THIS PAST SUMMER, PROPEL HAD THE PRIVILEGE OF HOSTING SOME INCREDIBLY IMPACTFUL EVENTS.
PROPEL kicked off the summer with an up-close conversation with Corie Adjmi, author of The Marriage Box. With women of all ages attending the event, interesting discussions ensued about Corieâs journey to become an author and aspects of her book. A special thanks to Adele and Eli Yedid for generously hosting the event.
PROPELâs next event this summer was the annual boutique show, PROPEL MARKETPLACE, a 32-vendor supported marketplace of community women entrepreneurs selling jewelry, athletic wear, household products, clothing for children and adults, beauty products and so much more at the beautiful DSN Beach.
The Victoria Aronow PROPEL List is a free, digitized marketplace of women who sell food and other products, provide services or have a profession, including the vendors at the Marketplace. Please sign up and create a profile in order to be included in the digital directory. Get Listed! www.thepropellist.org/register/.
The next event brought us back to DSN Beach for the LETâS TALK DESIGN event under the PROPEL Entrepreneurs division, generously supported by Sharyn and Ezra S. Ashkenazi. A special thank you to Danielle Dabah for opening the program and discussing her career journey as an interior designer, and to our panelists â Jack Ovadia of Ovadia Design Group, Sarit Ovadia of The Finishing Touch, Jeanie Schrem of Kravet Textile Design, and Renee Mizrahi of RM Architecture Design â who each shared their professional journeys. The panel discussion was beautifully moderated by PROPELâs Board President, Dr. Gayle Krost, and Board Member, Heleyne Mishan Tamir, to a standing room only group of participants. It was an inspiring evening!
Next on the summer calendar was TALK ABOUT IT TUESDAY for parents, educators and mental health practitioners under PROPELâs Paulette Bailey/UJA Mentorship Program. The lessons explored there were invaluable as Dr. Jeff Lichtman, PROPELâs collaborative partner at Touro University (Touro University Director of Graduate Jewish Special Education), and Minna Hanon Samra, school psychologist at Yeshivah of Flatbush, shared their views on the well-adjusted child, and the school/home partnership. Dr. Lichtman emphasized the importance of teaching children so they can become whatever they want to be; a child can grow and make a difference in this world. A special thanks to Ami and Ralph Sasson for generously hosting the event.
PROPEL greatly appreciates the support of the community members! It is donations from generous community members that help PROPEL fulfill its mission of providing women in our community the opportunity to improve their lives and the lives of their families through education, leading to greater financial stability. In the words of the Rambam, teaching a person a trade is the highest level of charity. It is these donations that continue to give, as community women continue to earn for many years to come.
Most people might think itâs exciting, but you may have some mixed feelings about it. Itâs common to be happy and relieved that you now have more money, and to be stressed out or worried about how youâre going to handle it, too.
Youâve got choices that you probably didnât have before to make positive changes to your finances. If youâre like many Americans, youâve got debt of some kind. Should you pay off all or a portion of it? If you have kids, should all or a portion be set aside for college?
Or instead, maybe this is the time to buy the larger house youâve always wanted, launch your own business and stop working for âthe man,â or travel the world and take a work break for a little while.
Money that comes in suddenly is often spent, seemingly, just as suddenly. But you donât want to lose all the money youâve just come into. Fortunately, you can plan how to work with your windfall without spending it all right away. By avoiding the mistakes that others make and choosing the right options, you have the chance to make dreams come true.
While there is plenty of DIY money management advice available, protecting and preserving sudden wealth is often more complex. The challenge youâre now struggling with is that you donât know what you donât know.
One size does not fit all when it comes to managing a windfall! Asking people who donât have experience with this kind of money management could lead to disaster. In addition to money management, you need to manage expectations, including your own.
CRIPPLING RISK #1 Unexpectedly High Taxes To paraphrase George Carlin, Uncle Sam loves you, and he needs money! Taxes are often confusing enough, never mind adding a significant amount of money into the mix. Youâre probably already aware that youâll need to pay taxes, but how much should you plan for?
Not only do your taxes depend on what type of windfall youâre benefiting from, they may also depend on when you take the distribution. The tax ramifications of your sudden wealth can be more complex than you might originally have thought.
Think objectively about what the personal results are of taking a lump sum versus a structured payout. If you have a spendthrift in your family, will the lump sum be too tempting to spend? Do you have a financial professional who can guide you on navigating the effects of your decisions?
CRIPPLING RISK #2 Damaging Family Relationships Sometimes when a family member comes into money, other members of the family start lining up with their hands out, or they resent the newly wealthy person. You may even know someone whose money caused a big rift in their relationships, and you donât want the same thing to happen to you and your loved ones.
People who suddenly receive significant amounts of money donât always know where and when the ground will shift under their feet when it comes to family. You may believe that everyone will be happy for you, and later find out thatâs not the case. There may be fault lines in your relationships that could crack under the pressure of your newfound wealth if you donât handle them in the right way.
MUST-KNOW #1 Money Can Be A Double-Edged Sword A significant amount of money has the power to allow you to live your dreams. It could be the seed money you need to leave your corporate job and ride out on your own. Or you may finally have the money you need to enjoy an interest that you couldnât indulge in while you worked full-time.
By creating a wise strategy and making smart choices, a future that youâve always wanted â but never thought you could live â could be within your reach.
On the other hand, you could very well end up worse off than before. So many sudden money lottery winners go bankrupt after receiving their windfall. Itâs easy to think the money will last forever, but if you donât take care of it, it wonât. Youâll need to learn how to manage it. Otherwise, it could slip through your fingers.
MUST-KNOW #2 A Lasting Legacy Can Be Yours⊠If The Strategy Is Right You may prefer to make a positive impact on the world with a portion (or all) of your newfound wealth. Charities, successive generations, educational institutions, and other groups can benefit from significant donations. You may also feel compelled to be a good steward of the money for a variety of reasons, and thatâs another way to leave your mark.
Most importantly, you want to use the funds as tax-efficiently as possible. That way thereâs more left for your legacy. The right techniques depend on several factors, including how you want to be remembered and whether youâll want to have access to the money during your lifetime.
MUST-KNOW #3 New-To-You Asset Protection Strategies Your sudden windfall can potentially help you protect your other assets and your family as well. There are a number of asset protection strategies for the wealthy that you may not have had access to before. They require a certain level of investment that you may now have.
Simply having your assets in your own name may no longer be a good solution. Smart estate planning is critical, and just like investments, cookie-cutter solutions will not work. Estate plans and other asset preservation techniques are very specific to your circumstances and desires.
You Donât Have To Make These Critical Choices Alone Suddenly coming into a sizable amount of money has the potential to change your life. Whether the impact is positive or negative is mostly the result of the choices you make. However, there is a way to use this money to help you build a lasting and solid financial foundation for you and your family.
You may be able to fund dreams or goals that you previously thought were too far away to reach. The options you choose in taking the payout and planning your investment strategies determine whether you make your dreams come true. Poor choices can deplete your funds before you even have a chance to enjoy them.
Understanding the risks and effects of all the moves you make with your newfound money is critical. Not only does this money have the potential to change your life, but potentially that of your family and later generations, too. Thatâs why itâs so important to develop a strategy and understand all the possible outcomes of your plan.
The sooner you shore up your strategy, the better. Some aspects of implementing your choices are time-sensitive, and taking action can help prevent the money from being squandered. Unfortunately, these things arenât taught in high school or college!
This information is not intended to be a substitute for specific individualized tax advice. The content is developed from sources believed to be providing accurate information. Investing involves risk including the potential loss of principal. No investment strategy can guarantee a profit or protect against loss in periods of declining values. Past performance does not guarantee future results. Consult with your financial professional before making any investment decision.
Ari Baum, CFPÂź is the founder and CEO of Endurance Wealth Partners, with over 25 years of experience in the Financial Services industry. He brings his in-depth experience to Conceive. Believe. Achieve. for his clients. Securities and Advisory services offered through Prospera Financial Services Inc. Member FINRA/SIPC. Brokerage and Advisory accounts carried by Wells Fargo Clearing Services, LLC.
THIS NOVEMBER OUR COMMUNITY HAS AN OPPORTUNITY IT HAS NOT HAD IN A LONG TIME, IF EVER â TO RE-ELECT A REPUBLICAN ELECTED OFFICIAL IN RECORD NUMBERS â TO RE-ELECT INNA VERNIKOV, OUR FEARLESS COUNCILWOMAN, TO THE NEW YORK CITY COUNCIL.
For a long time, our community has been told by many that it must register, and vote for Democrats â even though the Democratic Party stands against many of our beliefs and values. The Democrats over-tax us, allow criminals to roam free, and our streets to become increasingly dangerous. We are told that Republicans cannot, by their mere existence, help the constituents navigate the overly progressive government institutions, get us the funding we need for our communityâs infrastructure, and help the faith-based charities that our community is known for.
Well, Inna Vernikov clearly dispelled the myth and changed that narrative. She has been effectively leading the fight against antisemitism in the city, especially at CUNY (yes, the same CUNY that just hired the antisemitic Marc Lamont Hill). From sponsoring legislation, to helping with court cases, Inna has been a leader â getting her Democrat colleagues to cross the aisle and vote for her legislation.
But that is not all, Inna has also brought record amounts of funding back into our community. Remember, this money is from our taxes. Anyone that lives in New York City knows that the streets have gone back to the days before Mayor Giuliani cleaned them up, literally and figuratively. The streets are filthy â with garbage and litter becoming a real issue. Inna hit this issue head-on, sending $280,000 in extra funding to our local DSNY district to help combat this issue, and slowly, the streets are getting cleaner. More work needs to be done, and Inna is clearly in this for the long haul.
Crime is heading back to the bad old days, when NYC was known as the âUngovernable Cityâ. There are a few councilmembers that stand tall for their support of our finest, the NYPD. Inna Vernikov is one of them, and she is a leader in this issue, especially when it comes to antisemitic attacks. Inna is at the forefront of making sure the city no longer ignores attacks on our community. Inna also funded three auxiliary vans for all precincts within her council district. We need a fighter like her to continue being our representative, because few have the temerity to fight the anti-citizen machine that is the NYC government like Inna Vernikov.
As for the funding for our faith-based organizations that our community is known for, and that we are proud to spotlight to those outside our community as beacons of what good citizenship looks like, Inna has brought record funding into our community.
Flatbush Hatzolah, Shomrim, Shmira, Amudim, United Task Force, Ohel, Chasdei Lev, HASC, Chai Lifeline, and of course the Sephardic Bikur Holim, are but a few of our communitiyâs organizations that have received funding. Again, funding that is actually our money that Inna, using her abilities to cross over the aisle and bring sensible minds to agreement, was able to bring back into the community.
And letâs not forget, a major component of local officeholders is helping their constituents with regular day-to-day issues. This is something we have been told for a long time no Republican would be able to do for us. As a Republican, Inna has put together a staff in her office that, in their first year, closed over 4,000 constituent service cases, making her office #1 in Brooklyn and #2 in the entire city! That means that by her first âhalf termâ she will have helped thousands â either you or someone you know, with an issue they have with government.
This is all why we must go out, and not only re-elect Inna Vernikov to the NYC council, but we must come out in droves, giving her a win with numbers larger than her historic win in 2021, when she won in a landslide. We must send a message that our community is not for sale, that we will not take the attacks, both in rhetoric and physically, by holding those responsible in government for allowing it to fester, that we will send a true fighter to represent us back to City Hall and let our voices be heard.
So, on Tuesday, November 7th (or early starting October 28th), regardless of whichever party you are registered in, let your voice be heard by voting to re-elect Councilwoman Inna Vernikov.
ENHANCING THE WAY STUDENTS RECEIVE EDUCATIONAL SUPPORT
RUCHI ITA FELLERâS PASSION FOR WORKING WITH SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDREN WAS IGNITED WHILE VOLUNTEERING AT A SUMMER CAMP FOR YOUNGSTERS WITH SEVERE DISABILITIES. WITNESSING THE IMPACT SHE COULD MAKE, SHE FOUND HER CALLING AND PURSUED A CAREER IN EDUCATION.
As a graduate of Damen College, Ruchi earned a masterâs degree in Special Education and post graduate training in Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA).
Her professional journey began as a school educational specialist, where she saw an overwhelming demand for additional services and the lack of available educational specialists. Motivated by the need for a more comprehensive approach, Ruchi Feller co-founded Yes I Can â a groundbreaking organization offering comprehensive special education assistance.
Today, Ruchi serves as Yes I Can Program Director, while Simcha Feller, co-founder and her husband, directs executive organization development.
Simchaâs own academic challenges helped him understand first-hand what children with learning disabilities experience. Simcha was fortunate because his parents sought an individualized learning plan during and after school to support him.
His childhood friend Yisorel L. faced similar difficulties in school. Yisorel required individualized support to keep up with his classmates and progress to the next grade. However, unlike Simcha, Yisorelâs parents did not pursue the additional help, perhaps not realizing its significance. Sadly, Yisroel became increasingly unable to function effectively in society.
Yes I Can provides educational support to children whose parents are struggling to keep them in mainstream schools. Currently, serving over 145 schools and more than 1,500 students, Yes I Can methodology pairs individualized services with specialized techniques. Using expert external consults, Yes I Can helps restore parentsâ faith.
YES I CAN SERVICES INCLUDE P3/SETSS (Special Education Teacher Support Services): Legally mandated educational aid for children with disabilities. Children are assessed, and appropriate goals with proper treatment plans are set ensuring progress in mainstream environments.
SEIT (Special Education Itinerant Teacher): New York State Certified special education professionals assisting students with academic, emotional, and social skill disabilities. SEIT professionals interface with teachers, meet with studentsâ parents, and assess students in classrooms to develop individualized strategies for each child.
Paraprofessional Services: Paras offer instructional and behavioral assistance, catering to special education needs or those under a federal 504 plan. Our paras work with students to ensure health and learning needs are met. Health paras are trained to monitor children and to administer medication.
Oral Transliteration Services: Communication support is provided for students with hearing impairments.
Social Groups: Interaction skills are taught under the guidance of skilled facilitators. In these settings, active listening, empathy, and respect are practiced, and reviewed.
Consulting Services: As part of our enrichment program, consultants provide no cost screenings. Our enrichment program connects students with top NYC professionals, ensuring access to high-quality third-party support.
More recently, Yes I Can established Yes I Care, a Home and Community Based Service (HCBS) program.
YES I CAN SERVICES INCLUDE Caregiver/Family Advocacy and Support Services: Caregivers and families are trained to make informed and empowered choices for children struggling with developmental, medical, mental health, and/or substance abuse issues.
TESTIMONIALS
âI was worried sick that my child would grow up illiterate â since he was struggling so much with his reading. YIC helped teach him to read using the âLIPSâ (Lindamood Phoneme Sequencing) program. My child now stays up late to finish the novels he loves reading! Thank you YIC for this incredible impact in our lives.â Alex F.
âNote taking and essay writing were very difficult for my eighth grade child. YIC intervention taught him to improve his writing, sentence structure, and grammar skills, giving him confidence. Seven years later, my son is now in college getting his degree in special education to help other children!â Sondra B.
âSammy was diagnosed with ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) and was suffering socially. He couldnât pick up the nuances of social cues or nonverbal skills, and he was a very black and white thinker. His supplemental educational specialist used the social thinking program techniques. They worked! Thank You YIC for caring and helping him succeed.â Emily W.
Acclaimed nationwide, Yes I Can is steadfast in its mission to uplift students facing learning disabilities. The organization champions comprehensive solutions, promotes collaboration, and regularly upgrades its training modules. With ambitious plans for growth, Yes I Can remains steadfast in its dedication to ensure every childâs academic success.
The combination of Ruchiâs professional training and Simchaâs personal experiences have made Yes I Can one of the nationâs premiere providers of educational support for children with learning disabilities and related issues. For more information, visit the official Yes I Can website: Yesicanservices.com.
MAGNESIUM IS ONE OF THE MOST ABUNDANT AND IMPORTANT MINERALS IN YOUR BODY, RESPONSIBLE FOR OVER 300 BIOCHEMICAL REACTIONS, SO ITâS NOT HARD TO BELIEVE THAT HAVING A DEFICIENCY CAN GREATLY IMPACT YOUR OVERALL HEALTH. THE SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF A DEFICIENCY ARE VAST. SOME ARE SUBTLE, WHILE OTHERS CAN CAUSE SERIOUS HEALTH PROBLEMS.
You can have a magnesium deficiency if you donât consume enough of the nutrient or if your body doesnât absorb enough. Consuming too much alcohol and certain medications can deplete your bodyâs magnesium, as well. Magnesium plays an integral role in your bodyâs ability to keep your heart, kidneys, and muscles healthy. It also regulates nutrient levels, and keeps bones strong. Many people have a deficiency and arenât aware of it. If youâre suffering from the following symptoms, you may be one of them.
WARNING SIGNS OF MAGNESIUM DEFICIENCY Fatigue Feeling tired with a lack of energy is not uncommon, and it can be easy to blame it on several factors â from stress at work or a busy schedule to not sleeping well or running around with your kids. But one of the most common and early symptoms of a magnesium deficiency is fatigue. Because just about everyone feels tired at some point and the cause could be so many different things, itâs difficult to come to the correct diagnosis based on this symptom alone. Unfortunately, the fatigue wonât go away until your body gets the right amount of magnesium in its system.
Muscle Spasms & Cramps Muscle spasms and cramping can not only be uncomfortable, but also quite painful. Theyâre uncontrollable and unpredictable, and theyâre not something you can simply ignore and get on with your day. While athletes often suffer from muscle cramps due to inadequate stretching, dehydration, overexertion, and lack of proper diet, many other people suffer from them and it can be hard to figure out why. When a magnesium deficiency worsens, muscle spasms and cramping can be a sign. So if you suffer from regular cramping and spasms, this could be a warning sign of low magnesium levels.
While getting your magnesium levels to where they should be will likely ease your symptoms, you can try to get short-term relief by stretching and massaging the affected muscles. Vitamins D, E and B complex also play a role in preventing muscle cramps, so make sure you get your daily recommended dose of these vitamins.
Arrhythmia Magnesium plays a vital role in overall heart health. Itâs vital for proper muscle contraction. Arrhythmia is an irregular heartbeat, and magnesium directly helps you maintain a normal heart rhythm. Some studies have shown that maintaining a regular level of magnesium may even prevent some heart problems and diseases. In fact, magnesium is often used in medical settings when managing patients with arrhythmia. Some doctors prescribe magnesium for patients who are at risk of cardiac arrhythmia.
Dizziness Sometimes dizziness hits you when you stand up too fast and then it quickly goes away. But when you have a magnesium deficiency and you experience dizziness because of it, it can last all day without relief, and it can be hard for your doctor to diagnose properly because so many things can cause dizziness. As a result, magnesium deficiency is often overlooked when trying to diagnose and fix the problem. Low magnesium levels can give you similar feelings as vertigo, making you feel not only dizzy, but completely off balance. If youâre experiencing dizziness, it could be a warning sign of magnesium deficiency.
As the deficiency worsens, so do the symptoms. If your levels continue to decline vertigo can make you unable to do regular day-to-day activities and miss work. If youâre experiencing dizziness, see your doctor.
Nausea & Vomiting Similar to vertigo, if you have a low magnesium level, you may experience nausea and even vomiting. Though these symptoms are considered an early, but not necessarily severe symptom of magnesium deficiency, feeling nauseous is very unpleasant, and can greatly impact your routine. Those who suffer from regular nausea and/or vomiting, should ask their doctor if he/she thinks you may a magnesium deficiency.
Numbness Magnesium impacts your nervous system, thus tingling and numbness can be a warning sign of a deficiency, particularly as it worsens. An insufficient amount of magnesium in the body, can prevent nerve and muscle functions from acting and reacting properly resulting in numbness in your face, feet and hands.
Although severe symptoms like numbness are rare, experiencing them can be quite scary. Numbness is not something to take lightly. See your doctor to figure out the cause.
Personality Changes It might seem bizarre â and definitely not the first cause youâd jump to â but personality changes are a warning sign of magnesium deficiency. They may seem to come out of nowhere. Simple things can seem overwhelming, you may feel out of sorts, and youâre likely to notice the change but will most likely be unsure how to fix it or whatâs causing it. And since many things can cause symptoms like this, a magnesium deficiency is often not considered when trying to diagnose the change.
Your change in personality can be cause by another symptom of magnesium deficiency â difficulty sleeping. Since sleep is vital for your mental, physical and emotional health, if a magnesium deficiency is whatâs keeping you up at night itâs important you get your magnesium up to a sufficient and healthy level.
Anxiety & Panic Attacks Everyone experiences a bout of anxiety or panic once in a while, but if youâre experiencing it regularly, it could be due to a magnesium deficiency. You may be quick to blame anxiety on the everyday stress of balancing your personal and professional life and schedule, but you could consider the role a magnesium deficiency has in causing anxiety and panic attacks, especially if you arenât typically prone to these feelings. Unfortunately, if youâre suffering from anxiety, the stress can cause your magnesium levels to drop further, making it a vicious cycle.
If you suffer from any of these symptoms, see your doctor. It may be nothing, but it may also be magnesium deficiency.
FOODS THAT ARE RICH IN MAGNESIUM Eating foods rich in magnesium may not cure your problem, but they may help.
Laura Shammah MS, RDN has a masters degree in health and nutrition and is a registered dietitian. She has been operating her own private practice in both New York and NJ for over 20 years. She is happily married and has four children.
A NEIGHBOR OF MINE CHALLENGED HER OVERWEIGHT HUSBAND TO LOSE WEIGHT, AND SO SHE BOUGHT HIM AN EXERCISE TAPE. HE RESPONDED CHEERFULLY, âGREAT! IâLL LISTEN TO IT IN THE CAR AS I DRIVE TO WORK!â WE ALL HAD A GOOD LAUGH AT THE LENGTHS HE WENT TO AVOID EXERCISE.
Americans have a complicated relationship with exercise. Mark Twain once declared, âWhenever I feel the urge to exercise come on, I lie down until it passes.â This comment is echoed by Lucy, from the comic strip Peanuts, âExercise is a dirty word â every time I hear it, I wash my mouth out with chocolate.â
We are amused by these remarks because we all recognize that avoiding exercise is not healthy and that daily exercise benefits us greatly. We burn calories, discharge stress, improve our circulation, and lower our blood pressure; we sleep better and feel a sense of wellbeing from challenging our bodies.
So we then ask ourselves: If exercise is good, shouldnât more exercise be better?
Not necessarily! Sometimes exercise becomes too much of a good thing. Instead of being a supportive friend, it becomes our worst enemy. Ellen represents the opposite side of the coin from healthy exercise. Ellen sets her alarm for 5:30 A.M. to go out running before school, she plays tennis five days a week, and works out on her treadmill most nights. Ellen cannot stop exercising even when she is tired or sick.
She is one of a growing number of women and men who has developed an exercise addiction. Because we hold exercise in such high esteem, we admire and envy those who devote great amounts of time to working out. Keeping fit has become a national pastime, and we often donât realize when we, or someone we care about, is out of control with exercise.
Many terms have been put forth to describe behavior like Ellenâs: compulsive exercise, exercise bulimia, or exercise abuse.
Exercise is considered excessive:
When it significantly interferes with important activities. Marie often skipped family parties because she had to go to the gym. Sometimes she also cancelled going out with friends in order to finish her workout routine.
When it occurs at inappropriate times. In the throes of her addiction, Suzanne exercised late into the night with her bedroom light turned off. While her family slept, she was doing crunches.
When it occurs in inappropriate settings. Jessica, another exercise addict, ran in Prospect Park before sunrise â while it was still dark â despite the potential danger.
When the person exercises despite injury or other medical complications. Jeff had developed a stress fracture from jogging but continued despite increasing pain. Stacey developed a painful âtennis elbowâ but felt compelled to keep playing.
When guilt, anxiety, or depression occur if a workout is missed. Exercise addicts use workouts to cope with depression or anxiety, and they experience guilt and distress if unable to perform their exercise ritual.
When the person does not take any days to rest or recover between workouts. The driving compulsion to keep exercising prevents the person from moderating their routine to allow the body a chance to recuperate.
Compulsive exercise has little to do with the pleasure of movement and health. Its roots lie in struggles around self-esteem, perfectionism, and control. Marsha described an inner pressure to continue her strenuous jogging regime despite having injured her knee. She had created a punishing routine for herself that was wearing her out but she couldnât stop. Unlike most exercise bulimics who just want to be left alone to practice their compulsion, Marsha was exhausted and came to therapy to figure out how to help herself.
During the course of her therapy, Marsha expressed deep anxiety about her aging fatherâs impending death. She felt powerless and out of control to rescue him from his illness but, while jogging, she would find temporary relief from her worry about him. âI feel on top of the world when Iâm jogging. But afterwards my body aches and I feel empty inside.â As a teenager, Marsha worried about being fat and had gone on fasts and liquid diets with a brief period of anorexia. We discovered this occurred around the time her grandmother was dying. It was very helpful for Marsha to see her pattern â the loss of someone she loved made her reach for something to take away her pain. Focusing on dieting or fat or calories or weight or exercise presents a temporary sense of control over painful feelings.
As Marsha moderated her workouts, she lost the escape from her fears that jogging provided. She became more depressed as she no longer could hide from her emotional stress. Often patients will leave therapy at this point in an attempt to avoid facing their pain. But Marsha did not ârun away.â We helped her through âanticipatory griefâ about her fatherâs looming death and also to resolve some buried guilt about her grandmotherâs death that she had never faced. Although Marsha felt sadder before she felt better, she concluded, âHaving the courage to face my inner demons actually made me feel stronger. My never-ending need to develop strong muscles ebbed when I felt stronger emotionally.â
If you would like support on your eating, weight, body and/or image journey, please feel free to reach out to the Mindful Eating Project. We will work with you to:
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Help you get the control for your eating back inside yourself.
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Schedule an initial assessment with The Mindful Eating Project, and weâll help you determine if you can benefit from treatment. To start a confidential conversation about your eating, please contact us. Feel free to call (718) 336-MEND.
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Mary Anne Cohen, LCSW, BCD is Director of The New York Center for Eating Disorders since 1982. She is also author of French Toast for Breakfast, Declaring Peace with Emotional Eating and Lasagna for Lunch. Mary Anne is a professional book reviewer for the largest international resource for eating disorders.
THIS IS THE SIXTH AND FINAL INSTALLMENT OF MY FAMILYâS EXODUS FROM EGYPT, CLEMENT SOFFERâS LIFE STORY. IN THE LAST INSTALLMENT, CLEM LEFT NY. HE TOOK A BUS TO MYRTLE BEACH, WHERE HE IMMEDIATELY SEARCHED FOR A JOB. IN A VERY SHORT TIME HE WAS THE MANAGER OF A STORE. SOON HE WAS MAKING ENOUGH MONEY TO BRING HIS FAMILY TO AMERICA. HERE ARE CLEMâS WORDS.
One day I found out that one of my benefactors, Senator Jacob Javits, had passed a law to accept 5,000 Jewish Egyptian refugees and provide them with a green card allowing them to stay in this blessed country. That same week a man came into the store and asked me a lot of questions. When he left, I forgot about him.
I was eager to take advantage of the new law, so I arranged to leave for New York the following day. I flew to NY and went to the government office where I completed all my documents. Finally after several lines and interviews, I received my green card and my new social security card.
I was told that I would receive a work permit which would allow me to work legally for the first time. I was even looking forward to paying my fair taxes so I would be a contributing member of this wonderful country at last.
The best part of the trip was that I was able to place the names of all my family members on the list to be assigned visas as Egyptian Jewish refugees. I signed an affidavit that I would provide support for my family if the US government would allow them to come. I certified that I had saved in the bank $40,000, which at that time was like $200,000 today.
I guaranteed that I would have an apartment for them, and that I had a good job earning enough money that they would not be a burden on the US government. At last I received approval to bring my family to the US. My spine tingled with happiness.
I praised the Almighty for this enormous gift. I could not believe that I finally would be reunited with my family after being separated for such a long time. Plus, I would be bringing them to a fabulous country of freedom and comfort.
After corresponding with my family, I was not far from the bench I had slept on in the dead of winter with no food or money. I went to that wooden bench, and I carved my name on it. I promised myself that whenever I felt arrogant and very proud of myself, I would come back to remember my tough beginnings in the greatest country in the world. I thought about all the wonderful people who had helped me along the way. Then I returned to Myrtle Beach.
Shortly after my return, the same man who had asked me a lot of questions before I left, returned. This time he was accompanied by a sheriff and two police officers. He was an immigration officer and he was sure I was in the US illegally. He asked for my green card, which I happily handed to him along with my new social security card. Once again, Hashem saved me. Had the man asked me for those documents the first time he came into the store, I would not have had them, and I probably would have been arrested or deported. Egypt would not have taken me back. I would have been a man without a country. Instead, I showed the shocked immigration officer my documents and he welcomed me to the US.
Sometime in August I received notification that my family was approved to immigrate to the US. I cannot describe in words the happiness I felt. Tears rushed down my cheeks. My dream was becoming a reality. I read that notice maybe 100 times. I missed them so much. I could not wait to hug them and kiss them. It seemed like an eternity since I left them, but only three years had passed.
I continued to work as hard as I could, but I have to admit â I heard people my age at the beach and on the streets laughing and having fun â and part of me really wanted to join them. I missed the fun I used to have with my friends in Egypt, but I had to wipe from my mind all these frivolous thoughts and follow my fatherâs example â be dependable and shoulder my responsibility.
My family finally arrived in 1958. I rented a large three bedroom apartment in a two family house on 71st Street in Brooklyn, down the block from Ahi Ezer Congregation. I introduced my family to the wonderful people that had made me feel at home and were there for me in a foreign country.
The summer was coming to an end, and since Myrtle Beach was a summer resort, I decided to return to NYC and build a great future for myself and my family. On the flight back to NY I vowed to myself that one day I would pay back Rabbi Abraham Kalmanowitz ztâl for the great miracle of bringing me to my dream country. I vowed also to pay back all the good people who helped me, starting with the good hearted Mrs. Sophie Maslaton, Mr. Noury Dayan, and my wonderful adopted parents, Ruben and Esther Bibi, and Mr. Edward Massry ztâl.
I wondered how I could pay back people who had everything. Hashem rewarded me again, later in my life I was actually able to pay back my benefactors.
The grandson of Rabbi Abraham Kalmanowitz, Rabbi Chizkiya Kalmanowitz President of Asra Kadisha organization, asked me to help him and his organization save Jewish cemeteries all over the world that were being slated for destruction. I have been working with him, as a volunteer, saving Jewish cemeteries for the last 33 years. We have saved Jewish cemeteries in Egypt, Ukraine, India, Portugal, Germany, Belarus, Yemen and Lebanon. Thank you Rabbi Abraham Kalmanowitz ztâl.
I didnât know how to respect the memories of Mrs. Sophie Maslaton, Noury Dayan and his family, Reuben and Esther Bibi, Edward Massry and his family and the many other wonderful people who helped me. Then Hashem rewarded me by bringing to my attention the Council for the Rescue of the Syrian Jews, and I worked tirelessly for many years as their Executive Vice President along with their President, Alice Sardell, Marcos Zalta and Jack Mann, all great caring dedicated volunteers. With the tremendous help of Mr. Edmond Safra and his wife Lily and the power of Hashem, we were able to save the lives of 4,500 Syrian Jews. We brought them to safety in the USA from 1992 to 1995.
During that same time, Hashem gave me the opportunity to save the life of a Yemenite Rabbi, Rabbi Moshe Harrir of Chasdey Moshe. He was condemned to death in Yemen after being accused of being a spy for Israel. Thank you Hashem for always protecting and caring for me, for giving me the opportunity to fulfill my wishes to honor some of the greatest people in our community, may they rest in peace.
Thank you Mrs. Sophie Maslaton, thank you Mr. Noury Dayan and family! Thank You Mr. Rubin and Esther Bibi and family. Thank you Mr. Edward Massry and his entire family for your Hakarat Halev towards me.
And thank you, Clem Soffer for sharing your familyâs history with our readers.
After his familyâs expulsion from Egypt when he was 16, Clement Soffer came to the US and went to Mirrer Yeshiva. He founded Ahava ve Ahva Congregation and Chabad of Port Washington. He helped rescue Syrian Jews and saved hundreds of Jewish cemeteries. He received a congressional award in 1993 and was honored by Yeshiva University. He founded Beit Edmond Safra Synagogue of Aventura and Chabad of West Boynton Beach.
HILLEL YESHIVA HAS LEFT AN INDELIBLE MARK ON THE MYHSAL SOFTBALL LEAGUE, IMPRESSIVELY WINNING FOUR VARSITY AND TWO JV CHAMPIONSHIPS IN THE PAST DECADE!
The flourishing Deal community, with its growing passion for softball, proved to be the ideal match. Thanks to the Deal Sephardic Network (DSN), our youth softball leagues have experienced a remarkable rejuvenation, equipping players with valuable skills.
The 2023 Hillel Heat Varsity team, under the guidance of coaches Jackie Picciotto, Jackie Ashkenazi, Joey Mizrahi, and David Rishty exhibited exceptional teamwork. Their chemistry, coupled with the expertise of the coaching staff, propelled them to a flawless 7-0-1 record, securing the Western division title. The spirited âWHO WHO WHOâ boys were renowned for their uplifting chants and profound respect for both teammates and opponents alike.
In the opening round of the playoffs, Hillel delivered a commanding 5-0 victory over MAOR, showcasing impeccable defense and precise pitching by Marty Cohen. The semifinals saw a fierce battle against YDE, resulting in a scoreless tie until David Seruyaâs pivotal hit, with Bruce Zekaria scoring the run to claim the lead. Eddie Kassinâs double and two RBIs sealed the outcome with a 3-0 triumph. Once again, Hillelâs unshakable defense, combined with Marty Cohenâs pitching, held YDE scoreless.
On June 19, 2023, Hillel traveled out to Long Island for the championship game facing off against the reigning champions, Mesivta Ateres Yaakov (MAY), in Valley Stream, NY. Despite MAYâs formidable 21-game winning streak, Hillel emerged victorious in the finals, triumphing with a hard fought 3-1 championship win. Noah Hakimâs diving play in the sixth inning saved the game, while Elliot Stein, Stevie Shalom, and David Seruya showcased their prowess with impactful hits and defensive plays. Marty Cohenâs superb pitching, allowing only one run across three playoff games, earned him the well-deserved MVP award.
The culmination of the season was a Deal-Brooklyn High School All-Star softball challenge at the C.A.R.E. Tournament. Deal all stars won an 8-6 thriller in 14 innings and Noah Hakim of Hillel Yeshiva won MVP honors.
Hillel extends their gratitude to commissioner Seth Gordon and the MYHSAL league for a fantastic year, and look forward to next season. Go Heat!
2023 HILLEL HEAT TEAM ROSTER
PLAYERS Morris Ades Joe Assa Yosef Betesh Albert Chehebar Marty Cohen Joe Dweck Eli Franco Isaac Gindi Noah Hakim Eddie Kassin Abie Labaton Isaac Mizrahi Zvi Rishty David Seruya Stevie Shalom Charles Shayo Elliot Stein Bruce Zekaria
COACHES Jackie Picciotto Jackie Ashkenazi Joe Mizrahi David Rishty
WHILE FATHER AND SON BONDING CAN ALWAYS BE A POWERFUL EXPERIENCE, A RECENT TRIP TO ISRAEL TOOK THAT EXPERIENCE TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL FOR A GROUP FROM BROOKLYN. THEY WERE INVITED FOR A UNIQUE GLIMPSE INTO THE WORK OF COLEL CHABAD AND ALL THEYâRE DOING FOR ISRAELI CHILDREN AND FAMILIES.
Founded in 1788, Colel Chabad is the longest continuously operating charitable organization in Israel, and is involved in a wide variety of activities to support the countryâs needy populations. These activities range from direct financial support, to nutritional support, as well as a network of social programs and activities.
As part of the fathers-son trip, the group including Raymond Zaytoune, Henry Guindi, Nemo Gindi, Leon Guindi, Elliot Gindi, Jacob Yedid, Jacky Yedid and Joseph Guindi, had the chance to join Colel Chabadâs Bar Mitzvah For Orphans program that everyone described as an emotional highlight of their time in Israel. The bar mitzvah (a similar program is offered for bat mitzvah girls), brought over 120 boys to the kotel for their aliya lâTorah, followed by a fully-produced and catered party for family and friends. The boys have all lost a father or mother under tragic circumstances and for many of them, financial or practical considerations would mean they wouldnât experience that rite of passage of entering into Jewish manhood that most take for granted.
âBeing there to experience a bar miztvah with these boys, many of whom without a father to guide them, dance with them, or show them how to put on their new set of tefillin, was extremely emotional for the members of our group,â explained Colel Chabadâs Ephraim Duchman. âIt allowed all of us to appreciate the power of Tzedakah, both financial and personal, to impact the lives of others for the better and that we have the power to make that difference in so many ways.â
Duchman said that Colel Chabad has been blessed to have a very close relationship with the Syrian community for many years and he is confident that this father-son trip will be instrumental in taking that legacy of support to the next generations. âIt was incredible to watch how these kids became so quickly aware of the impact of their parentsâ actions. It is one thing to know that our parents are caring for others by providing financial support, but when we are able to see those funds in action it takes that understanding to a whole new level.â
The group also visited the Beis Finger Rehabilitative Center, a home for adults with degenerative neurological conditions, where they can live in dignity and with full support for a productive life. Then they went to the âWarm Houseâ in Tzfat, which takes care of children after school through bed time, providing them with food, tutoring, a hot shower and breakfast for the following morning.
Among the most popular and transformative programs operated by Colel Chabad is Pantry Packers. Well-known as part of any well-planned Israel itinerary, Pantry Packers invites families and groups of tourists to come to their Jerusalem warehouse to pack food packages that are then delivered to people in need all around Israel. Since its founding, 10 years ago, thousands of groups have participated in the experience.
The father-son group were treated to a special tour of the facility hosted by Rabbi Menachem Traxler who thanked them for their visit saying, âYou are all proof of what it means to teach our kids by example and they will all return home knowing what it means to help others,â he said.
Rabbi Traxler and the Colel Chabad team are looking forward to seeing the families again at their annual summer concert with Mordechai Shapiro in Deal on August 22 and welcoming members of the Syrian community back to Pantry Packers in Jerusalem on their next trip.
Sharon Givati is a Jerusalem based freelance writer. Originally from New York, she lives in Israel with her husband and five children.
RABBI MORDECHAI GERMAN, THE DEAN OF BEâER HAGOLAH INSTITUTES IS NO STRANGER TO JEWISH EDUCATION. ASIDE FROM HIS PERSONAL EXPERIENCE AS AN EDUCATOR FOR MORE THAN TWENTY-FIVE YEARS, HE ALSO GREW UP IN A HOME STEEPED IN A CULTURE OF CARING FOR OTHER JEWS.
The home of his parents, Rabbi Avner and Rebbetzin Leya German of blessed memory, was a fortress of Jewish education and love for everyone. I reached out to Rabbi German to ask for his perspectives on Jewish education and for his dreams and aspirations for Beâer Hagolah and its students.
This is what he said: While Beâer Hagolah just celebrated its forty-third year, it is in a sense a young and fresh institution. âWe are constantly looking to innovate and discover what it is that our students and families need. When we identify a need, we do everything we can to deliver a solution for the benefit of our students. We are now focused on the quality of our education more than ever. Whether it is advanced trainings for our staff, higher education degrees, or state certifications, we are building a hand-picked team of highly qualified educators.â
My vision for the school is that it should be a warm, safe, secure, and vibrant environment which our precious students delight in coming to every morning. My vision for our students is that they graduate from Beâer Hagolah ready and prepared to take on the world. They should hold their heads up high â proudly as Jews who will build families and contribute to our community in their own way. Whether they continue on to college immediately or first spend a year in Israel, they will have the foundation and relationships to build a career rooted in a lifelong attachment to Torah, mitzvot, and community. We are deeply proud of our thousands of alumni who have gone on to establish families and communities across the world.
The leadership team at Beâer Hagolah excites me. Each and every principal shares the same vision for our school and our students and they have dedicated their lives to educating the next generation. This year, we departmentalized our boysâ middle and high school divisions and weâre very proud to have Rabbi Michoel Grunhut as the principal of Judaic Studies and Rabbi Yehuda Waxman as principal of secular studies. We welcome the newest addition to our team, Mrs. Leah Kirzner, principal of the elementary school secular studies department, who brings us her expertise in curriculum building and teacher training and mentoring.
Mrs. Yeva Rakhamimova, who is a mother of three current BHI students and practices as an immigration attorney, shared her reflections. âBeâer Hagolah is a very nurturing community where relationships are made with parents, teachers, and the administration. My children are not only receiving the best Jewish education possible, but are also striving in secular studies. They are beginning to think like future developers and entrepreneurs. BHI offers top notch security, including armed guards, and constant communication between the parents and teachers. Beâer Hagolah is a family setting that gives care and love to the children and the parents. The office staff knows each parent by name and Rabbi German and other administrators are always eager and happy to try to resolve their concerns as best as they can. Iâm so happy to be seeing my children grow up and prosper socially and academically in such a nourishing environment where theyâre making lifelong friendships in a great community.â
Hirsch Ibn Yisroel is an accountant based in the American Midwest. He is also a freelance writer with a special interest in jewish life.
ARE YOU TIRED OF KEEPING TRACK OF YOUR ENTIRE BUSINESS IN YOUR HEAD? ARE YOU READY TO START MAKING BUSINESS DECISIONS BASED ON FACTS INSTEAD OF PURE GUT FEELING? THEN THE FIRST THING YOU NEED TO DO IS BEGIN PROPERLY TRACKING YOUR BUSINESS EXPENSES.
BUSINESS EXPENSES Business expenses are the things your business spends money on to keep operating. They include things like:
Rent
Computers and other equipment
Phone, internet, and utility bills
Marketing and advertising costs
Bank and merchant fees
Gas, car, and other transportation costs
Postage and shipping
Keeping tabs on these items helps you keep track of cash flow, takes the guesswork out of paying estimated taxes and claiming deductions, and most important, it helps you understand what you need to do to increase your profitability.
Youâll also need to keep track of your business expenses if you ever approach a bank for a loan, want an investor to put money into your business, or get audited.
Catching up on a backlog of improperly tracked expenses can take some time. However, itâs a fairly straightforward process.
HOW TO KEEP TRACK OF BUSINESS EXPENSES
Step 1: Separate them from your personal expenses Tracking business expenses can be difficult when your business purchases come out of the same checking account you use for personal expenses. It also makes it challenging to understand the health of your business when you have additional expenses that arenât relevant to the business.
For these reasons, it is best to open a separate, dedicated business bank account â with its own dedicated debit card or business credit card â for your company.
Step 2: Make sure youâre categorizing the transactions properly
Properly categorizing and recording your transactions helps you claim more deductions, make your life easier if you ever get audited, and generally makes looking through your financial records a much less painful experience.
Step 3: Hold onto your receipts Did you know that the IRS requires you to keep records and receipts for any expenses you claim on your taxes at least three years after filing the return?
A great way to avoid breaking this rule while also saving time on your bookkeeping is to digitize your receipts using a receipt-scanning mobile app like Shoeboxed or a cloud-based system like Dropbox, Evernote, or Google Drive.
Step 4: Reconcile expenses with your bank accounts This involves looking at the expenses youâve recorded in your bookkeeping system and making sure that they match up with the expenses on your bank statement.
Bank reconciliations are your first line of defense against any mistakes you might make when recording your expenses. Ideally, you should be doing them at least once a month.
Step 5: Make sure you arenât missing any of these popular small business expenses
To make sure you arenât forgetting anything, weâve put together a large list of the most common types of business deductions, broken into 16 different expense types.
Advertising and promotion
Business meals
Business insurance
Business interest and bank fees
Business use of your car
Contract labor
Depreciation
Education
Home office
Interest
Legal and professional fees
Moving expenses
Rent expense
Salaries and benefits
Telephone and internet expenses
Travel expenses
Remember that even if an expense is ordinary and necessary, you may still not be able to deduct all of it on your taxes. The rules around the tax-deductible portion of the rent you pay for your home office, client entertainment, and R&D costs, for example, can get particularly complicated.
Step 6: Make expense-tracking a habit If youâre a busy small business owner with a million things to do, itâs easy to let bookkeeping fall by the wayside. One way to avoid that is to make it a habit.
Try setting aside and scheduling a âbookkeeping dayâ once a month to stay on top of your transactions. Use that day to enter any missing transactions, reconcile bank statements, and review your financial statements from the last month.
Sandra Lazar graduated Brooklyn college in 1995. She has served as a CFO in a variety of businesses for the past 25 years.
AMONG MANY POPULAR EVENTS AT THE DSN BEACH CLUB THIS PAST SUMMER, FAMILY MOVIE NIGHTS EXCEEDED ALL EXPECTATIONS. THE PICTURESQUE COASTAL DESTINATION, EMBRACED OUR COMMUNITYâS TRADITION TO COME TOGETHER FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND FAMILY FUN.
These enchanting evenings under the stars captured the hearts of over 500 parents and children. Beach Club Program Director Caleigh Silvera stated âDSN Beach Club has fostered a sense of community and togetherness through the power of film.â
The first movie shown at the DSN Summer Stage was The Parent Trap. The event drew an excited crowd of eager moviegoers who were treated to an array of delightful offerings. Attendees had the opportunity to indulge in sushi from Outpost and savor a curated menu from Jelis, catering to diverse culinary preferences. The availability of DSN merchandise, popcorn, movie theatre snacks, pizza and much more enhanced the authentic movie experience. The ambiance was further enriched by crackling fire pits, the soothing beachfront location, and the mesmerizing starry sky, ensuring a captivating atmosphere for families to enjoy the massive outdoor screen.
Responding to popular demand due to the resounding success of the first movie night, DSN quickly hosted another unforgettable evening the following week. That next film was The Greatest Showman. DSN member Grace Chehebar stated, âBest movie ever! I love seeing DSN have this for our community.â Once again, DSN delivered an extraordinary event that brought families together. With a specialized menu designed to delight the taste buds, there was captivating entertainment and a breathtaking setting that continued to strengthen the sense of community and camaraderie among those in attendance.
Beach Club General Manager Keith Acker felt fulfilled. âFostering community spirit through these nights exemplifies community building at its finest.â By offering these events, DSN continues to create a sense of belonging and unity. These gatherings provide an opportunity for people to come together, connect and share memorable experiences. The ambiance of the beach, combined with the magic of cinema, fosters a sense of enjoyment and appreciation.
The DSN Beach Club has created a platform for building lasting relationships and strengthening the bonds of community. DSN Beach Club has uniquely established itself as the go-to destination. Frieda Shamah, DSN Youth Director, was excited. âThe success of these nights demonstrates the power of shared experiences, good food, the magic of film and fostering community building with lasting memories.â DSN member Jacqueline Musry brought her family. âIt was really such a special night! DSN is such an amazing organization that never stops impressing the community. We are so blessed.â
âA BEAUTIFUL GARDEN CAN CHANGE YOUR OUTLOOK FOR THE REST OF THE DAY!â SUCH WAS THE MINDSET OF RUTH JEROME AâH, WHOSE PASSION FOR OPEN LANDSCAPES TRANSCENDED GARDENING AND EXTENDED TO A DEEP INTEREST IN HOW A SPACE CAN BE UTILIZED AND TRANSFORMED INTO SOMETHING TRULY SPECIAL.
She imparted this love for landscape design to her son, Abe Jerome, and together they toured and enjoyed gardens all over the world. Four years after her passing, Abe Jerome carries on this legacy by leading the Ruth Jerome AâH Annual Garden Tour in collaboration with Director of the Sephardic Community Centerâs Womenâs Culture Club, Julie Sherr.
On July 12th, over 200 men and women gathered in Deal for the Garden Tour. The day began at the home of Rina and Ely Cohen, where guests received pink parasols and fans upon check-in. As guests entered the yard, they were greeted by delicious lunch options from Nicoleâs Kitchen, which they enjoyed while overlooking a pool covered in hand-painted Italian tiles. Surrounded by palms and lush grass, the greenery perfectly complemented the ocean views and breeze. The group then proceeded to Jo Ann and David Levyâs home just across the street, which featured a yard and vegetable garden that overlooked the beach. The design of the garden was a perfect marriage between vintage and contemporary elements. This design approach was a common theme among many homes on the tour, as they had been occupied by multiple generations of the same family and managed to preserve family history while staying up-to-date.
After a relaxing moment enjoying the sea air, the group moved on to the home of Mimi and Lou Franco. There, they encountered a sprawling yard that included a miniature golf course, an expansive pool house, and an abundance of colorful flowers that created a delightful ambiance. With its diverse features and activities, itâs no wonder that the Franco familyâs children and grandchildren gather at the home each weekend, with one even living there for the summer.
Following the visit to the Francoâs house, a short trip down the road led everyone to the home of Paulette and Morris Bailey, where they were served TeaToxx Iced Tea, which was a refreshing way for everyone to cool down. The different spaces in the yard, such as the tennis area, the pool area, and the patio, gave a sense of individuality to each activity while still bringing everyone together. These spaces were designed to cater to people of all ages and interests. Finally, the tour concluded at the home of Michelle and Jack Haddad. Guests traversed the expansive cobblestone driveway and were greeted by lush fountains circling over the pool, an expansive cabana, a dining table, seating area, and desserts. As everyone left the final stop, they received carefully curated gift bags containing a floral cocktail recipe book, a floral deck of cards, a colorful scarf, and Popsanity popcorn.
Each year, Abe Jerome and the Garden Tour Committee, in collaboration with the Sephardic Community Center, hand-select five or six homes for the Garden Tour. Not all of the featured gardens and pools are designed by Abe Jerome; sometimes none of them are. Nonetheless, Abe Jerome finds fulfillment in sharing his love and knowledge of gardens and spaces in honor of his late mother. The collaboration with The Center is the perfect alliance for what is not just a tour, but a celebration of family legacy, multi-generational use, occupancy, and development.
As we look ahead to the 5th Annual Garden Tour in 2024 BâH, we have a deeper love and appreciation for flowers, landscapes, and lineage. Abe Jeromeâs wish is that a portion of the proceeds from the day will go to the Sephardic Centerâs Senior Department. A heartfelt thank you goes to the staff of Abe Jerome and the Sephardic Center, as the Garden Tour would not be possible without their support. A special mention goes to Sonja Cabasso and Michelle Safdieh for their thoughtful and tireless efforts in making the Garden Tour a success. It is the hope of everyone involved that you not only stop and smell the roses, but also realize that the most lovely silence is that of growing things.
Inbal Khabieh is the Director of Education and Admissions for the Sephardic Centerâs Early Childhood program. Preceding her career in education, Inbalâs first love was Journalism. She holds a Bachelors degree in politics and journalism She shares a passion for community, family, tradition and legacy â all the SCCâs core values. Inbal lives in Brooklyn with her husband Simon and 2 children.
