“I THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO BE HOMELESS”

THE MITZVAH MAN RECENTLY RECEIVED A CALL THAT WENT LIKE THIS: “I’M IN MANHATTAN, MY NAME IS JAMIE, I’M 77 YEARS OLD AND BLIND. I HAD AN APPOINTMENT WITH MY DOCTOR THIS AFTERNOON THAT ENDED HOURS AGO. I’VE BEEN WAITING ALL DAY FOR A RIDE TO PICK ME UP AND TAKE ME HOME TO BROOKLYN, BUT NO ONE HAS ARRIVED YET.”

Jamie continued, “They keep telling me someone will be here soon, but it’s 7 p.m., it’s getting dark now, and it’s raining hard. I just remembered that a friend added your number to my contacts in case I ever had an emergency. I’m scared. I hope you can help.”

The Mitzvah Man replied, “I’m on it.”

Jamie described what happened next. “Within 20 minutes, a car pulled up. The person inside said, ‘Hi I’m a volunteer from Mitzvah Man and I’ll take you home.’ It’s amazing that he spotted me in the dark and rain. He safely and cautiously escorted me into his car and drove me home and at the same time calmed me down. I blessed the driver and the organization. I really thought I was going to be homeless for the night. It’s a relief to know that there are such kind people and a wonderful organization, willing to help those in need. Thank you, Mitzvah Man!”

NOW THAT DSN HAS BECOME THE CENTRAL HUB OF RECREATIONAL AND SOCIAL LIFE ON THE JERSEY SHORE, FAMILIES ARE CLAMORING TO BE INVOLVED IN DSN’S ACTIVITIES TO MEET AND HAVE FUN. TO HANDLE THE EXTRAORDINARY DEMAND, DSN WELCOMED DANIELLE SHEMUELI AS ITS ASSISTANT YOUTH DIRECTOR, JOINING AN ALREADY SUPERB TEAM.

Recently, hundreds of people excitedly poured into the DSN gymnasium for the legendary return of the Pajama Jam! Siblings, parents, cousins and friends were amongst the droves of community members who showed up at 5:30 p.m. for an evening of fun and amusement. Kids were ecstatic, their eyes wide open as they saw the large-scale bounce house, a musical concert on stage by Little Rockers, a delicious dinner consisting of noodles, pizza and cucumbers, along with personalized balloons.

Danielle Shemueli, DSN’s new Assistant Youth Director, stopped counting after 200 people. She grabbed the opportunity to greet new families and ensure they were having a blast. She noted “I’ve been to many of DSN’s pajama jams in past years as a parent. Now that I’m part of the best team, I am able to witness first-hand how much thought, effort and organization goes into the fun being created! I loved seeing kids and moms dancing and enjoying it so much! We need to do this again!”

Pajama jams are meant to bring families together—for mothers to meet new friends and children to enjoy a night out. As a benefit to DSN members, there is no charge, allowing all members to attend without hesitation.

New members were blown away and in awe, while ongoing members were flooded with memories of pajama jams from the past. Jersey mother Sonia Cohen was thrilled. “My kids were so eager to get back to DSN for pajama jam night! The memories of getting into their favorite pajamas to have dinner and play with their friends stayed throughout COVID! When pajama jam returned, this time my oldest child whispered to me ‘I missed this, and Ma, look, they even have a balloon guy this year!’”

Due to popular demand, the next pajama jam is already in the works. DSN promises to deliver them on an ongoing basis! Frieda Shamah, DSN’s Youth Program Director, explained, “I loved seeing all the new faces of those who recently moved to the area, and also seeing every single child having the time of their lives while enjoying our building. This makes me so happy and is why I love what I do!”

DSN member and mother Danielle Bromberg added, “We were so happy to have pajama jam back! The kids all got to be together again and everyone had a blast with their friends—kids and parents alike! We truly can’t wait for the next one!”

Sammy Sitt, DSN’s Executive Director, summarized, “As we move towards the post-pandemic world, DSN needs to be at the forefront of providing social and healthy activities for our community. Pajama jams are one of many ways we are accomplishing that goal. We are super fortunate to have a passionate and hard-working professional staff who give it their all to bring happiness to children and parents. With Hashem’s help, DSN will continue to provide exceptional programming for the growing community.”

MARY HALABANI

AFTER A LONG YEAR OF LIMITED PROGRAMS AND OPPORTUNITIES TO GATHER TOGETHER, THE CENTER DECIDED TO REOPEN ITS DOORS BY HOSTING A STREET PARTY! THE CENTER’S INSIDE OUT EVENT INCLUDED A MULTITUDE OF ACTIVITIES FOR ALL AGES, BOTH INSIDE AND OUT OF THE BUILDING.

Some of the free-of-charge delights that over 3,000 participants enjoyed included cotton candy and popcorn, as well as candy bags. Members and non-members also had fun bouncing around in our bouncy houses, tie-dying their own shirts, decorating planters, competing in fitness competitions, and dancing to live music from our DJ and Encore music instructors. In addition, our newly renovated sensory gym was a hit among the youngsters; kids were quick to explore the many swings, slides, foam pits, and other features located in the sensory gym.

Simultaneously, the Center was packed with teens participating in basketball tournaments, men and women attending exercise classes, children attending birthday parties, and others wandering between all the excitement. It was truly an incredible day, and it was just the beginning of everything the Center has in store.

Do you have questions about the Center? Call us at (718) 627-4300. Follow @thecenterscc on Instagram to stay in the loop about future events, opportunities, and programs.

Mary Halabani, Marketing Manager at the Center, spends her time capturing every smile she sees inside and outside of the building. Mary has over 4 years of combined experience working in politics, publishing, and other non-profit organizations.

IT’S ALL ABOUT THE CHILDREN

SARINA ROFFÉ

TWENTY-FIVE YEARS AGO, I BEGAN ATTENDING THE CHILDREN’S MINYAN AT CONGREGATION BETH TORAH ON SATURDAY MORNINGS WITH MY YOUNGEST SON. IT WAS A FEW YEARS BEFORE HIS BAR MITZVAH. AS WE WALKED IN THE DOOR, WE WERE WELCOMED WITH OPEN ARMS BY RABBI SHIMON COHEN A”H AND SEVERAL OF THE GUYS WHO VOLUNTEERED THEIR TIME DURING THE SERVICE. RABBI COHEN’S ENERGY FILLED THE ROOM AS HE HUGGED EACH CHILD, HIS WARM SMILE EMBRACING THEM WITH LOVE. THE VOLUNTEERS WERE THE UNSUNG HEROES WHOSE WORK ON SUNDAY MORNINGS ASSURED THAT THE SERVICE RAN SMOOTHLY, THAT THERE WERE TOYS, PRIZES, AND FOOD FOR THE FOLLOWING SHABBAT.

Ronnie Gindi happily gave out lollipops, stashed in all his pockets, and made crying toddlers happy, his smile beaming throughout the room. Then there was Moe Kishk, who kept my son on task, and others who assigned the weekly portions to the children so they could practice for the next week. The ambiance was of a warm welcoming home with the volunteers who made it happen, week in and week out.

Gone was the stilted stuffy feel of simply praying. The children were motivated with positive reinforcement, a sense of accomplishment and rewards for their efforts. Of course, the underlying reason for the minyan was to teach Torah and community values. Moreover, the children wanted to be there. There was a sense of family and togetherness. And while many of the fathers may have preferred to sleep in after a long week at work, their children pushed them to attend services.

The Beth Torah Children’s Minyan began about 40 years ago with Dr. Ezra Cohen, Abie Hanono, Moe Kishk, Allan Menaged and another humble gentleman we shall call Mr. Hesed, because he asked to remain anonymous. Within a year, Abie Hanono had recruited Rabbi Cohen for the minyan and in turn, Rabbi Cohen recruited Ronnie Gindi as a volunteer. Of the original group, Mr. Hesed and Ronnie Gindi remain, while others have stepped in—Joe Chappan, Ralph Terzi, Sol Wahba, Victor Znati, Morris Varon, and others. Rabbi David Shelby was hired to fill the huge shoes of Rabbi Cohen, who passed on in 2016.

“We wanted to get the kids away from their television sets and into the synagogue,” said Moe Kishk. “The kids wanted to come to get the ice cream and toys, and they had to drag their parents. Some fathers who never came to shul started to come with their kids.”

“Before the minyan, we had kids roaming streets. They didn’t want to sit with their fathers in the main shul. Kids needs are different and they needed to be able to participate so we started something more interactive and participatory,” said Dr. Ezra Cohen.

“The future of the shul is our children. We gave them incentives. We held mini trips, went fishing, and had carnivals with prizes. Moe Kishk and I used to make tuna fish for seuda selushit. The rabbi gave them tapes to learn parts for the Shabbat service. We did silly things like give them tickets to a baseball game. With these incentives, they became regulars. Many of them continue to learn and have become leaders. Now they bring their children.”

Indeed, Rabbi Eli Mansour was one of those children. “Rabbi Cohen had a huge impact on me and my friends,” he said. “He had tremendous energy and we felt it. Because of him, we got to read, and we became more comfortable reading, and many are hazzanim today. We learned the minhagim and how to pray. He mentored us for several years and built our self-confidence.”

Indeed, Rabbi Cohen’s influence will live on for generations. The overwhelming majority of those students live Torah observant lives. Rabbi Cohen was the paragon of this virtue, going to endless lengths to connect to the essence of each child. The peripheral effect that this had on the many families of these students is staggering.

Rabbi Mansour said “It was the lay leaders behind the scenes who were instrumental in making it all happen. These were prominent men who could have prayed upstairs in the main sanctuary. If you ask them, they will say that the future of Beth Torah and or the community, is in the basement, not the first floor. They understood the importance of directing their energy to the youth.”

Ralph Terzi was a student of Rabbi Cohen when he attended Magen David Yeshivah. He said Rabbi Cohen encouraged him to come to Beth Torah when he was just 10 years old. Each week the Rabbi gave him tasks to do. “One week it was setting up chairs, then it was putting away books. Every week, he added a thing I had to do.” That was 25 years ago.

Now Ralph brings his three sons there and volunteers each week. “I want them to feel the same energy I did when I was 12. It all started with Rabbi Cohen. He loved working with the children and that satisfaction has propelled me forward. Every time I see a boy go up to the Torah and read for the first time, I am seeing the results of carrying our traditions forward to the next generation.”

“Rabbi Cohen loved every child no matter how old they were,” said Moe. “He hugged them and welcomed them as if they were kings. Every child got his big smile. I worked with him for 25 years. He attracted a lot of kids and they will never forget him. Rabbi Cohen was a walking mezuzah, everyone came to kiss him.”

BEHIND THE SCENES

The lay leaders in the synagogue, the volunteers who operate behind the scenes of Beth Torah Children’s Minyan, are there week in and week out, one for 38 years, another for 35 years, and so on.

Take Mr. Hesed. Responsible for the games, prizes, backpacks and toys at Simchat Torah, he works all year collecting items, making deals with toy vendors, and going to Costco or BJ’s to buy items. He devotes a full section of his warehouse to storing the items. Not by himself, others help as well because the job is too big for one person.

“One day he (Mr. Hesed) heard about a closeout and took his truck to go pick up the goods. He lost a half day’s work. He did it silently, by himself, and did not want any credit. He even goes to Carvel to get the kids ice cream,” said Dr. Cohen. “He is an unsung hero.”

Ronnie Gindi learned to give out lollipops and candy from his father, Jack Gindi, who did it years ago at Congregation Shaare Zion. He has been a volunteer at the Beth Torah Children’s minyan for 35 years, week in and week out.

“My job is to make sure no one goes home unhappy. We want the children to come back, to feel like the synagogue is the place to be,” said Ronnie. “We have about 300 kids each week and we give out about 35 prizes. We also supply Morah Etti, Ms. Stern’s group, Rabbi Joe Mizrahi’s minyan and others. We buy a lot of stuff in bulk, as well as candy and ice cream.

“We are world famous for the minyan. It’s a very big high for a father to see his son read and we make a big deal for each child. It’s unbelievably fantastic. The kid walks away and feels like he won the lottery.”

Ronnie Gindi was in Rabbi Cohen’s first class at Magen David Yeshivah. “He changed me as a kid,” Ronnie said. “He was a substitute teacher at Magen David in a particularly difficult class and the students challenged him. But he changed them. And they grew to love him. When he wanted me to help in the children’s minyan, I told him I was a rebel. I’m a big sports guy. I played high school and college basketball. I figured I would help for two weeks and be done. But now here I am, in my 35th year.

“When my kids began getting older, I wanted to go to shul with my adult children, Rabbi Cohen said ‘This is more important. You must stay with the kids’ program’ and it was a promise I made to him to keep the minyan thriving.”

On Simchat Torah alone, the volunteers prepare 1,500 backpacks for children who seem to come out of the woodwork that day. According to Ronnie, “One time I said to Rabbi Cohen ‘Most of these kids just come for the backpacks, they don’t attend. Rabbi Cohen said ‘Are they Jewish?’ Yes. ‘Are they children?’ Yes. ‘Then give them a bag.’ He taught us how important the children are.”

“It’s like a choreographed show,” said Sol Wahba, who among a thousand myriad tasks orchestrates the carnivals. “Who will do this and who will do that, every 15 minutes. Everyone does their part and no one gets credit. “Sometimes we run short and we have to run to BJ’s and buy candy, and some are putting thousands of dollars on their personal credit cards. Who wants to do that on a Saturday night? And then bring it back and unload it for the next week. But we do it for the children.

“It’s Hashem putting you in the place and you have the ability to do something others can’t. At the same time, there has to be a balance between praying, giving out candy and decorum. The main thing is to keep everyone happy and do it with a smile.”

“This past year or so was hard. We did drive-bys for Hanukkah and Simchat Torah, a virtual Chinese Auction and creative things to keep the children engaged.”

THE NEXT GENERATION: RABBI DAVID SHELBY

Not long after Rabbi Shimon Cohen became ill and then passed away, Rabbi David Shelby was recruited to run the minyan. Rabbi Shelby had big shoes to fill, as Rabbi Cohen was considered a giant.

The volunteers say he was a perfect fit, as he emanates the same warmth Rabbi Cohen did, his ear-to-ear smile welcoming the children.

“Rabbi Shelby has the same demeanor. His warmth attracts people,” said Ralph.

“It’s the biggest kids minyan in the community and he (Rabbi Cohen) was the greatest of the great,” said Rabbi Shelby. “He taught us how to sing in the rain instead of waiting for the rain to pass; I knew him my entire life. I worked with him in Magen David.

“I have a lot of respect for the volunteers who commit themselves to the service. It’s hard to volunteer. They get no glory or recognition, only aggravation. It’s noisy and there is a lot of action, and they still do it. You would think they would get tired.

“I think of it as a life lesson. When you park you are sitting still; when you drive, you are moving forward. The minyan is motivation in drive. We can’t sit back and pray and hope. We take action and do something. These volunteers have memories from when they were children, and they want the kids to have those same positive memories. The kids will remember an upscale Purim party or a fishing or basketball trip.

“These guys keep the legacy going. And besides the minyan, they do other things for the kids. Every Sukkot, Mr. Hesed buys extra lulav and etrogim. If a kid comes to shul without one because he can’t afford it, Mr. Hesed doesn’t want the child to feel out of place, so he gives them out. And not every child is as learning-abled as others, so Mr. Hesed pays for private tutoring for some kids.

The kids come to shul to get a prize and candy, but the underlying goal is to teach them, which in turn nurtures the heritage and preserves the traditions of our community. And these same volunteers help out all the other synagogues in the community, as well as those in Deal during the summer. It’s all about the children.

These volunteers are unsung heroes who make it all happen.

A genealogist and historian, Sarina Roffé is the author of Branching Out from Sepharad and cookbooks. She is President of the Sephardic Heritage Project, Co-Chair of the Brooklyn Jewish Historical Initiative and Chair of the Sephardic Research Division of JewishGen. Editor of the journal Dorot, Sarina holds a BA in Journalism, and an MA in Jewish Studies and an MBA.

STANDING UP TO ANTI-SEMITISM AT THE CENTER

IRENE HANAN

THIS SUMMER AT THE HEIGHT OF ISRAEL’S LATEST CONFLICT WITH GAZA IT SEEMED EVERY CELEBRITY AND INFLUENCER WAS PUTTING OUT VICIOUS ANTI-ISRAEL PROPAGANDA, LEADING TO A NEW SURGE OF ANTI-SEMITISM HERE IN AMERICA.

It felt like you couldn’t open social media without seeing dangerous misinformation and vilification of Israel. Where were the truth speakers? Where were the pro-Israel voices? Very few people were speaking out publicly for Israel or for Jews, and the silence was deafening. It was during this time that Meghan McCain posted a picture of her dad, former presidential candidate Senator John McCain, and Senator Joe Lieberman at the Kotel. Her caption, seen by over a million of her followers on Twitter and Instagram read “All my passion, everything I believe in my soul comes from the two of them−proud Zionist today, tomorrow, always.” This was not the first time McCain had showed her support for Israel, but it was the moment when we decided to bring her and Lieberman to the Sephardic Center to discuss “standing up to anti-semetism”

The Sephardic Community Center and the SCA joined together to bring these two strong Israel supporters to our community. Meghan, who is well-known from her time on ABC’s The View, as well as being a columnist and author, is also famous for speaking her mind and advocating for what she believes in.

This was Lieberman’s second time coming to our Center, and his affinity and love for our community was apparent. He is known for his integrity and is the true embodiment of a Jewish hero. Ricky Novick, the president of the SCC said, “Bringing high caliber events like this to the Center has always been one of our priorities. As a community that cherishes our connection to Israel it was our honor to make this program a reality.“

Corie Adjmi, award winning author, moderated the event. She interviewed our guests with eloquence and warmth. It was obvious she cares deeply about this issue and put much thought and preparation into her role. The audience felt as if we were listening to a discussion between three long time friends.

Jeffrey Beyda, president of the SCA said, “Advocating for Israel, fighting anti-Semitism, supporting those who speak out against it and preparing our young adults for the challenges Jewish Americans face on college campuses are part of the SCA’s core values and mission. The SCA is constantly working to fulfill that goal and working with like-minded institutions that share our values. It was our pleasure to invite a select group of young adults to participate in a meet and greet with the guests as well as ask them questions as part of the main program.”

The night was inspiring on many levels. McCain and Lieberman had an obvious love and admiration for each other. It was so special for our community to be able to bring them together. They spoke with intelligence and pride about a range of issues that affect the Jewish community. It was uplifting and educational to hear their perspectives. The audience was truly moved by the words of both guests. The discussion was at times a behind the scenes look at politics and media as well as a call to action to everyone present to get involved, not be silent and not be afraid.

Thank you to Kathy Shabot at the Center for everything you did to make sure this event was a huge success!

Irene Hanan is a board member of the SCA and program chair of the SCC’s Israel Advocacy department.

ON SUNDAY OCTOBER 17TH, NYPD COMMISSIONER DERMOT SHEA MET WITH ELECTED OFFICIALS, COMMUNITY LEADERS AND YESHIVAH OF FLATBUSH ADMINISTRATORS TO ANNOUNCE THE ARREST OF THE INDIVIDUAL RESPONSIBLE FOR POURING GASOLINE AROUND THE YESHIVAH AND SETTING IT ON FIRE THREE DAYS EARLIER.

Many important members of the police department, as well as politicians were in attendance, including Brooklyn South Commanding Officer Assistant Chief Michael Kemper, Commanding Officer of the 70th Precinct Inspector David Wall, Commanding Officer of Citywide Community Affairs Deputy Inspector Richie Taylor, NYPD Clergy Liaison David Heskiel, Assemblyman Simcha Eichenstein, Councilman Kalman Yeger, Mayor’s Office Assistant Commissioner Pinny Ringel, Head of Flatbush Yeshivah Rabbi Joseph Beyda, Flatbush Yeshivah Assistant Principal Rabbi David Galpert, Hatzalah CEO Yechiel Kalish, Flatbush Shomrim Coordinators Bob Moskovitz and Steve Weill, Flatbush Jewish Community Coalition Chair Josh Mehlman, Lieutenant Ira Jablonsky and community leaders Mitch Vilinsky, Joe Dweck, Judah Cohen, and David Assis.

The perpetrator, 39 year old Sharee Jones of Brooklyn was charged with reckless endangerment as a hate crime and arson for pouring gasoline around the yeshivah gate and lighting it on fire. There were no injuries Baruch Hashem, minor property damage was sustained to the sidewalk.

Deputy Inspector Taylor introduced everyone to Commissioner Shea, who received a very warm welcome. Commissioner Shea unequivocally pledged that any criminal act of hate in NYC will be thoroughly investigated and every appropriate resource will be utilized to bring those responsible into custody.

After leaving Yeshivah of Flatbush, Commissioner Shea and others walked along Avenue J, stopping to say hello to kids and pedestrians, demonstrating that the NYPD understands the community’s concern by bringing a sense of security and professional police presence to the area. Commissioner Shea stopped for lunch at Pizza Time (after being assured it was kosher), showing additional solidarity and sensitivity to the community.

He greeted dozens of pleasantly surprised families. One customer remarked “seeing the police commissioner here in our neighborhood just two blocks away from where that fire was intentionally started means so much, he really understands how we feel.” Another customer stated “We are truly blessed to have him as our commissioner. What a Mensch!”

STICKER SHOCK AT THE GROCERY STORE? PRICE HIKES AT THE PUMPS? PRICES ARE GOING UP AND SPENDING MORE FOR BASICS CAN BE STARTLING. DO YOU REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME YOU NOTICED PRICES INCREASING OR DID IT HAPPEN SO GRADUALLY THAT YOU MISSED IT? INFLATION IS OFTEN MORE COMPLICATED THAN WE REALIZE AND IT’LL BE WITH US FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES. SO, WHAT COULD PRICES LOOK LIKE IN 2030? LET’S FIND OUT BY LOOKING AT SOME HISTORICAL DATA, AND PROJECTING HOW PRICES FOR THINGS LIKE FOOD AND HOUSING COULD GO UP.

Sticker Shock?
HOW YOUR BILLS WILL RISE IN 2030

WHAT IS INFLATION?

Inflation is a measurement of how fast the prices of goods and services increase. As inflation rises, prices do too because it takes more dollars to buy the same things. Deflation is the opposite—it brings prices lower and increases buying power.

Both inflation and deflation are tied to a complex web of economic factors—such as supply and demand, wages, government spending, taxes, and more.

The Consumer Price Index (CPI) is a useful indicator of inflation and deflation. It’s sort of a cost-of-living index, looking at price changes, over time, for the goods and services used by households.

The prices and predictions that follow are based on historical averages going back to 2000 for different areas of spending.

HOUSING

Average annual inflation rate: 2.39%

Housing could be almost 27% more expensive by 2030. That means a house that costs $400,000 today could run you $506,388 in 10 years.

Depending on where you’re buying in the future, you could be paying much more than that. In fact, by 2030, the average home in Washington state will probably run you $782,708.

If you prefer the Aloha state, expect to fork over $889,627 for an average home. And topping the list for the fastest rising housing prices is California, where the average home will likely cost more than $1 million by 2030.

FOOD & BEVERAGES

Average annual inflation rate: 2.33%

Food and drinks may be about 26% more expensive by 2030. That means a trip to the grocery store that costs you $250 today could set you back more than $314.

If you like fresh fruit, your grocery bills could climb higher even sooner. That’s because prices for fresh fruit have been rising at about twice the pace of meat, poultry, and fish.

As food costs across the board continue to rise, they may not be the only thing about your food purchases that change by 2030. Your diet could, too. In fact, by 2030, more folks may give up red meat, replacing it with poultry and dairy products.

HEALTH CARE

Average annual inflation rate: 1.83%

Health care could be 20% more expensive by 2030. That means care costing you $5,000 today could cost you $6,000 in 10 years.

In 2021, a retired couple was projected to need $300,000 in savings to cover health care in retirement. In 2030, those costs could rise to over $350,000.

GAS & TRANSPORTATION

Average annual inflation rate: 1.38%

Fuel and transportation are likely to be nearly 15% more expensive by 2030. That means a car that costs $40,000 now could run you $45,858 in 10 years.

However, electric vehicles (EVs) could act as a price disrupter. There could be as many as 145 million EVs on the road by 2030.

Plus, some carmakers are working to cut the cost of batteries for EVs in half by 2030. Paired with self-driving technology, the transportation industry could look completely different in the next 10 years.

COLLEGE

Average annual inflation rate: 4.93%

A public four year university may be about 62% more expensive by 2030. Annual tuition and fees of $4,000 today for a two year college could cost $6,324 by 2030.

For a four year public university that runs you $20,000 today, you’re looking at $32,376 within 10 years. And a private four year university cost of $44,000 could increase to $68,022 by 2030.

However, the higher education industry is being massively disrupted by virtual learning and changing educational preferences. Within 10 years, these and other factors are bound to change, making higher education costs challenging to predict.

FINANCIAL LESSON

Like many things in life and money, inflation isn’t always bad, but it is inevitable, so figure out how to take advantage of it.

Inflation affects far more than up-front prices. It shakes up the costs of doing business and borrowing money. And it can affect savings, bonds, and plans for the future.

We often don’t notice these changes year to year, though. That’s because inflation comes in small doses. A few bucks more here, a couple hundred more there—it creeps up over time. It’s the reason why inflation has a well-deserved reputation as a “silent killer.”

Still, like many things in life and finance, inflation isn’t all bad. When steady and predictable, a moderate amount can be good as it can signal a healthy, growing economy.

Inflation causes problems when it increases suddenly and rapidly, or when folks haven’t planned for future price increases.

This article is for informational purposes only. It has been compiled from data considered to be reliable, but we do not make any guarantees regarding accuracy, adequacy, or completeness.

Ari Baum, CFP® is the founder and CEO of Endurance Wealth Partners, with over two decades of experience in the Financial Services industry. He brings his in-depth experience to Conceive. Believe. Achieve. for his clients.

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LEAVING NO STONE UNTURNED

SOPHIA FRANCO

IT’S A RANDOM TUESDAY, AND A LUMP APPEARS WHERE IT SHOULDN’T BE, A BRUISE, OR TWO, A HEADACHE THAT JUST WON’T DISAPPEAR. WITH HASHEM’S HELP THAT DAY WILL NEVER COME AND WE WILL NEVER HEAR THE WORD CANCER SPOKEN AGAIN OUT LOUD, BUT IF IT DOES, G-D FORBID, KNOW THAT HELP IS JUST A PHONE CALL AWAY.

Nancy Sutton, founder and president of the Morris I. Franco Cancer and Referral Center, has been guiding community members through the medical maze for over 28 years, providing endless support, hope and understanding. It started with referrals and help for patients trying to choose the right doctors, hospitals and treatments. She followed up that work—more than a decade ago—with the founding of the Cancer Center, a haven that provides every patient with whatever they might need, before they even know they need it.

Compassionate and nurturing, Nancy and her team’s experience is vast and unmatched. Years of invaluable connections helped garner their relationships with both hospitals and medical professionals, leaving the Cancer Center with a data bank that is complete with the names, and often cell numbers of thousands of doctors, and is constantly updated. This knowledge provides a clear path to success for patients who are probably at the most vulnerable point of their lives.

Renee Zarif, a recipient of that care, explained, “From the point a patient gets diagnosed until the point they find an oncologist, the fear that overtakes them is incomprehensible. I was just 30 years old when I was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s Lymphoma; married nine years. You can just imagine what was going through our minds. There are many medical referral organizations and individuals, but when we got to Nancy, everything changed. The knowledge she has, the doctors on speed-dial, and the personal way in which she shared her thoughts—she was certain, when we were so uncertain. She actually found a way to put us at ease.”

A HAND TO HOLD
Nancy not only guided the Zarifs, but also sat right by their side at the first appointment. Renee continued, “We were so serious and nervous, and she was just calm. When we walked in, she said, ‘let’s get oatmeal and coffee,’ like it was a breakfast date. I was a wreck, and she brought comfort; making everything more tolerable. We talked with the doctor, and once he said that I was going to lose my hair, I tuned out. I couldn’t even hear the rest of what he was saying. Nancy was there, thank G-d, to ask all the right questions; She is the expert, and that doctor was Hashem’s gift to me.

“Nancy and her wonderful staff took care of everything, from transferring files from one hospital to another, to finding the right insurance, to getting a wig ready for me, and getting meals cooked for our family, Nancy’s mind is like a computer. She knows which doctor and which hospital is right for each patient. She’s ten steps ahead, and when you can’t think straight, that’s more valuable than you can ever know.”

Rabbi David Ozeri
“When a community member reaches out to me about a cancer diagnosis, the first person I tell them to call is Nancy Sutton at the MIFCC. I know that they will be getting the best medical guidance and have all their needs taken care of throughout their illness.“

Rabbi Joey Haber
“When someone is sick, there are two parts to their disease, the physical ailment and the emotional pain. The beauty of the Morris I Franco Cancer Center is that you feel like you are in the best hands in the world with both!“

Herbert Pardes M.D.
Executive Vice Chairman of NewYork-Presbyterian Hospital

“On the one hand you can give surgery, radiation, and chemotherapy. But if you pay full attention to the emotional and psychological needs of the individual like you do here at the Morris I Franco Cancer Center, you can expect a 20-30% improvement in the medical outcome.”

Joey Shamie ringing the bell at Sloan Kettering, symbolizing the end of treatment and the beginning of the road to recovery.

Ralph Tawil is another fighter, one who is just beginning his journey. On the second day of Passover, he told his wife Tami that he was having trouble formulating his words. After the CAT scan, the doctor came to their room with a chair in hand. They knew the news could not be good.

Tami recalled, “The ER doctor sent us to NYU, where a new doctor recommended surgery within a day or two. I did not say the word ‘petrified’ even once. I couldn’t go there. I just put one foot in front of another. But surgery? Is this the right doctor? I knew I needed the expertise only the Cancer Center could offer. Nancy picked up my call while with her grandkids at Universal Studios in Florida. She settled them, and sat down. ‘I’m all yours,’” she said.

“Once I told her the story, she said, ‘This is brain surgery! We need to research this! Give me some time.’ But when she called me back twenty minutes later, she was sure. This is the guy. Do it. Afterwards, Nancy and I were talking twice a day at least. This was the right doctor for the surgery, but we needed a course of action going forward. Nancy told me to come in to the Cancer Center and see dedicated staff member Margie Mathews to collect copies of the scans to send out. I used to volunteer there, so to walk in, and be on the other side as a patient advocate, was surreal. I expected to get the scans and a list of doctors. Instead, Nancy was standing there with a big smile on her face, a hug ready and a muffin in hand. I am good at many things, but doctors—definitely not my forte. Nancy sent our records all over America, and later on, she would usher us into Duke, in North Carolina. ‘Do you need a charter? We can arrange it,’ she asked. ‘What’s a charter?’ I answered. She would have been on the plane with us, if not for COVID. Instead, she joined us via Zoom. The whole time she acted as if we were doing her a favor, by allowing her to help us,”

Joey Shamie explained the magic of the Cancer Center and the love, concern and expertise that they provided when he needed it most. “When Adrienne and I faced the reality of my diagnosis, the first “911” call we made was to Nancy. She was in Israel on vacation, but of course, that didn’t stop her. She treated me like family—a brother—and gave 100% of herself. She made me feel like I had my own personal advisor and confidant, helping me to think things through to the best solution. Aside from that, she showed me first hand that we all love and care about each other in this community.”

CARING CONNECTIONS
Rabbi David Ozeri recalled his first experience with the Cancer Center, ten years ago. “I brought in a patient truly traumatized by her diagnosis and Nancy took her by the hand, introduced her to the staff, and calmed her, in a way I never thought possible. I was amazed that something so complicated could be made so simple, and I never looked back. The patient received the best medical guidance and care available throughout her illness and she understood she was not alone; there was a light at the end of that dark tunnel. This is why the Cancer Center is always my first phone call in these situations.”

Nancy works in Brooklyn with her partners Sonia Didia, and Debbie Rahmey, and Gerrie Bamira heads up the Deal division. Together, with so many amazing volunteers, they have learned that healing comes not only from top quality medicine, but from people. From the very first meeting they are thinking of what the patient needs now, and later on. Is it counseling? A babysitter? A wig? A manicure or massage? Yoga? Meals for their family? Most helpful seems to be a connection that is made early on with other patients who have had similar experiences.

When Ralph was invited to a men’s group, and dinner, Tami was surprised he was open to it. “He’s so private,” she explained, “but Nancy managed to make him feel he was a part of something, and that she cared. It made him comfortable. I was also invited to a caregiver’s chat and get-together. Am I the caregiver, I asked myself? It’s an odd feeling to be part of a club I didn’t choose, but it’s comforting; it’s about showing you that somebody wants you to smile. It’s knowing we are in this together.”

Joey Shamie agreed, “We all love and care about each other, and have similar issues. We meet and talk on a regular basis. The Cancer Center treats us to beautiful meals, and the finest accommodations. It’s like they have an aerial view of what’s going on; because of their experience and dedication to the cause, they know how important it is for us to feel good. It’s a fantastic way of being able to heal, and help others to heal.”

When Nancy called Renee and said, “We’re doing a mosaics class, I want you to come,” she scoffed. Renee is a physical therapist, and like Tami, had been on the other side of the equation, working at the Cancer Center helping patients. Nancy begged, and she showed up. “I came, because I wanted to show my appreciation for all the Cancer Center was doing for me and my family. Meanwhile, it ended up being an incredible experience. I didn’t know anyone there, but quickly I became very comfortable. Who else could I talk to about the tricks to get through chemo? I laughed because I knew that Nancy had tailored that class to us, so we would lean on each other. It was a support group, incognito. We understood each other perfectly, and that helped.”

THE RED-CARPET TREATMENT
While of course, the Cancer Center is focused on providing the best medical treatment, both physical and mental, there is another facet of care that is tremendously appreciated by the patients and their families. Zarif continued, “Nancy called me a few days before I was supposed to start chemo, and said, ‘I booked a Broadway show for you tonight, and dinner at La Marais.’ My husband was reluctant to accept the extravagance, but I knew it was a treat we could not refuse. That night was the first time in months that we did not talk about my disease, the chemo, or our problems. There were more dinners to follow, on a beach, by a pool, and even hotel stays, but that night was the first, and it had tremendous impact. We reflect on it often.”

Tami recalled a similar story, “At the end of April, Nancy invited Ralph and me to have a five-course dinner set in a lovely backyard in Manhattan Beach—just us and the waiter. She wouldn’t take no for an answer, and it was really magnificent. My husband is a quiet guy; he doesn’t like a fuss to be made, but this was nice. We got a cheesecake on Shavuot, flowers on Shabbat. There’s always something special, and it’s nice to know someone is thinking of us.”

Zarif continued, “Throughout my treatment, I kept asking Nancy, ‘What if it doesn’t work?’ and she would answer, ‘What if it does?’ When I was in the hospital for a month the Cancer Center helped get me a nurse, sent meals to my home every day, and delivered gifts to my kids—which really distracted them, and helped. When I finally came home, they set up a lunch for my husband and me by someone’s pool, and later on, a dinner on the beach. I had many food restrictions then, because of the treatment, but they paid attention to the details. It is a beautiful form of hesed, and it forced us to forget about everything for a little while. I can’t justify how much she helped me. It’s the medical part, yes, and they are unsurpassed; But more so, afterwards, emotionally. I’m self-sufficient, organized, and in control. I’ve been working most of my married life. To say I need help is hard for me. But Nancy and her team understood. They might be the only ones who did.”

YOUR FIRST PHONE CALL
Joey Shamie continued, “Confidentiality is a burden that a cancer patient does not need. I encourage anyone that is going through these issues to open up and share, and accept the warmth and love that is around us. I am blessed with the amazing volunteers at the Cancer Center, my family, friends, and especially my wife Adrienne, who keeps me positive and helps me concentrate on my amazing life. Of course, I wish I never had it, but if I am honest, my experience over the last year has been the most rewarding of my life. Every person, gesture, doctor, nurse and technician has helped steer me towards recovery. From the head of the hospital to the young ladies who take my blood, I cannot thank them enough. Know that everyone is going through it with you. And that everything you put out there in the world, comes right back to you.”

Tami continued, “Ralph said that knowing that I had Nancy to hold my hand, was making his journey easier. Obviously, everyone’s taking care of him; but he was glad to know that someone was tending to me, too. From the beginning Nancy treated us like she had nothing better to do and no one else to worry about, no matter how busy she was. At a time when you’re so vulnerable, it feels good to have someone in your corner who is so experienced and knowledgeable. She continuously makes us feel like she is fully in charge of our care. It’s hard, but she makes it all a little easier.”

Adrienne Shamie said, “We sat in the doctor’s office calmly, awaiting a routine answer of ‘all is well.’ When the doctor gave us the news that my husband had stage 4 prostate cancer, we were shocked. ‘This is the kind of cancer you can die from, not the kind you live with,’ he said. I was sweating, and the whole room began to spin; we did not understand. We spoke with our children, and the next call I made was to Nancy Sutton. She picked up on one ring, from Israel. It was 2 am there. ‘What do you need,’ she asked. I was hysterical. The next day she had us in the very best doctor’s office, in Sloan Kettering. Nancy was by our side 24/7 and held my hand every step of the way. There were many complications, one after the other, but she was our guardian angel. Her expertise, connections and advice helped save my husband’s life.”

Dr. Herbert Pardes, vice chairman of NY Presbyterian Hospital explained, “On the one hand, you can give surgery, radiation and chemotherapy. But if you pay full attention to the emotional and psychological needs of the individual like they do at the Cancer Center, you can expect better overall results. It is all interconnected.” The Morris I. Franco Cancer and Referral Center helps their patients with anything and everything imaginable, going above and beyond, over and over again. Leaving no stone unturned, they are one of a kind; Their goal is to get their patients well, and they are very, very good at it.“

For more information about the Cancer Center and medical referrals, call (718) 787-1800 or visit us at nycancercenter.org.

Sophia Franco has been feeding her love of reading and writing for as long as she can remember through poetry, community journalism, and songwriting. She has written many songs.

NATALIE SENIOR GREENBERG

THE METROPOLITAN MUSEUM OF ART (OR THE MET) IS ONE OF THE WORLD’S GREATEST ART MUSEUMS. ITS COLLECTION SPANS 6,000 YEARS AND THE ENTIRE GLOBE. VISITORS FROM ALL OVER THE WORLD COME TO SEE ITS TREASURES. WHERE ELSE CAN YOU SEE THE INSIDE OF AN EGYPTIAN TOMB, A FULL SET OF JAPANESE ARMOR AND A ROOM OF RENAISSANCE PAINTINGS ALL IN ONE DAY?

As New Yorkers we are fortunate to call the Met our own, and New York City residents can “pay what they wish” to enter the museum, instead of the hefty $25 fee for tourists. I love to take advantage of this policy, and whenever I am on the Upper East Side of Manhattan, I pop into the Met for an hour to enjoy.

Planning a visit to the Met can be overwhelming, and I know that the thought of spending hours trudging around the museum may sound boring and tiresome. However, if you plan correctly, your visit will be very enjoyable.

The Met has 16 departments or collection areas, and each department can and should be treated as its own mini-museum. I recommend choosing only one or two areas per visit. A newcomer’s mistake (or the mistake of many tourists) is trying to cram in as much as they can in one day. Do not do this! It will leave you feeling tired, bored and overwhelmed; you will not want to return anytime soon. As a New Yorker, you can pay a small amount (even $1.00!) and return as often as you wish. Spending just an hour or two in one or two areas will give you a better understanding and appreciation of the area you are visiting and will leave you wanting more! Following are some recommendations (some, but not all of my favorites) for a great Met Museum visit.

EGYPTIAN ART
While wandering through the galleries of the Egyptian Art Wing of the museum, you will encounter statues of pharaohs, goddesses, animals and mummies. You will also see jewelry and tomb paintings. The highlight of the Egyptian collection is the Temple of Dendur, located in gallery 131. It is the only complete Egyptian Temple in the Western Hemisphere. A beautiful soaring gallery was built specifically to accommodate the temple. It is one of the most popular rooms in the museum and a must see.

GREEK AND ROMAN ART
The Greek and Roman Sculpture Court, located in gallery 162, is an exquisite two-story hall filled with objects from the Roman and Greek civilizations and the entire Mediterranean area. Many of the statues on display were intended to fill ancient gardens to create delight and comfort. There is a sense of calm in this space and you can sit on a bench and think about what it might have been like to be a wealthy Roman in ancient times. Look for the statue of the Three Graces, who represent beauty, charm and abundance. Be sure to check out the mezzanine above the sculpture court (gallery 170) to see an ancient Etruscan chariot.

EUROPEAN PAINTINGS
The Met’s collection of European paintings dates from the days of the early Renaissance to the present time. While I love to wander through the Renaissance portion, my favorite areas are the galleries of 19th and early 20th century art. Here you will find some of the Met’s greatest works by Impressionist master Claude Monet. The Impressionists were most interested in portraying the effects of light and air as well as an interest in the urbanization of Paris in the late 19th century. Look for the light effects as well as city paintings showing how Parisians liked to spend their leisure time.

Vincent Van Gogh’s paintings are displayed in galleries 822 and 825. His style changed rapidly during his short career, and you can see the transformation clearly. His early paintings are quite gloomy, but his later works are lighter and brighter with the thick brushstrokes that he became famous for. One of my favorites is Wheat Fields with Cypresses, which I consider to be the daytime version of The Starry Night (which is located at MoMA).

Check out the rooms nearby for paintings by Manet, Degas, Cezanne, Pissarro, Picasso and more; all masters of late 19th and early 20th century painting.

Here is a listing of all the departments at the Met Museum. My suggestions should get you off to a good start, but feel free to check out some of the other areas. Remember to keep your visit to less than two hours, and try to stick to only two areas to explore. Go back and visit often! There is always something new to see, as well as special exhibits. Have a wonderful time!

Metropolitan Museum of Art Departments

African Art
American Art
Ancient Near Eastern Art
Arms and Armor
Asian Art
Costume Institute
Drawings and Prints
Egyptian Art
European Paintings
European Sculpture and Decorative Arts
Greek and Roman Art
Islamic art
Medieval Art
Modern and Contemporary Art
Oceanic Art
Photography

The Metropolitan Museum of Art is located at 1000 Fifth Avenue (entrance at 84th Street) New York City. Bring proof of residency (like your driver’s license), so you can pay what you wish.

Natalie Senior Greenberg is a Brooklyn College Art History professor, and the founder, curator and owner of an online art gallery.

GOING INTO SUMMER 2021, WE AT SYC WERE NOT SURE WHAT TO EXPECT. WE KNEW WE WANTED TO CONTINUE TO MAKE EVENTS FOR OUR SINGLES, BUT WE DIDN’T KNOW IF IT WOULD BE POSSIBLE. LOOKING BACK, WE CAN GLADLY REPORT THAT THIS PAST SUMMER WAS ONE OF OUR MOST SUCCESSFUL YET!

We kicked off the summer with a collaboration with Jeffrey Sitt. Together, we planned a party for singles of the ages 25 and up. We had music, food, dancing and an awesome crowd of people all ready to meet someone. We are happy to report that at that very event a couple found each other and is now engaged.

Another successful event worth mentioning is our Mexican-themed dinner party. We arranged an intimate evening with Chef Vivian Saade Gartenberg of Vivian’s Cocina. The event was co-sponsored by Nissim Metta in honor of his wife, Frieda. We planned this event differently than a regular party. We carefully chose eight young ladies, and eight young men who we thought might make good matches. We set the table lavishly and meticulously. We then planned a cooking class. The singles had a great time learning how to make fresh tortillas, salsa, guacamole, and tetelas.

After the delicious dinner and cooking demonstration, everyone roasted marshmallows around a fire pit and ate desserts. It was a beautiful night and the atmosphere was relaxed. Our singles had fun while meeting some new people. BH we have a few couples dating from this event as well!

SYC is now in the process of planning more original events, including Shabbat dinners and theme nights. If you are single and looking for your match, we invite you to join us and see what all the talk is about! You really never know who is out there waiting for you.

Follow us on Instagram @syc.events for all our upcoming events.

HONORS 4 NYPD OFFICIALS

THE IGUD HARABANIM (RABBINICAL ALLIANCE OF AMERICA, RAA) RECENTLY HELD THEIR ANNUAL ELUL SIYUM HASHAS AND HONORED FOUR NYPD OFFICIALS FOR THEIR DEDICATED SERVICE TO THE CITIZENS OF NEW YORK. THE RECIPIENTS OF THE RAA’S PRESTIGIOUS AWARDS WERE POLICE COMMISSIONER DERMOT SHEA, CHIEF OF COMMUNITY AFFAIRS JEFFREY MADDREY, DEPUTY INSPECTOR RICHIE TAYLOR, AND CHAPLAIN IMAM DR. TAHIR.

The ceremony was held at Rabbi Eliyahu Elbaz’s Shul, the Sephardic Lebanese Congregation on Avenue T in Brooklyn. The Rabbinical Alliance of America was founded in 1942 and has over 800 members across North America. It also operates its own binding bet din.

Elected officials in attendance included Assemblyman Simcha Eichenstein, Councilman Kalman Yeger, representing Mayor Bill de Blasio was Assistant Commissioner Pinny Ringel, representing US Congresswoman Yvette Clarke was Gabriel Torres. Eli Slavin presented Congressional Proclamations to the honorees. Rabbi Mendy Mirocznik, Vice President of the Igud served as MC, Rabbi Michael Melnicke served as Dinner Chair and NYPD Clergy Liaison David Heskiel served as Chair of the Organizing Committee. The siyum was made by Rabbi Shaul Kassin, and the Hascholas Hashas by Rabbi Leibel Wulliger, Rosh HaKollel, Nachas Dovid, Yeshiva Torah Vodaath in Brooklyn. Rabbi Yaakov Klass serves as the Presidium member of the RAA, Rabbi Yehoshua Hecht serves as Convocation Chairman.

Commissioner Dermot Shea said, “we are going to get New York City back to where we want it to be. We need everyone’s help. We need help from our clergy, we need help from the private sector, we need help from elected officials, and we’re getting it. We’ve seen terrible things in this city before, and we’ve gotten to incredible heights. I’ll say to Jeff, to Richie, to Imam Tahir, we couldn’t do it without you and congratulations on your recognition. We are going to take this city back to those incredible heights, I have no doubt. In the spirit of togetherness, and where do you know the spirit of togetherness better than in Brooklyn. If there’s a hate crime against an Asian individual it’s a hate crime against us all. If there is a hate crime against a Jewish individual it’s a hate crime against us all. If there’s a hate crime against a Muslim individual it’s a hate crime against us all. And in the spirit of what we have seen this year, New Yorkers standing up together, is why I have no doubt that we will get New York City back to where we want it to be.”

Chief of Community Affairs Jeffrey Maddrey stated, “It’s an honor to be recognized by the Rabbinical Alliance of America, an organization that builds the community through its love of G-d and its love of people. The NYPD and the Jewish community enjoy a strong relationship.Here’s to many more years of friendship.”

Deputy Inspector Richie Taylor spoke about Hakarat Hatov (appreciation for good). “When I was a regular police officer studying for the sergeants exam in 2008, I evaluated many instructors, but one instructor stood out. At the time, he held the rank I currently hold, Deputy Inspector. Commissioner Dermot Shea was that instructor and I used to travel over an hour each way to attend his classes. He taught from the heart and he ensured that his students were prepared, because even back then he cared immensely about the future of his students, the police department, and New York City. When the four shuls in Riverdale had bricks thrown through their windows a few months ago, Commissioner Shea was hands-on, calling me and visiting the shuls. When we saw violent hate crimes against Jewish individuals, just a couple months ago in Flatbush and Boro Park, I was constantly on the phone with Commissioner Shea and Chief Maddrey who came to the community to ensure that community members were safe, and felt safe.”

DI Taylor also stated that he worked for Chief Jeffrey Maddrey as a sergeant, lieutenant, captain and now deputy inspector and credits Chief Maddrey for his hands-on leadership and for mentoring him in the best way possible. He further acknowledged his wife Miri, who attended just a week after giving birth to their fifth child, for her unwavering support.

NYPD Chaplain Imam Dr. Tahir stated “when I came from Egypt to the United States, the first community that welcomed me and gave me a microphone to speak to an American audience was the Jewish community and I am honored to be here. We love New York and we love our Jewish brothers and sisters. Happy and blessed Rosh Hashanah.”

NYPD Clergy Liaison David Heskiel said “I’ve worked closely with both, the Rabbinical Alliance of America and each of the four honorees and I stand here proudly as we join together for the betterment of our city and our future generations. Even during the toughest of times, in unity we will always prevail.”