AIMING TO COMBAT ANTI-SEMITISM

BARBARA MELAMED

GROWING UP IN THE SYRIAN COMMUNITY, WE’RE LEFT UNEXPOSED TO ANTI-SEMITISM UNTIL IT MANIFESTS CLOSE TO HOME. ONCE EXPOSED, MANY OF OUR COMMUNITY’S YOUNG ADULTS FEEL OVERWHELMED AND UNPREPARED. AS SAID BY FRIEDA COHEN, “I NEVER THOUGHT THIS WOULD HAPPEN TO ME, ON MY CAMPUS. IT JUST WASN’T POSSIBLE.”

After Michael Harary reached out to Ronnie Kassin and Frieda Cohen, they aligned a team of young adults ages 18 to 21 aiming to combat this issue of anti-Semitism. The committee felt frustrated and attacked and could no longer stand on the sidelines and watch our own nation be dangerously targeted. Instead, they decided to gather the resources necessary to combat anti-Semitism in all environments. This team is now known as Enough is Enough (EIE).

By empowering Jewish identity, implementing interactive education, and raising awareness amongst young adults, Enough is Enough will create a platform aiming to unite the community, build Jewish pride, and provide educational resources to fight against anti-Semitism. They plan to educate and empower students on why they must respond and how to properly respond to anti-Semitism. This starts with our high school students. It is our job to instill confidence and information within their minds so they will speak up in the face of adversity.

This past summer, EIE ran four inspiring and impactful events which attracted over five hundred participants. They collaborated with AIPAC and The SCC to conduct “Stoop Talk,” a moderated discussion with Julian Coakley, hosted by Monique and David Haddad. Coakley is a Christian man from the Bahamas who eventually became a valued member of AIPAC, and advocates for Israel. He stressed the importance of coexisting and the impact of having individual conversations to combat hate. After Stoop Talk, EIE put together a fundraising tennis match hosted by Ester and Joey Jerome with our very own David Mizrahi. Mizrahi spoke about his experiences and challenges while being away from home. “We have to realize that when we step into the real-world people are watching us. You are representing more than just yourself; you are representing an entire Jewish nation.”

Additionally, EIE held an exclusive interactive discussion for youth community leaders, in which they reflected upon the current situation in America and how the community can better prepare each other to be leaders as they enter adulthood. The young adults were able to showcase their inner thoughts while motivating each other to learn and do more. Their most recent event was held in partnership with StandWithUs. Together EIE, along with StandWithUs professionals, set up a variety of workshops where they went over specific tactics on how to respond to hate. Today, EIE is an SCA and StandWithUs affiliate, and is planning on partnering with many other successful organizations.

Their mission doesn’t stop there. There’s still a major lack of education regarding anti-Semitism that Enough is Enough intends to confront. As StandWithUs professional Avi Posnick said, “Anti-Semitism is a virus and EIE is creating the vaccine.” EIE plans on bringing interactive skill building and educational workshops to high school students across our community. From there they hope to expand into college campuses and beyond. Additionally, EIE is currently running a book club for young adults to further broaden their knowledge on the history of Jew hatred.

They would like to thank our incredible community that stands strong with Israel and supports organizations such as EIE, so they are able to make a difference. EIE is eager to do its part in combating one of the longest standing forms of hate the world has ever seen. We are Jews. We are proud. Enough is Enough.

Barbara Melamed is a freelance writer currently studying as an English major at Brooklyn College. She joined the Enough is Enough team eager to make a difference and stand in the fight against antiSemitism.

A HISTORIC CEREMONY HONORING 99 YEAR OLD WORLD WAR II VETERAN AND HERO OSCEOLA “OZZIE” FLETCHER, HOSTED BY CONGRESSWOMAN YVETTE CLARKE, WAS RECENTLY HELD AT THE JEWISH CHILDREN’S MUSEUM.

Mr. Fletcher, a longtime resident of Crown Heights, finally received his long-deserved Purple Heart this past June in Washington, DC, after his heroic service went unrecognized for eight decades.

After being injured in an explosion, Fletcher was not awarded the Purple Heart, “due to the US Army’s policy against Black soldiers,” Congresswoman Clarke related in her remarks. “During that time they were often overlooked and deliberately denied the Purple Heart.”

After the war, Fletcher returned to New York and made Crown Heights his home. He has been married for 72 years and has 5 children, 7 grandchildren, and 3 great-grandchildren. He served in the NYPD for 26 years, was a teacher for 14 years, and worked as a community relations specialist in the District Attorney’s Office for 24 years.

“Ozzie, you are indeed an inspiration to us all,” Congresswoman Clarke said as she presented a proclamation to him, “in recognition of your service to our country, fighting to uphold human rights and aiding in the efforts to save Holocaust survivors.”

Distinguished attendees included Israeli Deputy Consul General Israel Nitzan, JCM Founder Devorah Halberstam, 71st Precinct Commanding Officer Inspector Joseph Hayward, Community Affairs Commanding Officer Deputy Inspector Richie Taylor, NYPD Clergy Liaison and Flatbush COJO Board Member David Heskiel, Jewish Liaison to Congresswoman Clarke, Eli Slavin, 71st Precinct Community Affairs Detective Mike Baratta, Marine Park JCC President Shea Rubenstein, Crown Heights JCC Executive Director Rabbi Eli Cohen, and Flatbush COJO CEO Louis Welz.

Congresswoman Clarke invited numerous Holocaust survivors to attend the event. They all expressed Hakaras Hatov (appreciation) to Private First Class Fletcher.

WHEN IT’S JUST THE TWO OF YOU

SARINA ROFFE

EMPTY NESTERS, SINGLES AND THOSE LOOKING FOR NEW IDEAS MAY WANT TO TRY THESE EASY RECIPES. TYPICALLY, I AM PREPARING FOR A LARGE FAMILY. I KNOW THAT LOTS OF FOLKS HAVE A HARD TIME GOING FROM RECIPES THAT FEED 6, 8 OR EVEN 10 PEOPLE TO RECIPES THAT FEED 2.

Often, I would prepare a meal for the whole family just to find out it was just me and my husband. When this happened, I’d have a ton of leftovers. When I know it’s just going to be hubby and me, I whip up these recipes in 30 minutes and it’s a great dinner or lunch for two. Sometimes I will prepare one of these and take it for lunch in the office for me and my office mate. Try them, they are vegetarian, easy to make and delicious too!

MEDITERRANEAN BOWL WITH PISTACHIO RICE

Ingredients

• 1 red onion, half diced and half in wedges
• 2 cloves garlic, minced
• 3 sprigs parsley, chopped
• 1 lemon, zested
• 8 to 10 grape tomatoes, halved
• ½ cup basmati rice
• 1 tablespoon butter or olive oil
• 2 tablespoons pistachios, finely chopped
• 1 14 oz can chickpeas, drained and rinsed
• 2 teaspoons shwarma spice
• 4 tablespoons sour cream

Directions

Preheat oven to 400˚. In 1 quart pot, melt butter over medium heat, add the diced red onion, half the pistachios, half the garlic and 1 teaspoon shwarma spice. Cook and stir for 2 minutes, add ¾ cup water. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat to low and cook 15 min until rice is tender.

On a baking sheet, toss red onion wedges with tomatoes, chickpeas with large drizzle of olive oil Mix in 1 teaspoon shwarma spice, salt and pepper. Roast in oven for 15 minutes. Remove from oven and toss with lemon zest.

Optional: Mix sour cream with remaining garlic and salt. Stir in 1 teaspoon water and mix to drizzling consistency. Fluff rice and add cilantro and 1 tablespoon butter (optional). Spoon into 2 bowls. Top with vegetables and chickpeas. Sprinkle with juice from lemon. Drizzle with garlic sauce, if desired. Tip: if you’d like to make your own shwarma spice, mix equal parts: cumin, garlic powder, paprika, coriander, black pepper, and allspice.

TUNISIAN BULGHUR CARROT BOWLS WITH ORANGE PARSLEY VINAIGRETTE, FETA AND ALMONDS

Ingredients

• 3 carrots, peeled and sliced on angle
• ½ cup bulghur
• 4 sprigs parley, finely chopped
• 5 teaspoons red wine vinegar
• 3 oz fresh spinach
• ½ oz slivered almonds
• 1 tablespoon Tunisian spice
• ½ orange, zested, juice half orange and peel and dice the other half
• 2 teaspoons Dijon mustard
• Olive oil
• Salt and pepper
• ½ teaspoon sugar
• ½ cup feta cheese
• 1 oz dried apricots, diced

Directions

Preheat oven to 400˚. On baking sheet, drizzle carrots with olive oil, salt and ½ teaspoon Tunisian spice. Roast on top rack for 18 minutes. In 1 quart saucepan, combine apricots, bulghur, salt and 1 cup water. Boil, reduce to simmer and cover. Cook until water is absorbed, about 10 to 12 minutes. Remove from heat, uncover and cool slightly.

Make vinaigrette: add vinegar, mustard, half of the parsley, 2 tablespoons olive oil, ½ teaspoon sugar, salt and pepper. Whisk.

Place spinach in bowl and drizzle with half the vinaigrette. Toss well. Fluff bulghur and add to spinach with half the feta. Toss to combine.

Spoon bulghur salad into 2 bowls. Top with carrots, almonds, diced orange and remaining feta. Sprinkle with parsley and chili flakes (optional, as it adds heat).

Tip: If you would like to make your own Tunisian spice, combine ½ teaspoon garlic powder, ½ teaspoon smoked paprika, ¼ teaspoon turmeric, ½ teaspoon chili powder, 2 tablespoons ground coriander, 2 teaspoons ground caraway, ¼ teaspoon cayenne pepper, ¼ teaspoon cinnamon and ½ teaspoon black pepper.

TAGINE – APRICOT, ALMOND AND CHICKPEA WITH BASMATI RICE

Ingredients

• 1 onion, diced
• 2 cloves garlic, minced
• 1 can chickpeas, drained and rinsed
• 4 dried apricots, diced in small pieces
• 1 oz sliced almonds
• ½ cup basmati rice
• 1 zucchini
• 1 tablespoon Tunisian spice
• 1 lemon, zested and juiced
• 4 sprigs parsley, finely chopped
• Butter
• 4 tablespoons sour cream
• Salt and pepper

Directions

In 1 quart saucepan, drizzle olive oil over medium heat. Add ½ of the onion and saute until softened, about 4 minutes.
Add ¾ cup rice, and ¼ teaspoon salt. Bring to a boil, lower heat to simmer, cover and cook until water is evaporated, about 12 minutes.

In fry pan, heat drizzle of olive oil. Halve the zucchini lengthwise and slice crosswise into half moons. Add to pan with remaining onion and sauté until slightly browned, about 8 minutes. Add 1 teaspoon Tunisian spice, remaining garlic and salt to taste. Cook 2 more minutes.

Add 1/3 cup water to pan with chickpeas. Bring to simmer and let liquid reduce slightly. Add 1 tablespoon butter, juice from lemon, salt and pepper to taste.

Fluff rice and stir in 1 tablespoon butter; add salt and pepper to rice. Spoon rice into 2 bowls. Top with vegetables, almonds, and apricots. Sprinkle with parsley.

Optional: combine sour cream, salt and lemon zest. Mix and add 1 teaspoon of water at a time to get desired drizzle consistency. Drizzle over tagine.

Sarina Roffé is author of Backyard Kitchen: Mediterranean Salads and Backyard Kitchen: The Main Course. as well as Branching Out from Sepharad, available on Amazon. Her recipes have appeared in the NY Times, NY Times Jewish Cookbook as well as Joan Nathan’s Jewish Cooking in America. Sarina also wrote the “Food and Drink: Modern Period, Syria.” Her recipes can also be found at sephardiccuisine.com.

AN ANONYMOUS OLDER SINGLE

THEY SAY THERE ARE A LOT MORE FISH IN THE SEA. BUT WHEN YOU TAKE A LOOK AT THE SEA, IT IS IMPOSSIBLE NOT TO BE CYNICAL, TO SEE THE FISH ALL STRUGGLING, DESPERATE TO GET OUT OF THE WATER, TO BE PLACED IN THEIR OWN LITTLE TANK WITH JUST ONE OTHER.

The jaded heart does not comfort easily and the bruises acquired through years of experience never really go away. So you jump in the sea and give each fish in it a blinding flash of attention before turning to the next, never fully focusing on one too long, afraid to get hurt yet again. Afraid to be given the fraction of attention by ones who have been hurt just like you.

All of the scar-free fish have already been snatched, mostly when they were young and serene, not a care in the world, just starting out. They gave their pure hearts to the one who loved them, never asking questions, never hesitating to share their heart with someone else, that special someone they would do anything for and their loved one’s heart is equally shared in return.

All those left in the sea are the ones with broken fins, shattered hearts, fragmented souls too afraid but yearning for one just as bruised as they are to give them a chance, to give their attention to them for a moment, to pause and look into their eyes, the windows leading to their hurting soul, to give comfort and to make the choice to swim away to their very own little fish tank, away from the vast sea, where all of the other fish still swim, circling each other and waiting for another to give it all they’ve got. The chance of that happening should be high. After all, there are a lot more fish in the sea.

Sadly, surrounded by others yet totally alone, they never find comfort in each other’s company. They are strangers, never stopping long enough to find out what makes the other special, to form a bond that might connect their two hearts as one. Instead, they keep searching for one with fewer scars, who may be more beautiful, carefree, or perfect in some way.

The search never ends, a continuous journey of disappointments and longing, the waters surrounding them infused with fear of the unknown, swirling with regret and deep despair.

I ask you not to be afraid. I ask you to find just one, and make the choice to give it all you’ve got, so that you can swim away together to a tank of your very own. I ask you to leave the sea. The sea hurts the fish that are in it. The longer they are in there, the more dulled and pained they become, never resting, never ceasing to search, to find what is already there, that one beautiful fish that has been swimming right in front of them all along.

Compromise, take turns before you even love them, and give with your whole heart, choosing to dedicate your time and attention to one special person. Love is a choice and staying with that person who brings healing and happiness to your soul is one that you make constantly.

It may not be easy, but it is far more rewarding and beautiful than swimming with no end in sight. Choose friendship, companionship, and love; they are stronger than the deepest currents of the ocean. Choose someone to hug and to hold, to laugh and to cry with, to hold hands with and stay connected to. Catch one you like and never let it go.

One day, my hope is that there are fewer fish in the sea.

WITH THE HELP OF BROOKLYN’S BEST TOASTMASTERS

RACHEL ASHKENAZI

MANY YEARS AGO, I FOUND MYSELF IN A LEADERSHIP POSITION, SOMEWHAT ACCIDENTALLY. THIS WAS NOT SOMETHING I WAS READY FOR NOR WAS I FULLY COMFORTABLE WITH IT. I KNEW I HAD THE POTENTIAL FOR THE BACK-END WORK, BUT BEING FRONT AND CENTER WAS NOT SOMETHING I WANTED ANY PART OF.

Even more traumatic was finding myself, some months in, writing a speech to be delivered in front of thirty women. I wrote, I drafted, I edited. I woke up that morning with laryngitis.

I took to the podium with my body shaking from nerves and my voice cracking every other syllable. Miraculously, I somehow managed to crawl through the speech. I doubt anyone understood a word I attempted to say that afternoon. But it was over and I could breathe again. Until the next month when I had to do it all over again.

I wrote, I drafted, I edited. I woke up that morning with laryngitis. I kid you not, this pattern happened five or six times that year. Public speaking was, quite literally, making me sick. I vowed never to be in that position again and made sure to stay behind the scenes for the next several years, comfortably so.

And then I hit a wall. I had reached the point where making any progress on any of the paths I was leaning towards required public speaking skills, or at the very least the ability to address a crowd and not turn four shades of red. Only so much could be done without using your voice.

You could research public speaking to death, as I did, read books, as I did, study the greats, as I did, but the only way to truly get better at public speaking is through practice, and plenty of it. There is just no way around it. And so I jumped into Toastmasters, not willing to leave my dreams unrealized.

I reached out to Allegra Mamiye, President of Brooklyn’s Best Toastmasters (BBTM), who introduced me to the process and became my Toastmasters mentor. It was just that simple. One phone call and I had the full championing of the Toastmasters team behind me. It’s this combination of a dedicated mentor and an encouraging toastmaster group that allows each member to achieve success.

BBTM is our community club, chartered with Toastmasters International, a worldwide organization with a mission to create leaders through public speaking. BBTM is an incredibly supportive space where we’re all working towards the same goal, each of us at our own level and pace, each of us maintaining our individuality.

Whether it’s to present in front of a board, solicit on behalf of a charity or add polish to social media videos, this is the place to build those skills. When you’re comfortable in front of a crowd, the world opens up. You can put your ideas to use and make change, help others, create beauty. Effective communication skills are the gateway to confidence and leadership and to personal, familial and career success.

Toastmasters addresses the many aspects of public speaking. Most speech requirements have specific goals attached to them ranging from the preliminary steps of organizing and researching content to pinpointing and refining your personal delivery style. Skills like voice intonation, pauses and body language are worked on. Persuading an audience and using visual aids are practiced as well.

After one year in this amazing club, I’m still in disbelief every time I don’t get nervous before delivering a speech. I’m excited. I look forward to organizing my thoughts and words and sharing them. At the meetings, I’m eager to hear from my peers, to learn from them and witness their growth. When we partake in Table Topics, the impromptu speaking portion of the night, we laugh and challenge each other with our sometimes silly, sometimes thought-provoking questions.

Outside of Toastmasters I notice a difference too. I make a conscious effort to speak up more in meetings. I encourage a more elevated, descriptive vocabulary from my children. I learned to mentally prep what I’m going to say before I say it. Perhaps, most importantly, I haven’t had laryngitis in years!

For me, the Toastmasters benefits really come down to one simple thing—having a space to regularly exercise my public speaking skills. The how-to steps of speechmaking and evaluating we practice are incredible but that’s not what the main event is for me. BBTM is a place to learn, to trip and fall, and get back up without professional or social consequences. And the feedback is specific, ensuring we will do better next time.

This past July we had the thrill of our first in person meeting in over a year! For some who joined while on Zoom, it was a chance to finally meet our new crew in person. Taking these relationships offline was so rewarding and the energy in the room was palpable. The live/real time interaction between speaker and listener is something Zoom just can’t replicate. Our creativity has been rekindled and this is the year we’re going to push ourselves and take BBTM to new heights!

And so I invite you all to step into the Toastmasters arena and come practice with us. Please reach out to Nellie Haddad, VP of Membership, at nellbell1818@aol.com to strengthen your skills and elevate your life, infusing it with a renewed energy and a readiness to express yourself.

Get inspired. Build yourself. Share your mind. Live your dreams. Join Toastmasters.

Rachel Ashkenazi is Vice President of Public Relations, Brooklyn’s Best Toastmasters. She is a life long student who is always learning and growing.

RECENTLY, SBH BUSES TOOK 400 HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS TO UPSTATE NEW YORK FOR THE HIGHLY ANTICIPATED SBH JUNIOR MARATHON. THIS WEEKEND, AND PREPARING FOR IT, TAUGHT THE STUDENTS ABOUT HESED, SELF-ENCOURAGEMENT AND LEADERSHIP.

For many of these students, the Junior Marathon is the first time they raise money for charity, train for a 10K, and experience a full weekend away from home. It’s SBH’s goal to imbue the next generation of leaders with hesed, kindness and the dedication to give back.

Esther Naftali, one of the Junior Marathon Captains, shared her thoughts on the incredible weekend, “SBH Junior Marathon is a weekend never to be forgotten. It is filled with excitement, inspiration, motivation, and devotion. The beautiful and delicious Shabbat meals, as well as the fun and games provided, are just one small part of the weekend. From musical chairs to writing Shabbat-o-grams, to dancing in the rain, to running in the marathon, there’s always more excitement coming your way. Running in the marathon helps build one’s confidence and gives the runners that little boost that they can do anything they put their minds to. The speeches given throughout the weekend keep you on edge. The emotions and spirituality one feels during the times of the singing and speeches, won’t only change one’s perspective on hesed, but on one’s entire life as well! As you watch the tears fall and feel the love and connection to the people around you, you will want to freeze time, and live in that moment forever. Being a part of this powerful trip causes you to truly change your idea of hesed. Hesed isn’t only about giving to, caring for, and loving people without receiving anything in return; Hesed isn’t about changing the world and doing something astronomical. True hesed, in its essence, is acts of kindness to others, it’s the small acts done for the ones closest to you. It’s those tiny little acts that will bring you to the start of something new. This truly is what the idea of SBH’s Junior Marathon is all about. Taking that first step and desiring to do that hesed without it feeling like a chore, getting that feeling of accomplishment, and most importantly, giving you that push and opening your eyes to what SBH is all about. Hesed is a ripple effect. Trust me, once you start, you will never want to stop.”

The SBH Youth Division has hesed events every night of the week.

RABBI EZRA MAX PCC, MHMP

HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCED STRESS OR SELF-DOUBT? STRESS IS KNOWN TO BE A KILLER. IT CAN CAUSE MEDICAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL AND EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS THAT CAN LEAD TO HEART ATTACK, STROKE, AND DEATH.

What if you could live a stress-free life? What would it be worth to have no stress? How nice would that be? Perhaps there’s a way of managing stress so that it doesn’t kill us. What if we could understand stress differently, making it not all bad and evil. What if there are benefits to stress? What if there’s some value in being stressed?

One of my clients was doing really well. Millions of dollars in revenue with a decent-sized team when they hit a “speed bump,” which then created a few more bumps, and he was completely stressed out. Constant challenges, constantly putting out fires is how he described it.

“Oh, so you’re a fireman?” I asked.

He said, “No, I’m a businessman. I have a business, a team, customers, clients and vendors.”

I said, “It sounds like you’re a fireman.”

He replied, “I don’t know, fireman, businessman, fact is, I’m a very stressed out man, and I heard you can help me. Can you help me?”

“Yeah, absolutely.” I said, “I understand it, I get it. You have a tremendous amount of demands and you have constant emergencies. There are urgent situations that require your attention, and you feel like you’re not even breathing half of the time. At this point, you want to pull your hair out, escape, sell the business, or run away, but you can’t. You’re too invested here and you need to do something. I get it. Your life is mega stressful.”

He said, “Yeah, but can you solve it? Can you fix the problem?”

I answered, “Well, I don’t know if I can fix this for you, but I might be able to help you improve things. I can help you redefine your stress. If you allow me, I can coach you through a process of shifting, how you address your business, how you put out fires and help you become a fire chief instead of a fireman. I might know something about this from my years of experience in EMS (Emergency Medical Service) leadership.”

We began with understanding stress and its purpose. What I helped him recognize is that the stress and tension he was feeling was a message for him. True, it created a fight or flight type of response and this was becoming traumatic for him. Through coaching, he began to see benefits in feeling stressed because it was helping him notice potential problems and make improvements.

The ParenTEEN experience, an online program for parents to teach them the skills and tools I’ve been using to help families for over 20 years, was created from stress. Because parents keep telling me; we’re overwhelmed, we can’t handle this, we’re frustrated and need you to “fix my teen.” There are not enough hours in the day to help everyone, and I wanted to give back and make these tools accessible for people who weren’t able to pay $1,000’s for 1:1 coaching.

To be less stressed, we must begin to understand stress from a different perspective and perhaps even embrace it. Dr. Danny Friedland teaches that the essence of stress is when the perceived demands upon us are greater than our resources. When the demands upon us feel overwhelming, we react in fight or flight, triggering a downward negative spiral leading to feeling trapped. This can lead to collapse, depression, feeling extremely overwhelmed and burnout.

What are you to do, when the demands upon you are greater than the resources that you have?

You can use the tools and redefine your relationship with stress.

It’s not so funny, but when we’re feeling stressed, we’re stressed and that’s the most significant stress. Because we’re stressed about our stress and don’t know what to do, which creates more stress.

In the “Manage Your Stress 2.1” workshops, we encourage you to think about stress as information. You learn to pause, ground, breathe, notice and choose your response. Here are some possible reactions and ways for you to understand your stress.

REACT: This is usually an automatic fight or flight type reaction.

TEND & BEFRIEND: Tend to the distress and get curious about what it’s telling you.

HARNESS the ENERGY: Employ the energy and channel it to your advantage.

25 years ago as a young man starting out in the business world, I switched jobs planning to make more money and accepted less weekly income with long-term commissions. Meanwhile, I was going broke, and the fear of failure, the fear of not paying my rent, the fear of not being able to pay my bills, and the shame of not earning enough money to care for my family appropriately weighed heavily upon me because I was making less than what we needed. My income was less than my expenses and my savings were dwindling. As I looked at these negative numbers, my stress increased and the fight or flight instinct kicked in. The fear of failure was paramount, and yet this also created a particular fuel of desire. It fired me up and generated tremendous drive.

Instead of shutting me down and causing me to collapse, this fueled a tremendous drive and desire. Over the following 10 months, I doubled my income. Not once, but twice. You can do the same.

Remember, you have the most incredible resource for any demand. Hashem loves you and you can rely on Him to help you navigate your stress for your benefit. Stress can actually be a gift.

Rabbi Ezra Max, PCC, MHMP, Xchange Guide & Creator of “The Max Method” assists businesses and professionals deal with stress and achieve success. Rabbi Max has witnessed 20 years of results helping executives, parents and teens overcome struggles, improve communication and thrive. He lives in New York with his wife and five children.

“I THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO BE HOMELESS”

THE MITZVAH MAN RECENTLY RECEIVED A CALL THAT WENT LIKE THIS: “I’M IN MANHATTAN, MY NAME IS JAMIE, I’M 77 YEARS OLD AND BLIND. I HAD AN APPOINTMENT WITH MY DOCTOR THIS AFTERNOON THAT ENDED HOURS AGO. I’VE BEEN WAITING ALL DAY FOR A RIDE TO PICK ME UP AND TAKE ME HOME TO BROOKLYN, BUT NO ONE HAS ARRIVED YET.”

Jamie continued, “They keep telling me someone will be here soon, but it’s 7 p.m., it’s getting dark now, and it’s raining hard. I just remembered that a friend added your number to my contacts in case I ever had an emergency. I’m scared. I hope you can help.”

The Mitzvah Man replied, “I’m on it.”

Jamie described what happened next. “Within 20 minutes, a car pulled up. The person inside said, ‘Hi I’m a volunteer from Mitzvah Man and I’ll take you home.’ It’s amazing that he spotted me in the dark and rain. He safely and cautiously escorted me into his car and drove me home and at the same time calmed me down. I blessed the driver and the organization. I really thought I was going to be homeless for the night. It’s a relief to know that there are such kind people and a wonderful organization, willing to help those in need. Thank you, Mitzvah Man!”

NOW THAT DSN HAS BECOME THE CENTRAL HUB OF RECREATIONAL AND SOCIAL LIFE ON THE JERSEY SHORE, FAMILIES ARE CLAMORING TO BE INVOLVED IN DSN’S ACTIVITIES TO MEET AND HAVE FUN. TO HANDLE THE EXTRAORDINARY DEMAND, DSN WELCOMED DANIELLE SHEMUELI AS ITS ASSISTANT YOUTH DIRECTOR, JOINING AN ALREADY SUPERB TEAM.

Recently, hundreds of people excitedly poured into the DSN gymnasium for the legendary return of the Pajama Jam! Siblings, parents, cousins and friends were amongst the droves of community members who showed up at 5:30 p.m. for an evening of fun and amusement. Kids were ecstatic, their eyes wide open as they saw the large-scale bounce house, a musical concert on stage by Little Rockers, a delicious dinner consisting of noodles, pizza and cucumbers, along with personalized balloons.

Danielle Shemueli, DSN’s new Assistant Youth Director, stopped counting after 200 people. She grabbed the opportunity to greet new families and ensure they were having a blast. She noted “I’ve been to many of DSN’s pajama jams in past years as a parent. Now that I’m part of the best team, I am able to witness first-hand how much thought, effort and organization goes into the fun being created! I loved seeing kids and moms dancing and enjoying it so much! We need to do this again!”

Pajama jams are meant to bring families together—for mothers to meet new friends and children to enjoy a night out. As a benefit to DSN members, there is no charge, allowing all members to attend without hesitation.

New members were blown away and in awe, while ongoing members were flooded with memories of pajama jams from the past. Jersey mother Sonia Cohen was thrilled. “My kids were so eager to get back to DSN for pajama jam night! The memories of getting into their favorite pajamas to have dinner and play with their friends stayed throughout COVID! When pajama jam returned, this time my oldest child whispered to me ‘I missed this, and Ma, look, they even have a balloon guy this year!’”

Due to popular demand, the next pajama jam is already in the works. DSN promises to deliver them on an ongoing basis! Frieda Shamah, DSN’s Youth Program Director, explained, “I loved seeing all the new faces of those who recently moved to the area, and also seeing every single child having the time of their lives while enjoying our building. This makes me so happy and is why I love what I do!”

DSN member and mother Danielle Bromberg added, “We were so happy to have pajama jam back! The kids all got to be together again and everyone had a blast with their friends—kids and parents alike! We truly can’t wait for the next one!”

Sammy Sitt, DSN’s Executive Director, summarized, “As we move towards the post-pandemic world, DSN needs to be at the forefront of providing social and healthy activities for our community. Pajama jams are one of many ways we are accomplishing that goal. We are super fortunate to have a passionate and hard-working professional staff who give it their all to bring happiness to children and parents. With Hashem’s help, DSN will continue to provide exceptional programming for the growing community.”

MARY HALABANI

AFTER A LONG YEAR OF LIMITED PROGRAMS AND OPPORTUNITIES TO GATHER TOGETHER, THE CENTER DECIDED TO REOPEN ITS DOORS BY HOSTING A STREET PARTY! THE CENTER’S INSIDE OUT EVENT INCLUDED A MULTITUDE OF ACTIVITIES FOR ALL AGES, BOTH INSIDE AND OUT OF THE BUILDING.

Some of the free-of-charge delights that over 3,000 participants enjoyed included cotton candy and popcorn, as well as candy bags. Members and non-members also had fun bouncing around in our bouncy houses, tie-dying their own shirts, decorating planters, competing in fitness competitions, and dancing to live music from our DJ and Encore music instructors. In addition, our newly renovated sensory gym was a hit among the youngsters; kids were quick to explore the many swings, slides, foam pits, and other features located in the sensory gym.

Simultaneously, the Center was packed with teens participating in basketball tournaments, men and women attending exercise classes, children attending birthday parties, and others wandering between all the excitement. It was truly an incredible day, and it was just the beginning of everything the Center has in store.

Do you have questions about the Center? Call us at (718) 627-4300. Follow @thecenterscc on Instagram to stay in the loop about future events, opportunities, and programs.

Mary Halabani, Marketing Manager at the Center, spends her time capturing every smile she sees inside and outside of the building. Mary has over 4 years of combined experience working in politics, publishing, and other non-profit organizations.

IT’S ALL ABOUT THE CHILDREN

SARINA ROFFÉ

TWENTY-FIVE YEARS AGO, I BEGAN ATTENDING THE CHILDREN’S MINYAN AT CONGREGATION BETH TORAH ON SATURDAY MORNINGS WITH MY YOUNGEST SON. IT WAS A FEW YEARS BEFORE HIS BAR MITZVAH. AS WE WALKED IN THE DOOR, WE WERE WELCOMED WITH OPEN ARMS BY RABBI SHIMON COHEN A”H AND SEVERAL OF THE GUYS WHO VOLUNTEERED THEIR TIME DURING THE SERVICE. RABBI COHEN’S ENERGY FILLED THE ROOM AS HE HUGGED EACH CHILD, HIS WARM SMILE EMBRACING THEM WITH LOVE. THE VOLUNTEERS WERE THE UNSUNG HEROES WHOSE WORK ON SUNDAY MORNINGS ASSURED THAT THE SERVICE RAN SMOOTHLY, THAT THERE WERE TOYS, PRIZES, AND FOOD FOR THE FOLLOWING SHABBAT.

Ronnie Gindi happily gave out lollipops, stashed in all his pockets, and made crying toddlers happy, his smile beaming throughout the room. Then there was Moe Kishk, who kept my son on task, and others who assigned the weekly portions to the children so they could practice for the next week. The ambiance was of a warm welcoming home with the volunteers who made it happen, week in and week out.

Gone was the stilted stuffy feel of simply praying. The children were motivated with positive reinforcement, a sense of accomplishment and rewards for their efforts. Of course, the underlying reason for the minyan was to teach Torah and community values. Moreover, the children wanted to be there. There was a sense of family and togetherness. And while many of the fathers may have preferred to sleep in after a long week at work, their children pushed them to attend services.

The Beth Torah Children’s Minyan began about 40 years ago with Dr. Ezra Cohen, Abie Hanono, Moe Kishk, Allan Menaged and another humble gentleman we shall call Mr. Hesed, because he asked to remain anonymous. Within a year, Abie Hanono had recruited Rabbi Cohen for the minyan and in turn, Rabbi Cohen recruited Ronnie Gindi as a volunteer. Of the original group, Mr. Hesed and Ronnie Gindi remain, while others have stepped in—Joe Chappan, Ralph Terzi, Sol Wahba, Victor Znati, Morris Varon, and others. Rabbi David Shelby was hired to fill the huge shoes of Rabbi Cohen, who passed on in 2016.

“We wanted to get the kids away from their television sets and into the synagogue,” said Moe Kishk. “The kids wanted to come to get the ice cream and toys, and they had to drag their parents. Some fathers who never came to shul started to come with their kids.”

“Before the minyan, we had kids roaming streets. They didn’t want to sit with their fathers in the main shul. Kids needs are different and they needed to be able to participate so we started something more interactive and participatory,” said Dr. Ezra Cohen.

“The future of the shul is our children. We gave them incentives. We held mini trips, went fishing, and had carnivals with prizes. Moe Kishk and I used to make tuna fish for seuda selushit. The rabbi gave them tapes to learn parts for the Shabbat service. We did silly things like give them tickets to a baseball game. With these incentives, they became regulars. Many of them continue to learn and have become leaders. Now they bring their children.”

Indeed, Rabbi Eli Mansour was one of those children. “Rabbi Cohen had a huge impact on me and my friends,” he said. “He had tremendous energy and we felt it. Because of him, we got to read, and we became more comfortable reading, and many are hazzanim today. We learned the minhagim and how to pray. He mentored us for several years and built our self-confidence.”

Indeed, Rabbi Cohen’s influence will live on for generations. The overwhelming majority of those students live Torah observant lives. Rabbi Cohen was the paragon of this virtue, going to endless lengths to connect to the essence of each child. The peripheral effect that this had on the many families of these students is staggering.

Rabbi Mansour said “It was the lay leaders behind the scenes who were instrumental in making it all happen. These were prominent men who could have prayed upstairs in the main sanctuary. If you ask them, they will say that the future of Beth Torah and or the community, is in the basement, not the first floor. They understood the importance of directing their energy to the youth.”

Ralph Terzi was a student of Rabbi Cohen when he attended Magen David Yeshivah. He said Rabbi Cohen encouraged him to come to Beth Torah when he was just 10 years old. Each week the Rabbi gave him tasks to do. “One week it was setting up chairs, then it was putting away books. Every week, he added a thing I had to do.” That was 25 years ago.

Now Ralph brings his three sons there and volunteers each week. “I want them to feel the same energy I did when I was 12. It all started with Rabbi Cohen. He loved working with the children and that satisfaction has propelled me forward. Every time I see a boy go up to the Torah and read for the first time, I am seeing the results of carrying our traditions forward to the next generation.”

“Rabbi Cohen loved every child no matter how old they were,” said Moe. “He hugged them and welcomed them as if they were kings. Every child got his big smile. I worked with him for 25 years. He attracted a lot of kids and they will never forget him. Rabbi Cohen was a walking mezuzah, everyone came to kiss him.”

BEHIND THE SCENES

The lay leaders in the synagogue, the volunteers who operate behind the scenes of Beth Torah Children’s Minyan, are there week in and week out, one for 38 years, another for 35 years, and so on.

Take Mr. Hesed. Responsible for the games, prizes, backpacks and toys at Simchat Torah, he works all year collecting items, making deals with toy vendors, and going to Costco or BJ’s to buy items. He devotes a full section of his warehouse to storing the items. Not by himself, others help as well because the job is too big for one person.

“One day he (Mr. Hesed) heard about a closeout and took his truck to go pick up the goods. He lost a half day’s work. He did it silently, by himself, and did not want any credit. He even goes to Carvel to get the kids ice cream,” said Dr. Cohen. “He is an unsung hero.”

Ronnie Gindi learned to give out lollipops and candy from his father, Jack Gindi, who did it years ago at Congregation Shaare Zion. He has been a volunteer at the Beth Torah Children’s minyan for 35 years, week in and week out.

“My job is to make sure no one goes home unhappy. We want the children to come back, to feel like the synagogue is the place to be,” said Ronnie. “We have about 300 kids each week and we give out about 35 prizes. We also supply Morah Etti, Ms. Stern’s group, Rabbi Joe Mizrahi’s minyan and others. We buy a lot of stuff in bulk, as well as candy and ice cream.

“We are world famous for the minyan. It’s a very big high for a father to see his son read and we make a big deal for each child. It’s unbelievably fantastic. The kid walks away and feels like he won the lottery.”

Ronnie Gindi was in Rabbi Cohen’s first class at Magen David Yeshivah. “He changed me as a kid,” Ronnie said. “He was a substitute teacher at Magen David in a particularly difficult class and the students challenged him. But he changed them. And they grew to love him. When he wanted me to help in the children’s minyan, I told him I was a rebel. I’m a big sports guy. I played high school and college basketball. I figured I would help for two weeks and be done. But now here I am, in my 35th year.

“When my kids began getting older, I wanted to go to shul with my adult children, Rabbi Cohen said ‘This is more important. You must stay with the kids’ program’ and it was a promise I made to him to keep the minyan thriving.”

On Simchat Torah alone, the volunteers prepare 1,500 backpacks for children who seem to come out of the woodwork that day. According to Ronnie, “One time I said to Rabbi Cohen ‘Most of these kids just come for the backpacks, they don’t attend. Rabbi Cohen said ‘Are they Jewish?’ Yes. ‘Are they children?’ Yes. ‘Then give them a bag.’ He taught us how important the children are.”

“It’s like a choreographed show,” said Sol Wahba, who among a thousand myriad tasks orchestrates the carnivals. “Who will do this and who will do that, every 15 minutes. Everyone does their part and no one gets credit. “Sometimes we run short and we have to run to BJ’s and buy candy, and some are putting thousands of dollars on their personal credit cards. Who wants to do that on a Saturday night? And then bring it back and unload it for the next week. But we do it for the children.

“It’s Hashem putting you in the place and you have the ability to do something others can’t. At the same time, there has to be a balance between praying, giving out candy and decorum. The main thing is to keep everyone happy and do it with a smile.”

“This past year or so was hard. We did drive-bys for Hanukkah and Simchat Torah, a virtual Chinese Auction and creative things to keep the children engaged.”

THE NEXT GENERATION: RABBI DAVID SHELBY

Not long after Rabbi Shimon Cohen became ill and then passed away, Rabbi David Shelby was recruited to run the minyan. Rabbi Shelby had big shoes to fill, as Rabbi Cohen was considered a giant.

The volunteers say he was a perfect fit, as he emanates the same warmth Rabbi Cohen did, his ear-to-ear smile welcoming the children.

“Rabbi Shelby has the same demeanor. His warmth attracts people,” said Ralph.

“It’s the biggest kids minyan in the community and he (Rabbi Cohen) was the greatest of the great,” said Rabbi Shelby. “He taught us how to sing in the rain instead of waiting for the rain to pass; I knew him my entire life. I worked with him in Magen David.

“I have a lot of respect for the volunteers who commit themselves to the service. It’s hard to volunteer. They get no glory or recognition, only aggravation. It’s noisy and there is a lot of action, and they still do it. You would think they would get tired.

“I think of it as a life lesson. When you park you are sitting still; when you drive, you are moving forward. The minyan is motivation in drive. We can’t sit back and pray and hope. We take action and do something. These volunteers have memories from when they were children, and they want the kids to have those same positive memories. The kids will remember an upscale Purim party or a fishing or basketball trip.

“These guys keep the legacy going. And besides the minyan, they do other things for the kids. Every Sukkot, Mr. Hesed buys extra lulav and etrogim. If a kid comes to shul without one because he can’t afford it, Mr. Hesed doesn’t want the child to feel out of place, so he gives them out. And not every child is as learning-abled as others, so Mr. Hesed pays for private tutoring for some kids.

The kids come to shul to get a prize and candy, but the underlying goal is to teach them, which in turn nurtures the heritage and preserves the traditions of our community. And these same volunteers help out all the other synagogues in the community, as well as those in Deal during the summer. It’s all about the children.

These volunteers are unsung heroes who make it all happen.

A genealogist and historian, Sarina Roffé is the author of Branching Out from Sepharad and cookbooks. She is President of the Sephardic Heritage Project, Co-Chair of the Brooklyn Jewish Historical Initiative and Chair of the Sephardic Research Division of JewishGen. Editor of the journal Dorot, Sarina holds a BA in Journalism, and an MA in Jewish Studies and an MBA.

STANDING UP TO ANTI-SEMITISM AT THE CENTER

IRENE HANAN

THIS SUMMER AT THE HEIGHT OF ISRAEL’S LATEST CONFLICT WITH GAZA IT SEEMED EVERY CELEBRITY AND INFLUENCER WAS PUTTING OUT VICIOUS ANTI-ISRAEL PROPAGANDA, LEADING TO A NEW SURGE OF ANTI-SEMITISM HERE IN AMERICA.

It felt like you couldn’t open social media without seeing dangerous misinformation and vilification of Israel. Where were the truth speakers? Where were the pro-Israel voices? Very few people were speaking out publicly for Israel or for Jews, and the silence was deafening. It was during this time that Meghan McCain posted a picture of her dad, former presidential candidate Senator John McCain, and Senator Joe Lieberman at the Kotel. Her caption, seen by over a million of her followers on Twitter and Instagram read “All my passion, everything I believe in my soul comes from the two of them−proud Zionist today, tomorrow, always.” This was not the first time McCain had showed her support for Israel, but it was the moment when we decided to bring her and Lieberman to the Sephardic Center to discuss “standing up to anti-semetism”

The Sephardic Community Center and the SCA joined together to bring these two strong Israel supporters to our community. Meghan, who is well-known from her time on ABC’s The View, as well as being a columnist and author, is also famous for speaking her mind and advocating for what she believes in.

This was Lieberman’s second time coming to our Center, and his affinity and love for our community was apparent. He is known for his integrity and is the true embodiment of a Jewish hero. Ricky Novick, the president of the SCC said, “Bringing high caliber events like this to the Center has always been one of our priorities. As a community that cherishes our connection to Israel it was our honor to make this program a reality.“

Corie Adjmi, award winning author, moderated the event. She interviewed our guests with eloquence and warmth. It was obvious she cares deeply about this issue and put much thought and preparation into her role. The audience felt as if we were listening to a discussion between three long time friends.

Jeffrey Beyda, president of the SCA said, “Advocating for Israel, fighting anti-Semitism, supporting those who speak out against it and preparing our young adults for the challenges Jewish Americans face on college campuses are part of the SCA’s core values and mission. The SCA is constantly working to fulfill that goal and working with like-minded institutions that share our values. It was our pleasure to invite a select group of young adults to participate in a meet and greet with the guests as well as ask them questions as part of the main program.”

The night was inspiring on many levels. McCain and Lieberman had an obvious love and admiration for each other. It was so special for our community to be able to bring them together. They spoke with intelligence and pride about a range of issues that affect the Jewish community. It was uplifting and educational to hear their perspectives. The audience was truly moved by the words of both guests. The discussion was at times a behind the scenes look at politics and media as well as a call to action to everyone present to get involved, not be silent and not be afraid.

Thank you to Kathy Shabot at the Center for everything you did to make sure this event was a huge success!

Irene Hanan is a board member of the SCA and program chair of the SCC’s Israel Advocacy department.

ON SUNDAY OCTOBER 17TH, NYPD COMMISSIONER DERMOT SHEA MET WITH ELECTED OFFICIALS, COMMUNITY LEADERS AND YESHIVAH OF FLATBUSH ADMINISTRATORS TO ANNOUNCE THE ARREST OF THE INDIVIDUAL RESPONSIBLE FOR POURING GASOLINE AROUND THE YESHIVAH AND SETTING IT ON FIRE THREE DAYS EARLIER.

Many important members of the police department, as well as politicians were in attendance, including Brooklyn South Commanding Officer Assistant Chief Michael Kemper, Commanding Officer of the 70th Precinct Inspector David Wall, Commanding Officer of Citywide Community Affairs Deputy Inspector Richie Taylor, NYPD Clergy Liaison David Heskiel, Assemblyman Simcha Eichenstein, Councilman Kalman Yeger, Mayor’s Office Assistant Commissioner Pinny Ringel, Head of Flatbush Yeshivah Rabbi Joseph Beyda, Flatbush Yeshivah Assistant Principal Rabbi David Galpert, Hatzalah CEO Yechiel Kalish, Flatbush Shomrim Coordinators Bob Moskovitz and Steve Weill, Flatbush Jewish Community Coalition Chair Josh Mehlman, Lieutenant Ira Jablonsky and community leaders Mitch Vilinsky, Joe Dweck, Judah Cohen, and David Assis.

The perpetrator, 39 year old Sharee Jones of Brooklyn was charged with reckless endangerment as a hate crime and arson for pouring gasoline around the yeshivah gate and lighting it on fire. There were no injuries Baruch Hashem, minor property damage was sustained to the sidewalk.

Deputy Inspector Taylor introduced everyone to Commissioner Shea, who received a very warm welcome. Commissioner Shea unequivocally pledged that any criminal act of hate in NYC will be thoroughly investigated and every appropriate resource will be utilized to bring those responsible into custody.

After leaving Yeshivah of Flatbush, Commissioner Shea and others walked along Avenue J, stopping to say hello to kids and pedestrians, demonstrating that the NYPD understands the community’s concern by bringing a sense of security and professional police presence to the area. Commissioner Shea stopped for lunch at Pizza Time (after being assured it was kosher), showing additional solidarity and sensitivity to the community.

He greeted dozens of pleasantly surprised families. One customer remarked “seeing the police commissioner here in our neighborhood just two blocks away from where that fire was intentionally started means so much, he really understands how we feel.” Another customer stated “We are truly blessed to have him as our commissioner. What a Mensch!”

STICKER SHOCK AT THE GROCERY STORE? PRICE HIKES AT THE PUMPS? PRICES ARE GOING UP AND SPENDING MORE FOR BASICS CAN BE STARTLING. DO YOU REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME YOU NOTICED PRICES INCREASING OR DID IT HAPPEN SO GRADUALLY THAT YOU MISSED IT? INFLATION IS OFTEN MORE COMPLICATED THAN WE REALIZE AND IT’LL BE WITH US FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES. SO, WHAT COULD PRICES LOOK LIKE IN 2030? LET’S FIND OUT BY LOOKING AT SOME HISTORICAL DATA, AND PROJECTING HOW PRICES FOR THINGS LIKE FOOD AND HOUSING COULD GO UP.

Sticker Shock?
HOW YOUR BILLS WILL RISE IN 2030

WHAT IS INFLATION?

Inflation is a measurement of how fast the prices of goods and services increase. As inflation rises, prices do too because it takes more dollars to buy the same things. Deflation is the opposite—it brings prices lower and increases buying power.

Both inflation and deflation are tied to a complex web of economic factors—such as supply and demand, wages, government spending, taxes, and more.

The Consumer Price Index (CPI) is a useful indicator of inflation and deflation. It’s sort of a cost-of-living index, looking at price changes, over time, for the goods and services used by households.

The prices and predictions that follow are based on historical averages going back to 2000 for different areas of spending.

HOUSING

Average annual inflation rate: 2.39%

Housing could be almost 27% more expensive by 2030. That means a house that costs $400,000 today could run you $506,388 in 10 years.

Depending on where you’re buying in the future, you could be paying much more than that. In fact, by 2030, the average home in Washington state will probably run you $782,708.

If you prefer the Aloha state, expect to fork over $889,627 for an average home. And topping the list for the fastest rising housing prices is California, where the average home will likely cost more than $1 million by 2030.

FOOD & BEVERAGES

Average annual inflation rate: 2.33%

Food and drinks may be about 26% more expensive by 2030. That means a trip to the grocery store that costs you $250 today could set you back more than $314.

If you like fresh fruit, your grocery bills could climb higher even sooner. That’s because prices for fresh fruit have been rising at about twice the pace of meat, poultry, and fish.

As food costs across the board continue to rise, they may not be the only thing about your food purchases that change by 2030. Your diet could, too. In fact, by 2030, more folks may give up red meat, replacing it with poultry and dairy products.

HEALTH CARE

Average annual inflation rate: 1.83%

Health care could be 20% more expensive by 2030. That means care costing you $5,000 today could cost you $6,000 in 10 years.

In 2021, a retired couple was projected to need $300,000 in savings to cover health care in retirement. In 2030, those costs could rise to over $350,000.

GAS & TRANSPORTATION

Average annual inflation rate: 1.38%

Fuel and transportation are likely to be nearly 15% more expensive by 2030. That means a car that costs $40,000 now could run you $45,858 in 10 years.

However, electric vehicles (EVs) could act as a price disrupter. There could be as many as 145 million EVs on the road by 2030.

Plus, some carmakers are working to cut the cost of batteries for EVs in half by 2030. Paired with self-driving technology, the transportation industry could look completely different in the next 10 years.

COLLEGE

Average annual inflation rate: 4.93%

A public four year university may be about 62% more expensive by 2030. Annual tuition and fees of $4,000 today for a two year college could cost $6,324 by 2030.

For a four year public university that runs you $20,000 today, you’re looking at $32,376 within 10 years. And a private four year university cost of $44,000 could increase to $68,022 by 2030.

However, the higher education industry is being massively disrupted by virtual learning and changing educational preferences. Within 10 years, these and other factors are bound to change, making higher education costs challenging to predict.

FINANCIAL LESSON

Like many things in life and money, inflation isn’t always bad, but it is inevitable, so figure out how to take advantage of it.

Inflation affects far more than up-front prices. It shakes up the costs of doing business and borrowing money. And it can affect savings, bonds, and plans for the future.

We often don’t notice these changes year to year, though. That’s because inflation comes in small doses. A few bucks more here, a couple hundred more there—it creeps up over time. It’s the reason why inflation has a well-deserved reputation as a “silent killer.”

Still, like many things in life and finance, inflation isn’t all bad. When steady and predictable, a moderate amount can be good as it can signal a healthy, growing economy.

Inflation causes problems when it increases suddenly and rapidly, or when folks haven’t planned for future price increases.

This article is for informational purposes only. It has been compiled from data considered to be reliable, but we do not make any guarantees regarding accuracy, adequacy, or completeness.

Ari Baum, CFP® is the founder and CEO of Endurance Wealth Partners, with over two decades of experience in the Financial Services industry. He brings his in-depth experience to Conceive. Believe. Achieve. for his clients.

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