we experience, the crossing from servitude into the embrace of a purposeful life under the guidance of the Torah, is not solely our own achievement. It is a legacy, a sacred trust passed down through generations.
Our redemption, the transition from the constraints of servitude to the Egyptians to the expansive freedom with Divine connection, imposes upon us an exquisite obligation. It is our duty, rooted in gratitude and recognition of the Almighty’s grace, to extend this “freedom in connection with the Almighty” to the next generations. We do this not by standing idly by but by actively engaging in the continuous cycle of learning, teaching, and guiding.

A DUAL ROLE: HERO AND GUIDE
In our businesses, communities, and homes, we embody the essence of both hero and guide. We strive, we overcome, and then we illuminate the path for others, just as we were guided by the luminous examples of those who came before us. This dual role enriches our lives, imbues our actions with purpose, and ensures that the gift of freedom, bound by our covenant with Hashem, is a flame that burns bright into the future.

PERSONAL AND PROFESSIONAL EXCELLENCE
AN ETERNAL LINK
You and I, in our pursuit of personal and professional excellence, are thus linked in an eternal chain of transmission. We remind ourselves continually of Yetzias Mitzrayim, its lessons of faith, unity, and the power of Divine guidance, are ours to live and to share. Let us embrace this role with humility, courage, and the joy that comes from knowing we are part of something far greater than ourselves.
Together, let’s commit to being the heroes and guides of our generation, ensuring that the legacy of freedom, faith, and flourishing at home and at work, continues to inspire and uplift those who will follow in our footsteps as we eagerly await the coming of Moshiach quickly in our lifetime.
Wishing you and your family a Chag Kasher V’sameach (A kosher and joyous Pesach!)

Rabbi Ezra Max, PCC, MHMP, Xchange Guide & Creator of “The Max Method” assists businesses and professionals deal with stress and achieve success. Rabbi Max has witnessed 20 years of results helping executives, parents and teens overcome struggles, improve communication and thrive. He lives in New York with his wife and five children.

PESAH, REDEMPTION & OVERCOMING ANTISEMITISM

RABBI MOSHE TESSONE

The story of Pharaoh’s daughter, Batya, saving Moshe from the Nile River is recounted in the Book of Exodus 2:1 – 2:10.

“Then Pharaoh’s daughter went down to the Nile to bathe, and her attendants were walking along the riverbank. She saw the basket among the reeds and sent her maidservant to get it.”

Due to the nuances of the Hebrew language, this passage, which describes how Batya saved Moshe from the Nile River, can be interpreted both literally and figuratively, depending on the perspective and the context.

LITERAL INTERPRETATION:
This passage describes Pharaoh’s daughter finding Moshe as an infant in a basket amongst the reeds of the Nile, feeling compassion for him, and ultimately deciding to rescue him, thus saving his life. In the Torah, the word “amata”, which literally means “(Batya’s) maidservant,” is used in the bolded section in the passage referenced. This indicates that, simply put, Batya sent one of her maidservants to retrieve the basket from the Nile.

FIGURATIVE INTERPRETATION:
However, according to our Hakhamim, aggadically, the word “amata” refers to Batya’s outstretched arm. Based on this understanding, her arm miraculously became long enough to reach the basket which was far more than an arm’s length away. On a figurative level, Batya’s outstretched arm symbolizes her compassionate and courageous stance. It emphasizes her decisive action in saving Moshe and defying her father’s cruel decree. According to this interpretation, the gesture represents Batya’s moral agency and her willingness to challenge the oppressive status quo of a toxic regime — even one built by her own father — in the hopes of achieving the impossible against all odds.

The deeper symbolism of Batya’s outstretched arm: Pharaoh’s daughter’s outstretched arm holds profound symbolism within the narrative of Moshe’s rescue from the Nile. It serves as both an act of compassion and defiance against her father’s cruel decree to kill all Hebrew male infants. It also serves as an inspirational message that one who sets out to do good should never believe that an achievement that is done to help humanity is impossible. Batya’s decision to rescue Moshe demonstrates not only her compassion and empathy towards the Hebrew infant, but also her vision to undertake things that may seem impossible at first glance. Batya achieved the “mission impossible” and, with Hashem’s help, she proved to us, as readers of this passage, that the impossible is always within our reach.

Batya’s outstretched arm can be interpreted as a gesture of protection, liberation, and ultimately, redemption, symbolizing G-d’s providence and mercy towards Moshe and the Israelites. It represents divine intervention, as Pharaoh’s daughter becomes an instrument of G-d’s plan to deliver Moshe from harm and fulfill his destiny and duty as the leader and liberator of his people. Batya was the human agent who redeemed Moshe, and Moshe’s leadership, in turn redeemed the entire Jewish people from the hands of the wicked Egyptians. In this, the Talmudic dictum that “one who saves a life it is as if he has saved an entire world” becomes truly evident.

A MESSAGE FOR OUR TIMES:
Pharaoh’s daughter symbolizes righteousness and moral agency within the oppressive system of ancient Egypt. Her actions demonstrate that even individuals positioned within corrupt structures of power can exercise autonomy and work towards morality and justice. In essence, Batya represents the potential for redemption and moral awakening within oppressive systems, challenging the notion that “absolute power corrupts absolutely” and that power and privilege inevitably lead to complicity with injustice.

In the face of contemporary challenges, such as terrorism, antisemitism, and wide-ranging geopolitical conflicts, the story of Pharaoh’s daughter offers a message of hope and determination. Just as Batya defied the odds and rescued Moshe, so too can we overcome seemingly insurmountable obstacles by harnessing compassion and challenging injustice. The redemptive message of her actions inspires us to believe that what may seem beyond our reach is achievable if we are willing to strive for it.

This is the redemptive message that needs to prevail in order to overcome the terrorism and horrors that have been brought upon Israel by its enemies in the Arab world. Overcoming the terrorism against our brothers and sisters in Israel, overcoming antisemitism wherever it may appear, and overcoming all the Iranian proxies that are out in the world may seem like an impossible task, but it is indeed achievable if we can harness the inspiration from Batya, who exercised human compassion, challenged the status quo of an oppressive regime, and in doing so turned the impossible into an achievable goal.

In conclusion, whether interpreted literally or figuratively, the symbolism of Pharaoh’s daughter’s outstretched arm underscores her pivotal role in the narrative. She serves as an example to us and to all world leaders to act as catalysts and human agents of G-d, to exercise compassion, and to believe that what may seem “out of our arms reach” is within the realm of possibility if only we are willing to try and make the impossible into our new reality.

Rabbi Moshe Tessone is a speaker of note in the Jewish world and the Sephardic community at large and he has toured extensively throughout North America, South America, Europe, and Israel as a rabbinic and motivational speaker on Torah-related topics of Jewish and Sephardic interest, Jewish education, history, halakha, prayer and more.

ROXANNE MALEH

THE THOUGHT OF TRAVELING TO ORLANDO WITH MY FAMILY FOR THE SBH DISNEY MARATHON, HAD ME AND MY DAUGHTERS EXCITED FOR WEEKS. IT WAS A DREAM VACATION FOR MY FAMILY: A COMMUNITY EVENT, SURROUNDED BY MANY YOUNG STUDENTS, WITH A GUARANTEED TRIP TO SEE THEIR BELOVED DISNEY CHARACTERS.

Yet, an unexpected highlight of the weekend was spending quality time with my Magen David Yeshivah High School students, the members of my extended family.

Throughout the weekend’s events, I experienced moments of pride and appreciation for the student body. They too seemed to appreciate that their teacher was partaking and valuing the organization. We bonded as they played with my kids, sat next to my family during sessions and in shul, and conversed with me in the hotel lobby. Their confidence, social skills, and maturity are signs of the future leaders they will be.

Another testament to the commitment the MDY students have to hesed was wonderfully displayed by the volunteers and SBH employees at the event. Former students of mine Rachel Bawabeh and Frimette Harary were photographers during the weekend. They woke up early each day, and stayed up late at night documenting the event. Furthermore, dozens of students who had graduated joined the program to show their continued dedication to hesed.

The teenagers’ zeal and enthusiasm for the community organization was apparent when 200 high school students woke up at 3 A.M. to run the Disney half marathon. Sporting pins of support for Israel, students who never ran before, ran 13.1 miles through Disney’s Magic Kingdom. I spoke with Katie Antebi, a junior at Magen David, who said she “was on a high” while she was running. She felt the adrenaline of running for a cause, and truly enjoyed every minute. Lori Laniado, another high school junior, said the weekend was a testament that we have the ability to influence young adults, and she left the weekend inspired and wanting to get more involved.

The theme of the weekend was discovering how each individual could use his or her talents to contribute to our community. There were many sessions and speeches focusing on embracing our talents, but more importantly finding our own way to act and give back. Students were asked to self-reflect on their current and future contributions to their world.

The event literally hit home, when I returned back to Magen David Yeshivah High School, on the day following the event. In perfect conjunction with the Disney event, the school spearheaded a school-wide book reading of the novel Joseph: How One Man Can Make a Difference by Jack Doueck. The book is filled with inspiring personal stories about how Mr. Joseph Beyda A”H made a difference in the lives of various community members over the course of his life and tenure as president of SBH.

Under the guidance of the English Department head, Mrs. Stephanie Shamah, the entire student body received a copy of the book in January. For four weeks students read the novel, and had class discussions focusing on Mr. Beyda’s hesed and selfless acts.

Magen David had the privilege of hosting Mr. Beyda’s children, Mrs. Shirley Catton and Mr. David Beyda, the current SBH president and an attendee at the marathon event. It was a harmonious segue from the weekend that was focused on giving back. I watched the faces of students I had just spent the weekend with, and continued their tribute to SBH.

Of course in true Joseph Beyda fashion, the students did not just talk about hesed, they participated in acts of hesed, driving home the idea that the key is giving up our time and talents to helping others. I was in awe as all the high school girls quickly gathered to create mazza to be sent to needy families on Purim. With Israeli music blasting in the background, and a joyous energy, the girls rolled, twisted, fluted and dolloped delicious mazza. Teachers and parents came to share in this mitzvah, and teachers were asked to speak about the role of cooking in their lives. The common theme was that cooking allowed us the opportunity to celebrate our traditions and show love for our friends and family.

The rambunctious boys used their energy to make mishloach manot for children who may not have the opportunity to participate in the mitzvah. They made two manot for each child, so that they could fully participate in the mitzvah of giving and receiving. It reminded me of the SBH weekend’s message to use our talents and personalities to help others.

The two events were so completely in sync. There was no denying the synergy between the Disney Marathon weekend and the Magen David event. Mr. Joseph Beyda lived a life of empathy and giving. Students learned a lot about the beautiful organization he helped create and raised funds to support the organization during their weekend in Orlando. They honored his legacy by continuing the tradition of giving back in such a public display of hesed in Magen David Yeshivah High School.

Roxanne Maleh is an English teacher at MDYHS.

HAVING A BALL IN CANDY LAND

ON MARCH 3RD, MDY HOSTED A SUNDAY FUNDAY! THE THEME WAS CANDY LAND AND HOW SWEET IT WAS! FAMILIES CAME OUT TO ENJOY AN INTERACTIVE EXPERIENCE THAT WAS LARGER THAN LIFE. ROOMS WERE TRANSFORMED INTO LITTLE WORLDS OF FUN AND KIDS WERE IMMERSED IN ALL SORTS OF SENSORY EXPERIENCES.

The crowd rolled in at 10 with sweet tunes pumping! Parents were asked to scan a QR code for a digital map of the floor. A 10’ inflatable bubble with treats floating around definitely set the mood for this over the top event! Children and their parents walked the halls in awe of the decor. Giant board game pieces, and garlands made of colored playing cards draped the walkways.

Each classroom was remodeled to resemble a spot on Candy Land, the classic boardgame. One of the first rooms in the hall was Nana’s Nutt House. This room was our “cozy corner” filled with books, puzzles, and a 4’ custom built lite-brite. Up next for the more adventurous kids was Gumball Lake. Kids had the opportunity to take a dip in our jumbo ball pit.

A definite fan favorite was Licorice Lagoon. This room had 2 fun activities to choose from. First up, an oldie but a goodie — Fruit Loops and licorice necklaces. For children looking for a bit more action, our licorice car wash was up and running. Kids were able to drive a Cozy Coupe through tons of pool noodles resembling licorice hanging from the ceiling.

Right next door was another beauty — Peppermint Forest. The smell of mint hit you right when you walked in. Homemade cloud dough was set at the tables for kids to play with. Conditioner, corn starch and a glug of peppermint extract was the perfect recipe to make this room a success!

The setup in the gym had everyone peeking in. The left side of the gym was set up as King Kandy’s Castle. Three giant cardboard castles were awaiting. In addition, a custom built geoboard was used with colored rubber bands to make castles out of squares and triangles. The right side of the gym was a bit Frosty. Frosted Palace had children ice skating their way over to the pool filled with instant snow! This experience was really cool.

A special thank you to all of the dedicated MDY teachers and volunteers who worked this event! Their unwavering support and commitment made our Sunday Funday a truly enriching experience for our children.

SARINA ROFFÉ

THE LURE OF CHINA AND THE FAR EAST HAS ENTICED ME SINCE MY OLDER TWO CHILDREN TRAVELED THERE AFTER COLLEGE. I WAS LURED BY THE CULTURE, THE GREAT WALL OF CHINA, THE TERRACOTTA WARRIORS, THE ELEPHANTS IN THAILAND AND THE BEACHES OF PHUKET. THERE IS SO MUCH TO SEE, EXPERIENCE AND LEARN OF THIS WORLD I COULD NOT WAIT ANY LONGER.

I have traveled to many places – Europe, North and Central Africa, Israel, South America and all 50 U.S. states, but the Far East always seemed too far. My husband David doesn’t like trips longer than 10 to 12 days and going to the Far East for that short a time did not make sense due to the very long flights.

This being our 50th anniversary year, we took the plunge, a three-week trip to China and Thailand. It took a lot of planning and we had to be sure we had kosher food along the way. With help from Rabbi Sammy Kassin, dean of Sephardic Study Center (SSC) in Israel, and the rabbis he has in the Far East, we managed to get kosher meals every few days.

SSC Rabbi Natanel Meodod of Kowloon was of enormous help, as was Joey Habert. He gave me many tips that helped us be comfortable. For example, all the hotels have teapots to heat up water. So we brought our own coffee and creamer. This was a good tip for people like us who are particular about our morning coffee. Hard boiled eggs were readily available at breakfast. I can say that when you are kosher, a trip like this is not one where I would have high expectations of kosher gourmet food.

Somehow, we managed though. In Beijing, we picked up food from the Chabad, as we happened to meet Rabbi Freundlich on the plane. Rabbi Kassin sang his praises.

In Shanghai, we were provided with food from SSC Rabbi Effie Besalel. His lovely wife Faigy sent us a generous supply of food, making our Shabbat wonderful! They had a synagogue and restaurant and we knew we would trust the kashrut. In Pattaya, Thailand, we had a wonderful meal at the synagogue and kosher restaurant with Rabbi David Marciano, another SSC rabbi. The last days of our journey were in Phuket, where there is a local Chabad. We were well taken care of all along our trip.

BACK TO THE TRIP ITSELF. WHAT DID WE SEE? WHAT WAS JEWISH? WHAT DID WE LEARN?
There is nothing Jewish about Xi’an, where we saw the Terracotta Warriors, or Beijing, where we visited the Great Wall of China, as well as other historical sites in those cities. We learned so much it would take a book to share it, as I did on a daily blog posted on my Facebook page. Everywhere I travel, I always look for the Jewish presence. Did Jews live there? Is there a synagogue or cemetery?
Here is what I want to share.

SHANGHAI
Shanghai is a dynamic bustling and very large port city, the epicenter of economic activity in China. David and I took a Jewish tour of Shanghai and learned of the long history of the Jewish community there, as well as the city’s part in helping over 30,000 Jews escape the Nazis during World War II.

The first Jewish community in Shanghai was established by Sephardic Jews from Syria and Baghdad in the late 19th Century. Among the first families were the Sassoons and Kadoorie. The Baghdadi Jewish community of Shanghai published local news and big ideas in Israel’s Messenger (IM), an English-language newspaper that was edited for many years by N.E.B. Ezra, a religious Jew and energetic Zionist from a well-known and well-connected Baghdadi Jewish family. Shanghai’s Baghdadi Jewish community established the Shanghai Zionist Association in 1903, ten years before the first Zionist organization was set up in Iraq.

Ohel Moshe Synagogue was opened in 1927. For a long time, Shanghai was one of the few places in the world that unconditionally offered refuge for Jews escaping from the Nazis. In 1938, 31 out of 32 countries refused to take in Jewish refugees after Kristallnacht. The only way for Jews to escape from Nazism was to leave Europe. In order to leave, they had to provide proof of emigration, usually a visa from a foreign nation, or a valid boat ticket.

A Chinese diplomat — Ho Feng-Shan — started to issue transit visas to Shanghai, under Japanese occupation except for foreign concessions. Twelve hundred visas were issued by Ho in only the first three months of holding office as Consul-General. While you didn’t need a visa to enter Shanghai, the visa was necessary to leave Austria. By the end of October 1938, Ho had issued more than 1,900 visas.

After the Japanese occupied all of Shanghai in 1941, the Japanese army forced about 23,000 of the city’s Jewish refugees to be restricted or relocated to the Shanghai Ghetto from 1941 to 1945 by the Proclamation Concerning Restriction of Residence and Business of Stateless Refugees. It was one of the poorest and most crowded areas of the city.

The Shanghai Jewish Refugees Museum commemorates the Jewish refugees. It is located at the former Ohel Moshe or Moishe Synagogue, in the Tilanqiao Historic Area of Hongkou district, Shanghai, China.

The synagogue was in the Shanghai Ghetto, formally known as the Restricted Sector for Stateless Refugees, an area of approximately one square mile (2.6 km2 in Japanese-occupied Shanghai and it formed part of the Shanghai International Settlement).

The Joint Distribution Committee and local Jewish families helped the refugees with food, shelter and clothing as well as a soup kitchen. These families lived in very crowded places, but they were thankful they were alive and knew that the Chinese had it worse than they did. The Japanese closed Shanghai to Jewish immigration in August 1941.

There is a garden where there were walls and walls with the names of Jews who lived in Shanghai during World War II. They only collected about 18,000 names but they know that at least 30,000 were accepted and had safe haven. Most of these people were devastated to learn they had lost their entire families in the Holocaust, and have fond memories of their time in Shanghai.

We also visited the Peace Hotel, which was built by the Sassoons, a castle built by David Moller, and other sites. The castle was built because his daughter always wanted to live in a castle, so he built it for her. The construction and material is very unique. Nothing like it exists anywhere else in Shanghai. Moller was a shipping magnate. There was a lovely pond and what was left of a horseback riding path. Moller’s daughter loved to ride. Across the street from the Music Conservatory was a very beautiful Jews only club. Shanghai has beautiful parks and the Jews could hang out in the parks, while the Chinese were not permitted to.

A SPECIAL MOMENT
The synagogue was a special moment for David. His father, Simon Roffé A”H, lived in Manila in the late 1930s and had been imprisoned by the Japanese in Los Banos, a prisoner of war camp, for the duration of the war. Many Syrian Jews had business in the Philippines, but unfortunately, Simon was caught preparing to leave. Thankfully he survived.

During Simon’s time in Manila, he traveled to several of the places we visited and some we had not, like Japan. We know he visited the Shanghai Synagogue before the war and David sat in the seats, noting it’s probably where his father sat during his visit in 1939.

MOVING ON
After Shanghai, our trip took us to Bangkok and Pattaya, where we had a lovely meal with SSC Rabbi David Marciano on Rosh Chodesh Adar. There were about 50 people in the synagogue, many of them lived there while others traveled through. We finished our 3-week trip in Phuket.

The SSC also has Jewish Centers in Manila and Guam. Hopefully we will get there one day. Right now, I am glad to be home.

A genealogist and historian, Sarina Roffé is the author of Branching Out from Sepharad (Sephardic Heritage Project, 2017). She is researching a new book: Syria – Paths to Freedom. Sarina holds a BA in Journalism, and MA in Jewish Studies and an MBA.

ON SUNDAY, MARCH 10TH, SBH HOSTED ITS ANNUAL FAMILY HESED DAY IN OUR KINGS HIGHWAY BUILDING. OVER 250 COMMUNITY MEMBERS OF ALL AGES CAME BY FOR AN EXCITING AFTERNOON FULL OF DIFFERENT VOLUNTEER STATIONS.

This included writing cards to soldiers, making fresh sambousak and bourekas for our food pantry, packing mishloah manot for our clients, and making planters for seniors. We even had a face painter and balloon artist on site to add some Purim sameach to the day, as well as a magic show for our volunteers to enjoy after all their hard work. It was a truly magnificent day, and we were so happy to see so many smiling faces giving back to our community.

For more information on volunteering with SBH, contact volunteer@sbhonline.org.

THE STAGE WAS SET AT THE ‘MECCA’ FOR JEWISH BASKETBALL, YESHIVAH UNIVERSITY’S MAX STERN ATHLETIC CENTER, FOR THE “GAME OF THE CENTURY” AND BOY DID IT NOT DISAPPOINT. FOR ANYONE FOLLOWING, THE YESHIVAH LEAGUE CHAMPIONSHIP GAME BETWEEN MAGEN DAVID YESHIVAH AND YESHIVAH OF FLATBUSH SEEMED LIKE AN INEVITABILITY EVER SINCE THE TWO TEAMS MET IN AN INSTANT CLASSIC IN THE MDY PRESEASON TOURNAMENT FINAL.

That game, which MDY eked out with a come from behind one-point victory, and which would be the first of a whopping five matchups between the two Brooklyn rivals, was a foreshadowing of things to come. The two teams have been on a collision course ever since.

Widely regarded as title favorites behind the impactful play of once in a generation big man Beni Keda, the dazzling scoring of Ronnie Chaaya, Isaac Cooper’s precision long distance shooting, and playing in their newly renovated gymnasium, The Flatbush Falcons thumped almost every opponent in their way. It seemed that every game Beni Keda gave the Jewish world a jaw-dropping highlight of him punishing the opposition with tenacious blocks and pulverizing tomahawk slam dunks, sometimes both in one play! Behind rookie Coach Matt Malc, The Falcons exhibited a high octane style of play that fed off pressure defense and fast paced offense en route to a 25 to 3 record that included a Cooper Invitational Tournament title. However, those (only) three losses came at the hands of MDY.

The Warriors, who share a name with a similarly successful NBA franchise whose logo they wear on their jerseys, also share a motto which has become synonymous with the Warrior name, “Strength in Numbers.” The MDY Warriors don’t beat you with one standout player, they have multiple, or one phenomenal legendary coach, whom they are lucky to have, or only their notable starters. They beat you with “numbers” combining as one unit on the back of hours and years of work that sometimes can be grueling, discouraging, redundantly mundane and mentally and physically exhausting. Their star players: Mark Sardar, Moses Smeke, Jack Haber, Josh Chabbott and Phil Sherr — all of whom can easily lead their own teams to tremendous success — have all bought into sacrificing individual accolades for the sake of coming together and achieving something special that would transcend anything they could accomplish on their own. Renowned and highly decorated Coach Spike always consults with Assistant Coaches Benny Mann and Morris Zarif for different perspectives, insights, and thoughts and empowers them with major roles that aid to the team’s success. And, as would be seen in the championship game, MDY always relies on a deep bench to come into the game in any pressure situation and contribute in a big way. As a result of this culture and unanimous buy-in by all members of the program, the team went on to a whopping 35 to 2 record highlighted by three tournament titles and their only losses coming without injured star big man Jack Haber.

As one would expect, coming into the championship game, nerves and tempers were high. Tickets were harder to come by than Game 7 of the NBA Finals! Mobs of fans could be seen outside the facility waiting to get in. You could feel the nervous energy of the crowd once everyone piled into the standing room only gym. The tension during the American and Israeli National Anthems was so palpable you could almost touch it in the air.

Off the opening tip, Mark Sardar stole the ball and flew down the court for a layup but was denied by an incredible come from behind block. Game on! It was an insane and fitting way to begin the affair. Moses Smeke and Ronnie Chaaya ended up trading three pointers early to get the scoring going on both sides. The first quarter ended up being quite uneventful with the exception of Jackie Haber picking up two quick fouls and having to be pulled from the game. In fact, Coach Spike had already subbed five different players into the game by the end of the quarter due to the foul trouble of multiple players. The quarter ended with Flatbush holding a 10 to 9 lead.

With most of MDY’s starting five remaining in foul trouble and Jack Haber out for the remainder of the half, the Falcons ended up dominating the second quarter. Displaying good discipline and shot making on offense and smothering the Warriors on defense, the Falcons’ lead ballooned to 9 during the quarter. However, junior starting point guard Phil Sherr was a calming and steady presence throughout the half carrying the shorthanded Warriors with some strong takes to the basket and drawing a few trips to the foul line. Sardar and Chabbott also each hit a timely three and despite Flatbush having all the momentum and pretty emphatically outplaying Magen David all half, their lead was only 6.

To start the second half, the Warriors brought way more intensity and energy. They were flying around the gym and scoring at a better pace. However, despite their increased level of play, the Falcons just kept on answering and maintaining their lead. Midway through the third quarter, Moses Smeke picked up his fourth foul on a Flatbush fast break which also put the Falcons on the line to go up by 8 points. Things were beginning to look bleak for the Warrior faithful, but after a beautiful backdoor pass from Jack Haber to Mark Sardar for a bucket, Coach Spike decided it was time to whip out his secret weapon — MDY’s patented “rat trap” press. The Warriors were able to force a loose ball and multiple bodies dove onto the hardwood in a skirmish. When Josh Chabbott finally came out of the scuffle with possession of the ball, he quickly got it to Sardar who flipped the ball to Haber for a layup. The MDY crowd went into a frenzy cheering so loud that it was literally deafening in the arena. This adjustment to trap, albeit only for three plays, totally changed the energy and momentum of the game in MDY’s favor. After hitting a buzzer beating layup to end the third quarter to cut the deficit to two followed by a Smeke putback layup to start the fourth to tie the game at 37 to 37, it seemed as if there would be no looking back for Magen David.

MDY actually took a 42 to 38 lead with three minutes left in the game after Mark Sardar went coast to coast for a beautiful layup and Josh Chabbott penetrated into the lane and made a perfect pass to Haber for a layup. Flatbush came down and missed a floater and it seemed as if the game would be over until Flatbush fought for their own rebound and Keda came in for an And one (for those not familiar with basketball terms, And one is a slang term used to refer to a situation in which a player makes a shot despite being fouled, in which case they get the points from the shot and one free throw. Making the free throw results in a three-point play or a four-point play, if the shot made during the foul was a three-pointer). The lead was down to one. Coach Malc decided to go into his own press which MDY broke to perfection. The usually automatic and reliable Mark Sardar had an uncontested breakaway layup to extend the lead but missed! Flatbush would go down and retake the lead! With under a minute left and down by a point MDY was searching for any space to get a good shot. After the ball was passed around, Sardar got the ball back with 40 seconds left, got to his spot for a step back pull up jumper and nailed it! He totally redeemed himself from his missed layup the play before to give MDY the lead. After making a stop with 12 seconds left, MDY had an opportunity to presumably get fouled and shoot foul shots to extend their lead, but this game wasn’t ready for its drama to end. On the ensuing inbound, Flatbush defensive specialist Jacob Haddad stole the ball and called a quick timeout. The dormant Flatbush crowd erupted! Then on the next inbound Flatbush got fouled and Ronnie Chaaya headed to the line to take the lead with just 9 seconds left in the game. He split the pair and of course, this game was headed to overtime!

OT began with Flatbush drawing first blood and hitting a foul shot to take a one point lead. Then, “Iceman” Moses Smeke continued his clutch ways with an incredible combination of moves followed by a pull up jumper that ripped through the net. After making a stop, MDY gained a loose ball and whipped the ball around the key to hit Josh Chabbott for a corner three… swish! MDY took a four point lead. From then, MDY coasted for the rest of overtime and accomplished a goal that they set out to achieve two years ago from spring practice of their sophomore years, bringing back a fourth championship to McDonald Avenue. The scene at YU was bedlam as students, teachers, rabbis, alumni, and family members were all jumping and cheering for joy together! The school spirit and unity had hit all-time highs.

Phil Sherr, a junior, received MVP honors for carrying his team early, maintaining a calming leadership presence throughout, and playing absolutely smothering defense all game long. Then, the Shabbat dinner debates begin on who of the four MDY championship teams was the best. It’s hard to beat 37 to 2!

A big Congratulations to the players, coaches, and all of Magen David Yeshivah for a tremendous accomplishment.