UNITING STUDENTS, PARENTS & TEACHERS AT ATIDANYU OUR FUTURE SCHOOL
TO CELEBRATE THE REMARKABLE GROWTH OF THEIR STUDENTS THIS YEAR, ATIDAYNU OUR FUTURE SCHOOL HELD A CAPTIVATING GARDEN OF KNOWLEDGE â GROWTH GALA CELEBRATION. ATIDAYNU IS A SCHOOL IN BROOKLYN THAT IS GEARED TOWARDS STUDENTS WITH VARIOUS SPECIAL NEEDS WHO ARE SEEKING A WARM AND PERSONALIZED EDUCATIONAL EXPERIENCE.
The end of the year celebratory gala was a fabulous opportunity for parents, students, teachers and therapists to come together to celebrate the hard work and accomplishments of the students. Educational Director at Atidaynu Simi Bazov commented, âThe success of our students is brought through a collaborative effort, made possible by our incredible team, our beloved students and their supportive families. The end of the year is a perfect time to celebrate this collaboration.â Throughout the school year, Atidaynu students have joined forces to achieve various academic, social-emotional, and related goals. Hand-in-hand with dedicated, and individually matched providers, these remarkable achievements were proudly showcased at the gala, serving as a meaningful testament to their collaborative journey.
âThis gala honed in on each of our studentâs individual strengths,â a team member remarked. At the gala, students proudly displayed unique tri-fold exhibits, showcasing a significant aspect of their personal growth this school year. Each tri-fold display was co-created by a student with the support of a specific provider who worked with the student to achieve and finally showcase their goals. While some students worked with a therapist to shed light on their improved social, occupational, or physical therapy skills, others worked with a provider to proudly exhibit their academic accomplishments in areas like reading, writing, math, or even Mishnayot. Along with their tri-fold displays, students crafted activities and memorable items to hand out that represented their skill. One student, who chose to showcase her social improvements and efforts in speech-therapy, used a Polaroid camera to take and give pictures as mementos for her friends. âThe exhibit offered students an opportunity to show off and work on their social skills as they stood in front of their friends and families explaining their booths,â a therapist noted.
The event also featured an awards ceremony, wherein each student was celebrated. âWe believe that each student is worth celebrating â both for who they are and for the efforts that they make,â a provider explained. Students were presented with an award for their personal accomplishments in front of their friends, their family, and their providers. They also received growth-themed gifts, such as planting sets or flowers, commemorating their achievements. As a touching conclusion, an end-of-year memory video was presented, allowing everyone to reflect upon the memorable moments at Atidaynu this year that brought each student to this moment.
Atidaynu is a school specializing in special education, designed for students diagnosed with Autism, speech and language difficulties, and related developmental disorders or academic needs. We welcome elementary school age children from diverse ethnic, social and economic backgrounds. We offer a thoughtfully designed, comprehensive array of academic and support services in order to serve each child as a whole, identifying each childâs unique learning style.
Our program is tailored to meet the particular needs of each individual student, while delivering a complete elementary school curriculum including reading, writing, math, science, social studies, art, music and STEM.
Atidaynu strongly believes that passion, compassion and love are the best tools to nurture our students. The Garden of Knowledge â Growth Gala Celebration provided an enriching and memorable experience, not only for the students and their families but also for the dedicated staff who diligently supported their growth and development.
WATER TRANSPORTS NUTRIENTS TO ORGANS AND CELLS, CARRIES AWAY TOXINS, SERVES AS A LUBRICANT FOR JOINTS AND BONES, HELPS US REGULATE OUR BODY TEMPERATURE AND EVEN IMPACTS BRAIN FUNCTION. WITHOUT WATER, WE SIMPLY CANNOT SURVIVE. THAT SAID, YOU DONâT HAVE TO BE ON THE BRINK OF DEATH TO FEEL THE EFFECTS OF DEHYDRATION. EVEN A 2% DECREASE IN BODY WEIGHT DUE TO FLUID LOSS CAN IMPACT PHYSICAL AND MENTAL PERFORMANCE.
Many of us worry that our kids are receiving unhealthy snacks in camp but do we know if they are drinking enough water? Studies have found that more than half of Americaâs youth do not drink enough water. Though it changes depending on a childâs size and activity level, children should drink two to three quarts a day.
The concern is that a dehydrated child could also be a fatigued child and a distracted child. Thus could affect their attention level. Send your kids to camp with a water bottle and money to buy an additional one throughout the day. Talk to them about the importance of staying hydrated in camp. Encourage them to sip throughout the day, not just when they are thirsty.
Children arenât the only ones who can get dehydrated, itâs equally important for adults to stay hydrated as well. Drinking too little water can have an enormous impact on our health and day-to-day function. Our body is composed of roughly 60% water and every major system is influenced by fluid balance.
The Institute of Medicine recommends 3.7 liters each day for adult men and 2.7 liters a day for adult women; however, I say you may need less or even more if youâre physically active or breast-feeding and during the warmer months. Itâs also important to keep in mind that water loss varies from person to person, and some people naturally need more fluid than others. Everyone has a different requirement.
Roughly 80% of our hydration needs come from fluids like water, milk and tea. The remaining 20% comes from high-water foods such as fruit, veggies and yogurt. Some fluid and food choices are better than others for hydration. For example, alcoholic beverages are fluids that increase water loss by blocking anti-diuretic hormones.
Good fluids include water, both sparkling and regular, tea, and milk (especially for children). Good foods include most vegetables and fruits.
Itâs important to drink more water when you exercise, in warm weather, when you drink alcohol, have a fever, diarrhea, or you throw up. Coffee was previously thought to be dehydrating, but recent research suggests this is not the case.
Before a workout, hydrate frequently throughout the day. Cap off your fluid tank with œ to 1 cup of water 15 to 20 minutes before exercise. During your workout, drink œ a cup of fluid for every 20 minutes of exercise. After your workout drink 2 cups of water. Add coconut water or an electrolyte supplement during and after exercise if you sweat profusely or work out for more than 60 minutes.
Common signs of dehydration include thirst, brain fog, fatigue and irritability, constipation, dark yellow urine, dizziness, rapid or irregular heartbeat, dry mouth, sunken eyes and dry skin, reduced urine or sweat output, headache, joint pain and cramps, and elevated body temperature.
Keep a water bottle everywhere else you spend a significant amount of time. Track your water intake with an app like MyFitnessPal. If you donât like water, try adding fruit to it.
Drink a glass of water with every meal and snack, invest in good water bottles, many keep beverages cold (or hot) for up to 24 hours. Finally, start your meal with a broth-based soup or salad. Soups and salads contain water-rich ingredients.
Laura Shammah MS, RDN has a masters degree in health and nutrition and is a registered dietitian. She has been operating her own private practice in both New York and NJ for over 20 years. She is happily married and has four children.
THIS IS THE FIFTH INSTALLMENT OF MY FAMILYâS EXODUS FROM EGYPT, CLEMENT SOFFERâS LIFE STORY. IN THE LAST INSTALLMENT, CLEM VISITED FRANCE, ENGLAND, SWITZERLAND, HOLLAND, BELGIUM, AND ITALY, THEN HE FINALLY RECEIVED A VISA TO GO TO THE USA, AS A STUDENT AT THE MIRRER YESHIVA. WHEN HE ARRIVED, HE FOUND THE SCHOOL VERY STRICT AND RAN AWAY. WE PICK UP AS CLEM SPENDS A SECOND NIGHT ON A PARK BENCH PONDERING HIS FATE.
That night I decided if something good didnât happen the next day, I would return to Mirrer Yeshiva with my tail between my legs. I had been gone for 48 hours and I would have to suffer the consequences for leaving. I was humiliated and very upset that I was failing in my desire to improve my situation in America, but I needed help.
The following morning, as I washed my face in a park fountain, a young man about my age began talking to me. He asked where I was from and if I was Jewish. At first I didnât answer, but eventually said I was from Egypt and I was Jewish. He told me that he was Syrian Sephardic, and he was going to Magen David Yeshivah, which was just around the corner and it was for Sephardic Jews. I felt this was a sign from the Almighty to continue on the road I had chosen.
I asked if there were many Sephardic Jews in this neighborhood. His answer â the entire neighborhood was inhabited by Sephardic Jews. I then admitted to him I needed help. He said I should go to the main synagogue to meet with Chief Rabbi Kassin, because he might help me. I immediately left the park and walked to 67th Street. As I was walking, the thought came to me that if I had gone to the right upon exiting Mirrer Yeshiva, instead of to the left, this wouldnât have happened. This was another helping hand from Hashem.
I was going to ask Rabbi Kassin to help me get a job, so I could save my family ASAP. When I arrived at the synagogue there were many men praying. I waited until Rabbi Kassin went to his office and followed him, then told him my story and asked if he could help me get a job. Much to my surprise, Rabbi Kassin told me I was an ungrateful kid. It was illegal to work at my age and that the people at Mirrer were probably very worried about me. He told me that I had it all: housing, food, education in Torah and a proper visa and I ran away from it. He added that I must go back immediately to Mirrer Yeshiva. I pleaded, and although I told him how unhappy I was, he would not listen. As a kid it was difficult for me to understand this great Rabbi was trying his best to protect me and keep me in the USA.
He eventually saw how stubborn I was and wrote down the name of an Egyptian rabbi who might help me. Unbelievably, the name was familiar to me. He was the brother of Rabbi Abraham Choueka, Rabbi Aharon Choueka.
I could tell that Rabbi Kassin thought I was a bad boy. I walked out of his office with tears in my eyes. Here I was in America, where the streets were supposed to be paved with gold, yet I was starving, cold and dirty, but my pride would not let me go back to Mirrer Yeshiva.
As I walked, I heard a woman ask why I was crying. Her voice was kind and friendly, and she had a graceful look to her that was sincere. I told her what had happened with Rabbi Kassin. She understood and explained to me that he meant well, and was trying to protect me as a foreign boy in this country and that I was jeopardizing my visa status by leaving the yeshiva, and trying to work below the legal age would only jeopardize me more. I didnât know these things when I left Mirrer.
She said I looked hungry and dirty and invited me to her home, where she directed me to take a bath and then fed me breakfast. She explained that she was of Jewish Syrian descent, and that her name was Sophie Maslaton. She said that she would like to help me, and understood why I wanted to get my family out of Egypt. It was the first time that a grown-up agreed with me. She made a phone call to a gentlemen named Isadore Dayan, but he was called Nouri. He was another Angel sent to me from Hashem. He was a philanthropist with a great, caring heart and president of another synagogue not too far away, called Ahi Ezer. He asked Sophie to keep me with her until the evening when he could come to see me.
After that, she sat me down and opened a box she called a TV. I had never seen one before. It was like a movie but smaller. I was glued to that screen full of amazement.
Sundown came and I finally met this wonderful human being named Nouri Dayan. He immediately understood my dilemma and explained to me that he came from Syria and lost his parents at an early age. He understood my need to bring my family as soon as I could. He explained that I needed first and foremost to adjust the status of my visa. He said that he could help me with that since Ahi Ezer Synagogue had a registered Sephardic yeshiva, and I could attend those classes. He arranged a transfer from the Mirrer to Ahi Ezer Yeshiva. However, he made it clear that I could not work for at least two years. That was a tough position to be in, but it was a fact that I had to accept.
He immediately provided housing for me in a home across the street and opened an account for me at a kosher restaurant. He told me to eat there daily and to attend the yeshiva, in addition he gave me a stipend and took care of all my expenses. I was in the hands of very warm people who wanted to help me. Every Saturday I ate all three meals at the home of his partner, another Angel named Rubin Bibi, and his wife Esther Bibi. I developed a great affection and respect for both of them, and it was reciprocated. They were real angels, and in all respects, they adopted me like a son. I respected and considered them my adopted parents.
I felt very much at home with this community. Ahi Ezer took over the sponsorship of my visa and immigration papers.
Finally, when I was old enough to get a job, I applied to be a messenger for a diamond polishing company. After a month, I asked if I could polish diamonds. But despite the protective goggles that I was wearing, by the end of the day my eyes were bloodshot. After a few days I got worried about this problem. I quit this job and I asked one of the sons of Mr. Bibi if I could work for his company, a wholesaler of chandeliers made in Spain and Portugal. He hired me. I worked for a while, but was not making enough money to bring my parents to Brooklyn.
One day I decided to see more of the beautiful USA. I went to the Port Authority and stopped at a counter by chance. I asked the ticket seller what the last stop on this Trailways bus line was. He answered, âMyrtle Beach, South Carolina.â The word âbeachâ was attractive to my mind. I paid $22 for the ticket and got on the bus. I had with me my work permit which was a part-time student visa, but I needed full time work. I thought if I worked full time in NY, the immigration department might pick me up, but it would be harder for immigration to find me in Myrtle Beach. I would be less conspicuous.
When I arrived, I walked straight to Main Street and East Ninth, and looked for a sign for employment. I found a beach store that was looking for help and started to work there for $1 an hour, 16 hours a day, 7 days a week, and time and a half for over 40 hours. It was more money than I ever made, but the owners were not kind to me. So, I quit that job and looked for another.
I found a job as a stock boy in a far bigger store. When I went to the basement to work, it was a mess. I asked the manager for some wood, and was given some 2â x 4â wood beams, nails and a hammer. With this I made shelving so I could organize the clothing by sizes and colors to better manage the inventory. I separated all the different items that the store carried. With the shelving it became a simple task. Then I figured out a way for the cashier to tell me what she needed without screaming. It worked like magic.
The owner came one day and complemented me on all the improvements that I had made. He asked me to come upstairs in the store and see if I could make some improvements there as well. I made some changes which pleased the customers and the owner, but the manager was not pleased at all. When he fired me, I took my bag, went back to Trailways and bought a ticket to a different city.
While waiting at the bus stop, the owner of another large beach store named Mr. Edward Massry passed by and saw me with a suitcase. He asked where was I going and why I left my job. I told him the manager fired me, because I kept increasing the productivity of the store. He laughed and offered me a job.
Mr Massry was a kind-hearted person caring and generous. I was hired to assist him as a salesman. A couple of weeks later he opened a new store and trusted me enough to make me the manager. My salary was increased and a bonus was added if the store performed well. This was a great incentive for me to do well So there I was at age 18 the manager of 12 employees, some of whom were much older than me. Finally, I was beginning to see the possibility of being able to save some serious money for my family. Hashem had sent to me another angel â Mr. Edward Massry.
WITH THE HELP OF HASHEM, THE SHUL RECENTLY CELEBRATED ANOTHER SEFER TORAH DEDICATION. THE NEW TORAH WAS GENEROUSLY DONATED BY GALIT AND TAL SHAYO AND THEIR ENTIRE FAMILY. WE ARE WISHING EVERYONE A SPECIAL MABROOK, AS IT WAS A BEAUTIFUL CELEBRATION AND THE SEFER IS A BLESSING FOR ALL TO ENJOY.
On behalf of President Elliot Betesh, the committee, and the entire community, everyone shares a common vision to follow the customs of Aram Soba, and the rich heritage of our forefathers. About eighteen months ago, a few founding members notably Isaac Hamway, Joey Chabot, Morris Betesh, Marc Schmool, Elliot Bar David, Adam Shrem and many others helped to move the minyan from where it started, in the home of Elliot and Lily Betesh, to its current location at the corner of East 24th Street and Avenue P. On Shabbat and holiday mornings, the prayers are led by our Chazan Jack Mortov. The wonderful maqam melodies can be heard all the way down the street, as the door to the shul is usually open and the prayers permeate the neighborhood. After the Shachrit prayer, the Sefer Torah is read precisely by Dr. Charles Manopla with taamim and diction, always well-prepared and on point which everyone enjoys and appreciates. This all makes for a beautiful Shabbat atmosphere.
Following the prayer, Rabbi Avraham Hayounâs class is eagerly anticipated by the whole congregation and it is very well attended by both men and women of all ages! Adding to the huge draw is the breakfast âde jourâ crafted by Elliot Bar David. He makes everyone feel at home and ready to learn Torah. In the coming year, under the dedicated leadership of Rabbi Hayoun the congregation is planning, Leshem Shamayim, to continue to grow with even more Torah classes during the week, expansion of the prayer schedules, as well as childrenâs learning initiatives, trips, and couples classes.
The pioneering spirit of camaraderie and togetherness can always be felt at Magen David of Madison, which has grown in membership. The shul actually serves the entire community as friends and family members often visit for meals or to stay by their relatives on a weekly basis. Everyone always feels encouraged to join in the warmth of the minyan. Magen David of Madison feels like a shul from the early days of our community that holds our core values together in todayâs world. With the help of Hashem, the Synagogue will continue to serve our wonderful community with tremendous dedication to Torah and mitzvot, and blessings from Hashem for many, many years to come.
AS SUMMER BREAK APPROACHES, PARENTS AND EDUCATORS EXPRESS CONCERNS ABOUT âSUMMER LEARNING LOSS,â (SLL) A PHENOMENON WHERE STUDENTS EXPERIENCE A DECLINE IN ACADEMIC SKILLS. THIS DECLINE, ALSO KNOWN AS THE âSUMMER SLIDE,â CAN BE ADDRESSED THROUGH PROACTIVE MEASURES AND ENGAGING ACTIVITIES.
UNDERSTANDING SUMMER LEARNING LOSS SLL refers to the decline in academic skills and knowledge that occurs during the summer break. Studies have shown that without engaging in educational activities, students may lose several monthsâ worth of progress, resulting in setbacks when they return to school.
EFFECTS OF SUMMER LEARNING LOSS The effects of summer learning loss can be significant, leading to decreased academic performance, lower confidence, and reduced motivation. Over time, this can create an achievement gap between students with access to educational resources and those without. Addressing this issue requires collaboration among parents, educators, and communities. COMBATTING SUMMER LEARNING LOSS
Encourage Reading Reading is a powerful tool to combat summer learning loss. Encourage your child to read regularly, whether itâs books, magazines, or online articles. Create a cozy reading nook at home and set aside dedicated reading time (at least 20 minuets) each day.
Explore Summer Programs Look for summer programs or camps that offer educational opportunities. These programs provide engaging and interactive activities aligned with school curricula, allowing children to learn while having fun.
Visit Museums and Libraries Regularly visit local museums, libraries, and cultural centers. These institutions often offer summer reading challenges, workshops, and exhibits that enhance your childâs learning experience.
Set Learning Goals Collaborate with your child to set learning goals for the summer. Break these goals into manageable tasks and create a schedule to track progress. Celebrate achievements along the way to maintain motivation.
Embrace Technology Leverage educational apps, online resources, and interactive learning platforms to supplement your childâs learning. Many websites offer engaging educational games and activities across various subjects. Here are a few websites that we recommend:
Engage in Everyday Learning Learning opportunities exist in everyday activities. Involve your child in cooking, gardening, or DIY projects to develop their math, science, and problem-solving skills. Encourage discussions about current events to foster critical thinking and communication skills.
Support Social and Emotional Learning Summer is an excellent time to focus on your childâs social and emotional well-being. Encourage engagement in activities that build empathy, teamwork, and resilience. This can include joining community service projects, participating in team sports, or engaging in creative arts.
Foster a Love for Learning Make learning enjoyable by incorporating hands-on activities, field trips, and educational games. When children find joy in the learning process, they are more likely to retain information and develop a lifelong love for learning.
By encouraging reading, exploring educational programs, visiting cultural institutions, and fostering a love for learning, parents can help their children maintain and enhance their academic skills during the summer break. Learning doesnât have to stop when school ends; it can be a year-round adventure that paves the way for future success. Letâs work together to ensure our children return to school ready to thrive and reach their full potential.
Ruchi (Eita) Feller is the Educational Director at Yes I Can.
HARRY ADJMI IS KNOWN IN THE COMMUNITY FOR HIS PHILANTHROPY AND MANY ACTS OF HESED. RARELY DOES A COMMUNITY ORGANIZATION HAVE A FUNDRAISING EVENT WITHOUT HARRYâS INVOLVEMENT AS A LEADER, WHO HELPS THE CHARITIES OBTAIN MUCH-NEEDED PLEDGES.
Last month, Harry and his wife Alice visited Israel for the bar mitzvah of a dear friendâs son. During this trip, he took Israel by surprise, visiting the sites of the very Sephardic institutions he helps raise money for. Harry saw with his own eyes the operations of the organizations, and how Sephardic Jews are enhancing the lives of Jewish people. The yeshivah that made the biggest impression was Ohel HaTora, the second yeshivah started by Shehebar Sephardic Center (SSC), Rabbi Sammy Kassin and his son Rabbi Ezra Kassin, as well as Rabbi Shimon Moalem, three years ago. Ohel Hatora began with 12 students and now has 170. In September 2023, enrollment will reach 220 students. Many of the students then move on to the SSC to learn, obtain their semichot and go into the Diaspora. As a result, the SSC is on the road to becoming the number 1 yeshivah in Israel over the next few years. While visiting Ohel Hatora, Harry was pleasantly surprised by the level of Torah learning and the fervor with which study took place. Harry is one of the people working towards the Sephardim becoming the number one leader of religious Judaism in Israel. He told Rabbi Sammy Kassin that the SSC is the up-and-coming leader on the road to surpass the Ashkenazim at inspiring the Jews of Israel to become more observant. The Jewish people are all one nation, and there needs to be acceptance and love â not separation â so we all live together in peace and harmony. Sephardim provide the model of acceptance, bringing people together and uniting them with our culture and traditions. Shehebar Sephardic Center assures that its students are responsible for bringing the Jewish people together. Since its inception in 1980, the SSC has grown into a world-renowned institution with an outstanding reputation for high-quality programs, as well as a resource for Sephardic communities worldwide to identify rabbis, teachers, mohels, shochets and spiritual leadership.
The SSC also operates synagogues in the Far East and helps struggling Jewish communities around the globe. Each project is designed to help Sephardic communities combat assimilation and intermarriage with spiritual leadership.
Vital in its approach and vibrant in its tradition, the SSC is the leading Sephardic Center for Torah learning and training for the rabbinate. SSC rabbis are trained in Sephardic tradition and Jewish law. Embodying Sephardic tradition and our rich heritage, the three-to-four-year accredited rabbinical training program is responsive to community needs and provides a preeminent source of rabbinic leadership for the next generation and beyond. With their rich grounding of Jewish law, SSC rabbis assume a broad range of leadership roles in the community while ensuring the perpetuation of Jewish scholarship. Harry said that every time he visits Israel, he leaves more inspired than the last time.
SHULA COHEN AâH, THE ELEGANTLY DRESSED MOTHER OF SEVEN CHILDREN, WAS ARRESTED FOR ESPIONAGE IN BEIRUT IN 1961, SENDING SHOCK WAVES THROUGH THE JEWISH COMMUNITY. FOR 14 YEARS, THE YOUNG MOTHER HAD BUILT UP CONNECTIONS WITHIN THE HIGHEST LEVELS OF THE LEBANESE GOVERNMENT. SHE LEARNED THAT ALMOST ANYTHING COULD BE BOUGHT FOR BAHSHEESH (BRIBES).
Shula entertained and cultivated influential businessmen, politicians, and senior army officers. Her parties were used to glean information which she passed on to Israeli intelligence. Her husband Josephâs store helped as a place to make contact. Her position as his wife helped her raise money among the merchants to help the refugees. Albert Elia, secretary of the community, helped with paperwork, fake passports and IDs Shula bought with bribes from her government contacts. Her son Isaac, who became the Israeli Ambassador to Egypt, wrote: âOver time, a fairly regular procedure was formed: the young people who crossed the border from Syria reached Beirut, people there found places to hide them, either in the synagogue or in residentsâ homes. The next step was to inform Shula of their arrival and she would prepare for their journey to Israel.â Gradually, the Syrians figured out what she was doing and tried unsuccessfully to kidnap her. Lebanese intelligence began an investigation into Shulaâs activities. A new person in her network had turned her in. Lebanese intelligence, the Deuxieme Bureau, rented an apartment above Shulaâs in the same building, as well as an apartment opposite hers. They used remote listening devices on the floor, walls or ceiling, linked to satellites and recorded the voices and sent them to control rooms. After two months of surveillance, the Deuxieme Bureau had enough evidence to make an arrest and did so on August 9, 1961. Her trial began on October 27, 1961, and on July 25, 1962, she was sentenced to death, but due to international pressure, including from Israel, her sentence was commuted to 20 years. Cohen only served six years of her sentence imprisoned in Beirut. While in jail, she was severely tortured. Her daughter Carmela brought her kosher food. After the 1967 War, there was a prisoner exchange between Lebanon and Israel. They exchanged two Lebanese ministers, as well as some Syrian and Egyptian soldiers, for Shula. They took her to Rosh Hanikra, where she crossed the border. The rest of the family left with one suitcase and joined her in Israel. Growing up with the refugees from Syria coming and going, Isaac Madeb passed the Brevet, an official exam which one had to pass in order to move on in education. He then attended a French high school. He took the baccalaureate exams and received a grade that allowed him to go to medical school at Beirutâs Saint Joseph University, until 1968. After the Six-Day War in 1967 there was a dramatic change in the atmosphere at the university toward Jews. There was a lot of anti-Semitism. Realizing he could not stay in Lebanon, Dr. Madeb went to the Lebanese Minister of Foreign Affairs and told him he wanted to continue his medical studies at the Sorbonne. He was accepted and finished his medical degree in Paris. While he was in Paris, he stayed in Rothschild student housing because it had a Jewish atmosphere. During that time, he learned English and passed the exams needed to get a visa to do his residency at Maimonides Hospital in the United States. The United States had a shortage of doctors due to the Vietnam War, so they had a program of reciprocity. However, Dr. Madeb had to first go back to Lebanon. So in 1971, he returned to Beirut for six months, married Lily Mann and did a rotation at the American Hospital in Beirut in general practice. His father advised him to go to Brooklyn, New York, for his residency because there was an established community. He came to New York in 1971 and at Maimonides Hospital, he worked on his specialization in urology. Once in Brooklyn, Dr. Madeb quickly became active in the community, working with Nouri Dayan at Ahi Ezer Congregation as vice president. He organized the Lebanese Jews and began their first congregation, Har Lebanon in 1976. Later he helped form Sephardic Lebanese Congregation in 2004, where he was president for 15 years. In 1982, Dr. Madeb began an organization called Beer Miriam, which has helped over 1,000 people in Israel and the United States with medical expenses. According to Rabbi Eli Elbaz, âDr. Madeb really cared about, and was devoted to, the synagogue. He took care of the big things and the smallest details to make sure everything was done properly. He made sure the employees were always paid on time. He instituted religious programs and increased the religious level of the synagogue. People from Lebanon were traditional. He made it so there were plenty of shiurim on many subjects for everyone. He had his hand in every aspect of the synagogue.â
In the meantime, Dr. Madebâs Aunt Shula had settled in Israel with her family. She had been afraid to leave Israel because the Syrian government had a $12 million bond on her head, but she bravely went to Toronto in the mid-1980s for three weeks to see Judy Feld Carr. Shula had become a mentor to the Canadian Musicologist who helped over 3,000 Jews leave Syria from the late 70s until the early 90s. Judy Feld Carr said that during the time she was working on helping the Syrian Jews, Shula was the only person she could confide in. During that first visit, Shula spoke at several synagogues. Feld Carr saw to it that Shula got a new wardrobe and was treated to salon grooming. The Canadian Jews could not advertise Shulaâs speaking engagements, but through word of mouth thousands showed up to hear her speak. She made three visits to the United States. Two visits were to the Simon Weisenthal Center in Los Angeles in 2001. She gave lectures and spoke to the Jewish community and was awarded the Medal of Valor at a ceremony in Los Angeles in June 2001. She came to New York and was honored by Brooklynâs Sephardic Lebanese Congregation in 2005. Dr. Madeb, helped Shula Cohen as a child and as an adult, he helps his community in Brooklyn. He is currently president of Congregation Beth El of Flatbush, Shula lived to be 100 years old.
In the meantime, Dr. Madebâs Aunt Shula had settled in Israel with her family. She had been afraid to leave Israel because the Syrian government had a $12 million bond on her head, but she bravely went to Toronto in the mid-1980s for three weeks to see Judy Feld Carr. Shula had become a mentor to the Canadian Musicologist who helped over 3,000 Jews leave Syria from the late 70s until the early 90s. Judy Feld Carr said that during the time she was working on helping the Syrian Jews, Shula was the only person she could confide in. During that first visit, Shula spoke at several synagogues. Feld Carr saw to it that Shula got a new wardrobe and was treated to salon grooming. The Canadian Jews could not advertise Shulaâs speaking engagements, but through word of mouth thousands showed up to hear her speak. She made three visits to the United States. Two visits were to the Simon Weisenthal Center in Los Angeles in 2001. She gave lectures and spoke to the Jewish community and was awarded the Medal of Valor at a ceremony in Los Angeles in June 2001. She came to New York and was honored by Brooklynâs Sephardic Lebanese Congregation in 2005. Dr. Madeb, helped Shula Cohen as a child and as an adult, he helps his community in Brooklyn. He is currently president of Congregation Beth El of Flatbush, Shula lived to be 100 years old.
NESTLED WITHIN OUR VIBRANT JEWISH COMMUNITY, THIS NEW, MAGNIFICENT FACILITY PROMISES TO BE A HUB OF ACTIVITY, OFFERING A MYRIAD OF OPPORTUNITIES FOR UNITY AND ENGAGEMENT.
As the finishing touches are put into place, excitement continues to build around the opening of the DSN Beach Club. The long-awaited facility symbolizes the power of community collaboration, vision, and determination. This club will encourage members to connect, grow, and learn together. It promises to be a haven of possibilities for all. Get ready to embark on a journey of wellness, recreation, and community in this new chapter of our communityâs vibrant history.
Victoria Sutton, DSN Executive Board Member, summarized, âI am blessed to be a part of this special project and work with the most dedicated talented team. We look forward to our grand opening and an amazing summer BâH. Fellow Board Member Steve Kassin agreed. âThe DSN Beach Club is truly an unprecedented concept. It is the one and only full-service community âclubhouseâ with an extraordinary oceanfront hub to meet, eat, sweat, relax, and play. It was exciting to see it start to come to life with the sneak peek and begin to fulfill the vision of becoming central to life on the Jersey Shore.â
LOSING MONEY IS A HUGE FEAR FOR MANY OF US, ESPECIALLY DURING OUR CURRENT MARKET. SO HOW CAN WE PLAN OUR BUSINESSES TO HAVE THE PROFITS WE NEED TO LEAD THE LIVES WE WANT TO LIVE?
After 25 years of working as a CFO in various businesses such as retail, wholesale, real estate acquisitions, property management, law firms and synagogues, Sandra Lazar opened Lazar Accounting Solutions to help businesses get a better grip on their income, track their expenses, and increase their profits.
WHO SHOULD HIRE LAZAR ACCOUNTING? Do you know the monthly expenses of your business and how much income you need to earn to cover those expenses? Are you satisfied with your profit margin? Would you like to earn more money than you are currently earning? At Lazar Accounting, we work remotely to set up a clear chart of accounts, track all of your businessâ income and expenses, categorize each transaction, and reconcile your bank and credit card accounts monthly. Once the books are organized, you will have the benefit of financial reporting that includes an income statement and a balance sheet. These reports are customized to your needs. The reports are also user friendly and contain the essential information needed to make critical business decisions and take your business to the next level. When it comes time to file your tax return, your books will be ready for filing. You then have the option of using your own CPA or hiring Lazar Accounting to file your taxes. This means no more headaches going back and forth with the accountant answering endless questions about transactions completed throughout the year!
COST SAVINGS AND EFFICIENCY Not only does outsourced bookkeeping take the burden off of you, it also results in a significant cost savings for your business. By opting not to hire a dedicated in-house bookkeeper, you eliminate the expenses associated with salaries, benefits, training, and infrastructure. Outsourcing allows you to pay for the services you need, making it a cost-effective option for many businesses.
WHEN SHOULD YOU HIRE A BOOKKEEPER? The earlier the better! When you are planning to open your business, you need to know your numbers. What will it cost to carry your business monthly? Rent, utilities, cost of goods, marketing, etc. How much income do you need to generate to cover these expenses? How much do you need to generate to achieve the profit youâre looking for? Lazar Accounting can effectively address these critical issues, whether youâre launching a new business or seeking increased profitability for you existing venture. Lazar Accounting will be right by your side throughout the course of running your business making sure you achieve your financial goals.
WHAT KINDS OF BUSINESSES DOES LAZAR ACCOUNTING WORK WITH? Every business can benefit from our financial services. Whether your business is a startup or a developed enterprise, you will realize a healthier, more profitable return when you achieve optimal financial control and have organized and clearly mapped out finances. WHY HIRE LAZAR ACCOUNTING? By choosing Sandra Lazar, your trusted community bookkeeper, you will benefit significantly, from cost savings and increased efficiency to enhanced accuracy and compliance. With accurate financial records, strategic insights, and more time to focus on your business, you will confidently drive your business forward and achieve long-term success.
OUR PROMISE TO YOU We will track revenue, manage expenses and help you understand your numbers better, so that you can profit more than ever. To learn more about Sandra Lazarâs services, and how outsourced bookkeeping can benefit your business, visit her website www.LazarAccounting.com. For inquiries, you can reach out to Sandra directly via email at Sandra@Lazaraccounting.com or by phone at 718-412-2004.
Sandra Lazar graduated Brooklyn college in 1995. She has served as a CFO in a variety of businesses for the past 25 years.
FOR THE SECOND CONSECUTIVE YEAR THE SCA BOOT CAMPUS RETREAT WAS A RESOUNDING SUCCESS! BRINGING TOGETHER 65 HIGH SCHOOL SENIORS TO HEAR FROM TOP NOTCH SPEAKERS ON SUBJECTS LIKE ISRAEL ADVOCACY, ANTISEMITISM ON CAMPUS, SOCIAL MEDIA LITERACY, NAVIGATING THE DISCOURSE ON CAMPUS AND SEPHARDIC HERITAGE AND PRIDE.
The students came together to explore new ideas and gain tools and connections to help prepare them for their time on campus and beyond. Throughout the program there was also plenty of time for the participants to have fun; from the high ropes course to evening zip-lining and all culminating in the custom made amazing race! Our roster of all star speakers and organizations were so impressed by the caliber of young adults on this retreat. Their intelligence and interest in the topics was evident throughout the program.
FEEDBACK FROM THOSE IN ATTENDANCE Every speaker at the retreat was better than the next. This program reinforced for me how lucky I am to have a community support system to keep me grounded and provide me with the resources and tools to succeed in life. Through Boot CampUs and other programs that the SCA offers the youth of our community, they are helping my peers and I understand the importance of having an identity â on an individual level, using our ties to our past to help us in the future, and collectively as a community, having the tools to make a difference in the world and to each other. Thank you to the SCA for providing me with such a special experience, and I look forward to joining you in future programming!
I had the best time at SCA Boot CampUs 23. This retreat was the perfect mix of learning and fun activities. SCA provided many speakers to educate us on antisemitism and how to combat this on college campuses. A few points that stuck with me are that Jews have rights and we must unite. Thank G-d Israel is our home. We support our home in the United States of America, which is a free country. As Jews, we have rights here, and we are protected by law if an issue arises on campus. As a student, you can always consult the head of your university because it is their job to make you feel safe. Next, we were advised to seek out fellow Jews on campus. This will give us a sense of unity and help us remember we are never alone. In addition, SCA opened this retreat to students from Magen David, Flatbush, and Hilell. My favorite part of the trip was meeting new people and making new friends from different schools. We made cherishable memories by singing around the campfire and competing in color war. As part of the Sephardic community, we are united on and off campus! Natali Hazkour, Magen David Yeshivah High School
SCA Boot CampUs was a very amazing experience. It was nice to not only meet kids my age from other schools, but to also learn a lot about the circumstances regarding antisemitism on college campuses. The speakers inspired us and informed us of the best ways to combat antisemitism. They also taught us the best strategies when responding to people with opposing views. The program built unity amongst us and helped to prepare us for college and beyond.â Hymie Gindi, Yeshivah of Flatbush High School
This spectacular event would not have taken place without the vision and leadership of Jeffrey J Beyda. Thank you to Shirley Catton, Richie Dweck, Irene Hanan, Yvette Hidary, Aaron Shasha, Julie Shrem and Rabbi Joey Soffer, for making this retreat the huge success that it was.
THE SENIOR STUDENTS OF MAGEN DAVID YESHIVAH HIGH SCHOOL WERE GIVEN A ONCE-IN-A-LIFETIME OPPORTUNITY THIS YEAR TO TAKE PART IN A UNIQUE SENIOR TRIP TO ISRAEL.
What made this trip so unique was that students had the privilege of delivering a Sefer Torah, which was donated by Jeff and Rachel Sutton in memory of Mr. Joseph Sutton AâH, to the Mishkan Shlomo Beit Kinneset in the Har Gilo Army Base. This was made possible with the help of Mr. Ezra Hanon and tons of student fundraising efforts. Mrs. Laura Miller, Director of Guidance at MDYHS and chaperone on this incredible trip, recalled, âTwo days after our high school graduation, Head of School, Dr. Daniel J. Vitow, emailed the students in the Class of 2023 the following message: âLast Shabbat in Yerushalayim. This Shabbat as graduates. Not bad! Love you all.â With this sentiment in mind, let us reflect on the transformative trip-of-a-lifetime our seniors (now our graduates!) had in Eretz Yisrael.â The boys and girls arrived on different planes and stayed in different hotels, but our entire grade was united as one while in Israel. Day one of this incredible journey to Israel began at Latrun, the Armored Corps Memorial Site which is steeped deeply in Israelâs military history. After touring Latrun, our students heard from Shir Peled, the IDFâs first-ever female undercover fighter in their counter-terrorism unit. A highlight of our first day in Israel was our âTeam Faudaâ experience, where our students engaged in various team-building experiences that simulated a day in the life of the Special Forces Unit of the IDF, including undercover agent training, target shooting practice and even Krav Maga. Our second day was jam-packed with history, adventure, a sunset cruise, and the magic of Israel. The seniors had learned about Israelâs greatest spy, Eli Cohen, before their trip, and retraced his very same footsteps by taking ATV rides along the Syrian border. They were also privileged to attend a briefing about the Northern Border at the Mt. Bental-Alma Research & Education Center. However, the highlight of the day was a beautiful dinner at Deckâs Restaurant in Tiveria, followed by an amazing boat ride on the Kinneret, where our boys and girls each took part in a festive chagigah while at sea. Our next day was just as exhilarating! From security briefings to a meaningful visit to Kibbutz Alumim, our students were not just visiting Israel, but truly experiencing Israel. By far, the most fascinating part of the third day in Israel was a visit to a Hamas terror training tunnel, where our students crawled underground to see first-hand a subterranean southern Gaza terror passage that â thankfully â an elite IDF unit uncovered.
Our fourth day was beyond special; our students went to Hadera and spent the day at the Dani Hi training center, where they engaged in IDF simulated training, including tactical and shooting range training, Krav Maga, and a lecture from Brigadier General Gal Hirsh. At Dani Hi, a special and unforgettable visit from Nadia Cohen, the widow of Mossad agent Eli Cohen, took place, where her story and message to our students was beyond powerful. Erev Shabbat our seniors got to experience downtown Yerushalayim, from shopping at the Machane Yehudah Market to the Mamilla Mall. The week culminated with our entire grade welcoming Shabbat at the Kotel, followed by a walk to Yeshivat Ahavat Shalom, where we were reunited with our Rosh Yeshivah Rabbi Eli Mansour for a special Shabbat dinner at the Yeshivah.
Shabbat morning our students returned to the Yeshivah to daven Shacharit, and then we had the distinct pleasure of meeting Holocaust Survivor Rena Quint in person, Shabbat afternoon. After a Zoom program the month before, it was a true honor to hear Mrs. Quintâs amazing and powerful story of survival. Every student was gifted her book, âA Daughter of Many Mothers: Her Horrific Childhood and Wonderful Life,â signed by Mrs. Quint and personally addressed to each student. A handful of students wanted to spend Shabbat afternoon with Mrs. Quint in her home, and took her up on her generous offer to continue to spend time with them. Motzei Shabbat our students played Laser Tag on the roof of Cinema City in Jerusalem, followed by pizza (even corn pizza).
Our second to last day was a day of hesed, where we had an unforgettable visit to Bet Elazrachi Orphanage, a home for children who have been removed from their homes due to abuse and/or neglect. What took place there was downright magical; our students truly connected with the children, and when it was time to go, many students kept hopping off the bus to give âtheir kidsâ more hugs. While the energy of the trip to the orphanage was beyond powerful, the highlight of our week in Israel was traveling to Mishkan Shlomo Beit Kneset in Har Gilo for the Hachnasat Sefer Torah dedication in memory of Mr. Joe Sutton AâH, at the IDF army base. Our students danced and rejoiced at this momentous event, a day that they will, no doubt, remember for years to come.
The palpable spiritual energy of this trip cannot be ignored. Each morning, a group of students chose to daven Netz at the Kotel before dawn. An unforgettable visit to Kever Rachel was another highlight, where our students had the unique opportunity to pray at this holy site. The last day of this incredible journey included a visit from Uzi Shaya, a former Mossad agent, who discussed his role as a recruiter into the Mossad. Students had a taste of recruitment strategies, and simulated exercises that actual Mossad agents utilize in their daily lives. With just hours until our scheduled departure out of Ben Gurion Airport, our students had the afternoon to enjoy a leisurely day in Jerusalem, savoring the sights, sounds and energy of this holy city.
We boarded our El Al flights back home, forever changed from this incredible trip with memories to last a lifetime. As Dr. Vitow noted, âThis was not just a regular trip. This was a growth experience for all of our students, a maturation experience, an experience of hesed, and of middot and of character, and all the things that we want for our children, that we wish for our children, that we work so hard to give our children, and we hope that we are successful at the end of the day. And I think that, judging from what Iâm seeing, we have been enormously successful on this trip with our ultimate goal of changing lives.
Mrs. Laura Miller is Director of College Guidance at MDYHS.
FINANCIAL FITNESS IS THE CORNERSTONE OF A SECURE AND STRESS-FREE LIFE. JUST AS PHYSICAL FITNESS IMPROVES OUR OVERALL HEALTH, BEING FINANCIALLY FIT EMPOWERS US TO MEET OUR GOALS, OVERCOME CHALLENGES, AND BUILD A STABLE FUTURE.
In this comprehensive guide, we will explore the key elements of financial fitness, from budgeting and saving to investing and retirement planning. By following these principles and adopting healthy financial habits, you can gain control over your finances and pave the way for a brighter financial future.
BUILDING A STRONG FOUNDATION Setting clear financial goals is the first step toward financial fitness. Whether itâs saving for a down payment on a home, paying off debts, or planning for retirement, identifying your objectives helps you align your financial decisions and actions accordingly. Creating a budget serves as a roadmap for your financial journey. It enables you to track income, expenses, and savings, ensuring that your spending aligns with your goals. By analyzing your expenses and making necessary adjustments, you can optimize your financial resources and avoid unnecessary debt. Managing debt can be a significant obstacle to financial fitness. Prioritize paying off high-interest debt, then develop strategies to reduce overall debt, and establish an emergency fund to avoid resorting to credit cards or loans during unexpected circumstances.
SAVING AND INVESTING Establishing an emergency fund is crucial to weathering unforeseen financial storms. Aim to save three to six monthsâ worth of living expenses to provide a safety net during emergencies or unexpected job loss. Save for your short-term and long-term goals by allocating funds into separate accounts to help you stay on track. Have one account for short-term goals like vacations, home repairs, or purchasing a vehicle, and separate accounts to prioritize long-term goals such as buying a home, education, or retirement. It will be easier to invest in appropriate vehicles like stocks or bonds when they are clearly marked.
Itâs important to understand risk and return. Educate yourself about different investment options, their associated risks, and potential returns. Diversify your investment portfolio to balance risk and reward, considering factors such as age, risk tolerance, and time horizon.
RETIREMENT PLANNING Start early and begin retirement savings as soon as possible. The power of compounding allows your investments to grow exponentially over time, giving you a head start on building a comfortable retirement nest egg. Maximizing Retirement Accounts contribute to retirement accounts like 401(k)s or IRAs, taking advantage of any employer matching programs. These accounts offer tax advantages and long-term growth potential, helping you accumulate funds for retirement. Healthcare and Long-term Care factor in healthcare costs and potential long-term care needs during retirement. Explore options such as health savings accounts (HSAs) and long-term care insurance to mitigate potential financial burdens.
CONTINUAL LEARNING AND ADAPTATION Stay informed on financial news, trends, and changes in policies that may impact your financial fitness. Continuous learning and awareness empower you to make informed decisions and adapt your strategies accordingly. Seeking professional advice, consulting with a financial advisor, can provide valuable guidance, especially for complex financial matters such as tax planning, investment diversification, and retirement strategies. A professional can help tailor your financial plan to your specific circumstances and goals.
Achieving financial fitness is a lifelong journey that requires discipline, knowledge, and adaptability. By building a strong foundation through goal setting, budgeting, and managing debt, you can establish a solid financial base. Through saving, investing wisely, and planning for retirement, you pave the way for a secure future. Continuous learning and seeking professional advice enable you to navigate the ever-changing financial landscape successfully. Remember, financial fitness is not just about accumulating wealth; itâs about achieving peace of mind, having control over your financial destiny, and enjoying a fulfilling life unburdened by monetary stress. Start your journey today and embrace the power of financial fitness!
Ari Baum, CFPÂź is the founder and CEO of Endurance Wealth Partners, with over 25 years of experience in the Financial Services industry. He brings his in-depth experience to Conceive. Believe. Achieve. for his clients. Securities and Advisory services offered through Prospera Financial Services Inc. Member FINRA/SIPC.Brokerage and Advisory accounts carried by Wells Fargo Clearing Services, LLC.
There is nothing more important than the education of our children. The Jersey Shore community has grown tremendously and the challenge of educating our children properly has grown with it. The schools do a great job setting up and implementing stellar curriculums and stimulating learning environments for the children. What happens when there are specific deficits or weaknesses in a child that impede his ability to succeed and to thrive? How can a school possibly meet the individual needs of each child? Bridge Linx is there as a partner to meet those needs. Many mainstream children have specific delays or deficits that challenge their ability to learn properly. Bridge Linx partners with the schools to help identify, evaluate and set up goals and a treatment plan with professional therapists to ensure the success of each student. Bridge Linx offers OT, PT, Speech and Language therapy as well as Social Behavior therapy. Our experienced professional therapists see the students in the school environment for optimal partnership and carry-over of skills. With the proper supports available, the schools can accommodate more students and know that they can give them whatâs needed to thrive. Following are examples of some of the goals therapy would cover.
SPEECH AND LANGUAGE Strong language skills are required for successful learning. Starting at a young age, children must be able to follow directions, understand what is being said and process what is happening around them. They must be able to express themselves properly and socialize appropriately with their peers. As they get older, understanding complex instructions as well as comprehending and categorizing information properly and being able to take notes are necessary. Speech and language therapy help improve and build many of these important skills.
OCCUPATIONAL THERAPY Proper regulation and core body strength is critical in the daily function of a child. This directly affects how they focus and carry out their tasks. Strong and adequate fine motor strength is important for handwriting skills and endurance. Hand-eye coordination is critical for being able to copy from a board and complete written assignments. Occupational therapy helps improve many of these important skills.
PHYSICAL THERAPY Body strength and coordination affect the daily function in our lives, our movement and ability to carry out basic daily tasks. Children need the body control and awareness to maintain proper movement, safety awareness and health. Physical therapy helps build strength and target specific muscle weaknesses in order to help children function better.
SOCIAL BEHAVIOR Sometimes children have trouble functioning in school settings for various reasons. Some of the goals and areas worked on to help them include emotional regulation, organizational skills, following directions and routines, social expectations, and problem solving. Social Behavior therapy is provided in the school setting. It is coordinated with the classroom teacher and parents to ensure that the goals are followed up and met. This Social Behavior program has enabled many students to succeed in the mainstream yeshivah environment and not have to attend self-contained or public school programs in order to meet their needs.
Bridge Linx continues to grow and meet the needs of the children in the community. It is a nonprofit therapy center and works with most insurances. Private scholarships are offered as needed so that all children receive the help they need, regardless of financial ability. If Bridge Linx can be of assistance to you in any way, please give us a call at 732-493-3670.
If Bridge Linx can be of assistance to you in any way, please reach out to us at 732-493-3670 so we can help you.
