ON SUNDAY, JANUARY 7, DSN BEACH CLUB HOSTED A HEARTFELT EVENT THAT BROUGHT TOGETHER COMMUNITY MEMBERS FOR A DAY FILLED WITH COMPASSION, SUPPORT AND UNITY- THE FAMILY DAY OF HESED.

Exactly three months from october 7, the community recognized the 136 hostages still in captivity. The event aimed to give chizuk to our guest speakers from Israel and uplift spirits to make a positive impact.

Survivor’s Story: A special guest at the event was Roi Assaraf. He and his wife miraculously survived the Nova Festival in Israel on October 7. DSN Beach Club offered Roi the perfect forum for him to share his story. Hundreds of community members along with rabbis attended the event. The emotional atmosphere in the room was palpable, with many in the audience moved to tears by Roi’s account of his harrowing experience.

Family of a Hostage and Hafrashat Challah: The event also hosted the family of Ori Danino, who is currently a hostage in Gaza. The family spoke and prayed for Ori’s safe return, accompanied by a heartfelt Hafrashat Challah ceremony led by Ori’s mother, Einav Danino. The emotional plea from Ori’s sister left the room in devastation, emphasizing the injustice and harsh reality faced by families with loved ones in captivity. Karen Tawil helped lead challah-making after the speakers. Karen said, “This was such an uplifting day. Hearing Roi and the Danino mother speak was moving and inspirational. My kids had a beautiful day. They enjoyed it tremendously. Thank you for including us!”

Israeli Date Cookies: Renowned community chef and Kardio Kale’s Eileen Missry shared the art of making Israeli date cookies, a special treat with a meaningful history. Participants had the opportunity to make and take these cookies or contribute to a later bake sale at DSN, with proceeds benefiting Israel.

Kumzitz: The musical talent of Irving Kairey added a soulful touch to the day, as he graced DSN with his beautiful melodies. The gathering sang Hatikvah, and women later joined arm in arm with the Danino family to dance and uplift one another, creating an atmosphere of solidarity and support.

High School Hesed: DSN’s Hesed 365 committee organized 20 high school schoolgirls to participate in hesed in their own special way. They began with a class led by Rabbi Hidary. Then these girls devoted their time to create prayer cards for DSN’s seniors to pray for soldiers in Israel. Following this, they visited the Special Children’s Center, engaging in collaborative projects, such as clay molding. The girls danced with the young children, creating an uplifting and heartwarming experience. Youth Director Frieda Shamah expressed her admiration for the high school girls. “I was very impressed and inspired by our girls coming to give their time to make the world a better place, especially during these times. Dancing with the special kids at the Center was hands down a highlight- their smiles lit up the day as everyone was filled with pure joy. It was an unforgettable moment.”

Letters to Soldiers: Nechama Wiesenfeld facilitated a meaningful activity where young children crafted letters to be delivered to IDF soldiers in Israel. These letters aimed to boost the spirits of the soldiers, showing them that they are supported and appreciated. Nechama stated that “experiencing the community’s unity in supporting our brothers and sisters in Israel was deeply moving. Despite it being over three months since October 7, Sunday’s event underscores its constant presence in our collective hearts and minds. It was truly an honor to be a part of.”

Rabbi David Tawil reflected, “Acts of loving-kindness are the bedrock of Jewish life. In times of need, we step up to help ease the pain of others. The DSN Family Hesed Day was a true display of family kindness towards those whose families have been decimated. It reminded us all that we are all one family.”

All ages and generations of our community came together at the DSN Beach Club, to show compassion, unity, and support, with a shared hope for the safe and swift return of hostages. As DSN’s Board Director Victoria Sutton noted, “Baruch Hashem, Hesed was forefront the entire day. The Family Day of Hesed at DSN Beach Club, was certainly that. It was an inspiring event. Our community and the people of Israel are unified, and strong.” When the day concluded, the resounding message was clear — Am Israel Chai!

KELLY ELO

WHEN MAGEN DAVID FIRST ANNOUNCED A SOLIDARITY TRIP TO ISRAEL WOULD BE COORDINATED I FELT AN OBLIGATION TO GO AND BE A PART OF GIVING BACK. AS A MOTHER WITH FOUR CHILDREN AND A FULL TIME JOB IT WASN’T EASY TO MAKE IT HAPPEN, BUT I AM GRATEFUL THAT I DID, THE TRIP CHANGED ME IN SO MANY WAYS, AND I HAVE THE PRIVILEGE OF SHARING MY EXPERIENCE.

Immediately upon landing in Israel, I felt that indescribable feeling that only Israel can bring, a feeling of home and safety. Naturally our first stop was the Kotel, and on our way there we began what would be a trip filled with hesed. A message was sent to our group that there was a community boy, a lone soldier, who was based at the Kotel and did not have a safety vest. So, our group secured a vest and were able to hand deliver it to him and see first hand how we were able to help. It’s hard to put into words the feeling of being at the Kotel that night. I’ve prayed there many times, but this time had a different meaning.

Over the course of the week we visited a lot of locations. We began the week visiting the United Hatzolah of Israel. We learned about the essential role United Hatzalah plays in Israel each and every day and had the honor of hearing Aryeh Learner’s heart wrenching experience on October 7th. With a superhuman effort he managed to save countless lives that day, and despite that he still wished he was able to go back and save more. In honor of his heroes efforts, the Magen David Solidarity mission donated an Ambucycle in his name. His story left us speechless as we headed to the Sderot police station, except it wasn’t the police station because where it once was, stood a pile of dust and rubble, and a single Israeli flag to mark the lives lost. An officer shared his story of survival from that dark day, how he lost many of his friends and colleagues, as terrorists took over the police station. Everyone from Sderot had to be relocated. A television was donated for the new police station being rebuilt and Tehillim books and Tefillin were given to a resident who refused to leave his home.

We had the privilege of meeting with Zaka members who traveled with us to the heart of the destruction, Kfar Aza, and the Nova Festival site. Members of Zaka have spent numerous hours to ensure every Jew has a proper burial, their work is selfless. A donation to Zaka was made so their efforts can be continued. Kfar Aza is literally right at the border, simply separated from Gaza by a metal gate. En route to the kibbutz and the festival we made stops along the way to bear witness to the destruction that occurred. Burnt cars piled high on the side of the road, the roads leading us there were still streaked with the remnants from those trying to escape. As we entered Kfar Aza and the festival with Zaka we saw the grounds that had been infiltrated by terrorists and felt the pain of our brothers and sisters who once lived happily in their homes. Nova took place in an empty field, and the participants had nowhere to hide or go. At the site, we met with many officers and gave out tehillim and tzizits. We planned on going to Kfar Beeri but at the time we couldn’t because the area was not safe. Instead, we went to an army base, gave out letters, and fed our beautiful soldiers. They were returning from Gaza, starved. Our feeling of seeing our soldiers hopeful and happy as they returned from Gaza served to counteract all the devastation we had experienced that morning. The emunah of those standing on the front lines was greater than one can imagine.

After witnessing the destruction, the aim of the rest of the week was to help and aid as much as we could. We visited Barzilay Hospital where we held a challah bake with doctors, nurses, and moms who lost their children. All through the event we witnessed moms crying for the safe return of their boys in Gaza, and moms praying for all of Am Yisrael. We visited more army bases to go and support our soldiers. We spoke with them, listened to them, hosted BBQ’s for them, sang with them, and gave them tzitzit and tehillim, whatever we could do to provide them with simcha and hope in this difficult time. We had the opportunity to sponsor a wedding near the West Bank. With the area being dangerous the bride’s family was not going to be able to make it to the wedding. We secured them a bulletproof van and helped them arrive and return safely to the wedding and surprised the bride with her family. We gifted the groom with a Jewish star necklace and brand new pair of tefillin. It was an experience none of us will ever forget. The simcha of this wedding, filled us with an inner sense of courage, witnessing the start of a new life, a new family, a Jewish home, was the perfect way to show that Am Yisrael will always prevail.

We visited the orphans, Gai and Roi, and their adopted family. We gave the babies gifts and had the honor of hearing their survival stories from the dreadful day. We visited Ariel Zohar at the arayat of his family. We were able to sponsor Sefer Bereshit for the Sefer Torah being written in his family’s memory. The Magen David 7th grade boys sponsored tefillin for him and gifts in honor of his bar mitzvah.

“Words cannot express how much I love you all. I feel so blessed and honored to be given the opportunity to be part of such an amazing group. I learned so much from all of you incredible people. This was the truest form of hesed. I admire every single one of you! Thank you is not enough. My heart will always be connected to all of yours. We have shared the horrors together, and also saw true resilience of our nation. Am Israel Chai!”
Mrs. Rochelle Mansour

On our last day of the mission we hosted a carnival for the displaced families from Kfar Aza. We gifted backpacks, water bottles, bracelets, etc. to the children of Kfar Aza. We really had an amazing opportunity to sit with them and connect with them. They sat with us and shared their personal experiences from that day, and we really were able to feel and bond with them.

This trip has changed all of us in ways that are difficult to describe. At times, it was unbearable to witness the destruction but at the center of this heartbreaking tragedy are the families who lost so much. It was a necessity for all of us to come to Israel and be with the soldiers, the survivors, our Jewish family in Israel, to grieve with them and to help them in the best way that we possibly could. The Magen David Solidarity mission and many members of the trip donated vehicles, televisions, tzizit, tehilim books, gifts and toys for children, etc. Being in Israel has shown all of us that in the face of tragedy and in the aftermath of such a brutal attack on our people, we will always come out stronger, and more united than ever. Am Yisrael Chai!

As I begin to reflect and process all that we saw and felt this past week, I’m just so grateful to have had this amazing opportunity. Thank you all! It was an honor and a privilege to have shared this life changing experience with all of you, my Israel family! We cried, we laughed, we sang, we danced, we listened, we embraced, we loved, we cared and together we made a difference. We heard the most horrific testimonies, painful stories but through all the devastation we found so much inspiration. There was a common thread amongst all those we met from the released hostages, to the wounded warriors, active fighters, volunteers and first responders. They all shared a sense of strength, resilience, bravery, humility, emunah and a sense of responsibility and care for one another. I’ve never been more proud to be a part of Am Yisrael! There’s a long road ahead and still so much more to be done but I know that together with Hashem’s help “the flowers will bloom gain.” Wishing you a Shabbat shalom! Am yisrael Chai!
Norma Chehebar

Our Mission Isn’t Over…

As I sit on the plane trying to take it all in.
How to convey what we saw; what we heard
It is hard to describe and to put into words.

I cried cries I have never cried before,
As we saw the horrors and destruction the world
chooses to ignore.
Walking through the kibbutzim that once looked like a dream, with flowers and sunsets and pots filled with greens.
Bullet holes everywhere as we walked through the door
Death and destruction, everything thrown to the floor.
We can still see the beautiful lives they once lived,
Full pantries, siddurim, and games for the kids.
And now what’s left are homes burned to the ground,
All we see are shreds of a family once safe and sound.

We met Maya and Itay who told us about their time in captivity;
There were no tears, just love and positivity.
Bones were broken; but faith was strong,
These are the people to whom we belong.
Badly wounded, starving and threatened with knives
Secret letters to each other helped keep them alive.
Hamas made them believe their people didnt care,
Imagine their surprise when they saw their pictures
plastered everywhere.
As Itay was freed, cousin Omer is left alone.
Together we prayed for them all to come home!

We met Mia Shem, a true symbol of hope,
Overwhelmed by emotion I could barely cope
We cried and we hugged, not believing she was real
With mom by her side, and strength made of steel.
We told her we prayed for her. Every day, Everywhere.
So touched, she said “I really felt it when I was there”
For her safe return, We Thank you Hashem!
Mia assured us not to worry, for “We will all dance again!”

The soldiers told us their heroic tales,
Proving that our nation will always prevail.
Taking bullets for us, each and every day,
Bullet wounds and missing limbs is the price they are willing to pay.
There was Gaya, the young medic who jumped into the fire,
To save her fellow soldiers with such strong desire.
Israel, a soldier who was ready to accept his death,
But instead was saved by his friend with incredible strength.
Their bodies were injured but they held their heads high,
As we sang all together “Am yisrael Chai.”

The next day for me was the hardest of all,
As we met the policemen who saved the little girls.
The cries of a grandmother were so hard to bear,
Her tears filled with so much loss and despair.
We listened as he recounted what happened,
On that dreadful day — October 7.
Leaving his own family, he did not know what was in store
Was it a lone terrorist or a few more?
To his horror, he saw all the cars with bullets right through;
The worst nightmare was coming true.
Amongst all the bullets, bombs and grenades,
He heard the cries of a young girl he knew he had to save.
He got to the car on his own two feet,
Found the little girl with her baby sister hiding under the seat.
He picked up the girls and he ran and ran,
Taking cover wherever he can.
He got them to safety and continued to fight,
A story of heroism and incredible might!

Despite all the pain and the sorrow, spirits run high,
Grateful to be Jewish; Our hearts bursting with pride.
In the past, we have come to Israel to see the land,
But this time we came for the people; to connect, and stand hand in hand.
From the wedding to bar mitzvahs and everything in between,
The week was filled with happiness and joy that could not be foreseen
We sang, oh we sang and we danced, how we danced!
We hugged and we loved and our lives have been enhanced.
Our smiles are wide, our bonds are strong
So blessed that to Am Yisrael we belong!

But our mission isn’t over, it will never be.
We owe it to our people, for it is why we live free.
We will strengthen our prayers, we will not live in fear,
To give strength to our brothers and sisters we hold dear.
We must retell the stories. We must honor and share.
We will make sure their voices are heard everywhere!
For the people of Israel who continue to fight,
We will love one and other and spread love and light.

By Reggie Tawil

Thank you all for including Hymie and me on this memorable trip. It’s an amazing thing of course to feel a sense of identity as we are all part of a truly great community, but it’s even a greater feeling to feel the pull towards fellow Jews within an even greater Jewish nation. Religious — not religious — I felt inspired by so many new individuals in my life who carry the Jewish trait of loyalty, pride and resilience. I told Rimon’s sister-in-law Yael (the one from Berkeley College) that her kindness and loyalty towards Rimon shone through, and I felt as if I’d known her for a lifetime. There was also the police lady who fought like a Macabee, the soldiers who anticipate a new leg so they can go back on the front lines, the tough love of a single mother living on the border of Gaza who listened to her ‘intuition’ and forbade her daughter to go to the Nova Festival and the respect that her daughter had to actually stay home and not beg or sneak out. I was inspired by the mother of the bat mitzvah girl who gave her little daughters knives to fight till the end. Yossi’s haunted look as he sacrifices his sanity to do the work of Zaka — work that most of us would never, ever do will stay with me forever.
Post October 7, friends and strangers are continually drawn even closer together daily. These are boundary shattering times. Praying that this all leads to an end to suffering and the arrival of mashiach, G-d willing soon. Am Yisrael Chai.
Marlene Mamiye

Kelly Elo is an amazing mom of 4 kids and the director of related services at MDY.

CONGRESSMAN BRIAN MAST VISITS ISREAL IN SUPPORT OF THE NEXT STEP

A s war rages on, many people have taken trips to Israel to show their support for our brothers and sisters in Israel, for the wounded, for the families of the hostages, and for those grieving their loved ones.

Recently, U.S. Congressman Brian Mast, who is both a combat veteran and a bilateral amputee, went on a four-day trip to Israel, collaborating with The Next Step. This organization is unique in Israel for its dedication to offering full-scale care to amputees, whether they are affected by acts of terror or combat in the Israeli Defense Forces (IDF).

As someone who deeply understands the challenges faced by amputees due to his own experiences as a soldier in Afghanistan, Congressman Mast spent his time in Israel visiting hospitals and interacting with amputee patients. His trip included a notable visit to Tel Hashomer Hospital, where he engaged in a physical therapy session alongside other amputees, underscoring the critical role of rehabilitation and the journey towards recovery.

A cornerstone of the trip was Mast’s visit to Hadassah Hospital alongside Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and Stephen Shamosh, Chairman of the Board of The Next Step. There, they met with wounded soldiers, offering them comfort and support, in a heartwarming display of international solidarity with our brothers and sisters in Israel.

The mission also included a visit to Kibbutz Beeri, a community that was significantly impacted on October 7. The group, which included The Next Step supporters, met Avida Bachar Avida, a 59-year-old amputee who lost his leg during the Hamas attack, shared his harrowing tale, from the confines of his wheelchair amidst the remnants of his burnt home in Beeri. He bore witness to the unspeakable horrors he experienced — the murder of his wife and son before his eyes. Avida’s story was a testament to the human spirit’s capacity for hope and resilience in the darkest times.

The visit to the Kotel was particularly moving. The group stood before the ancient representation of endurance alongside 20 recent amputees. Sephardic Chief Rabbi Yitzchak Yosef prayed with the group and blessed them all. It was a powerful reminder of the perseverance and pride inherent in Jewish identity, especially during challenging times.

The average age of Israeli amputees since October 7 is just 22 years old. These are young people who stepped up to safeguard our people, our country — and their lives will never be the same. Each individual has been cut from their prime and now faces the daunting reality of physical and emotional challenges that come with limb-loss.

Mr. Stephen Shamosh expressed the need perfectly. “Having spent a week in Israel with Congressman Mast and Prime Minister Netanyahu, and witnessing firsthand the critical needs of numerous injured soldiers and civilians, one thing is crystal clear: The responsibility falls on us — the Jewish community, the Syrian community, and The Next Step Organization — to nurture and support our brothers and sisters in Israel. We are committed to securing their health and mobility for the long term. There simply is no alternative.”

As the mission came to a close, recent amputees enjoyed a retreat in Jerusalem organized by The Next Step. Amputees left hospitals and rehabs to experience an unforgettable weekend forging bonds with fellow amputees and their families. Participants enjoyed enlightening lectures and workshops about life with limb-loss. In the group therapy sessions, individuals engaged in heartfelt conversations about finding ways to reclaim a sense of normalcy in the aftermath of their traumatic losses.

The solidarity mission, though brief, instilled renewed hope in the hearts of many individuals impacted by October 7th and the fighting that ensued. Amputees expressed gratitude, sharing that they found immense comfort meeting a group that journeyed thousands of miles to support them as they navigate their new reality.

As conflict ensues, we pray for the return of the hostages, healing for the wounded, and comfort for the grieving.

The road ahead for Israel’s wounded is long and difficult. And they are turning to The Next Step for life-changing care. They need psychological support to heal from their abrupt, transformative life changes. They are depending on us to assist them in their physical recoveries, with advanced bionic prosthetics and state-of-the-art rehabilitation.

Partner with The Next Step today to provide life changing support to Israel’s wounded: https://www.thenextstep.org/donate-now.

SANDRA LAZAR

INDUSTRY RESEARCH INDICATES THAT 82% OF SMALL BUSINESSES FAIL DUE TO POOR CASH FLOW MANAGEMENT. WE’VE ALL HEARD THE TERM “CASH IS KING. SO HOW DO WE WORK ON ENSURING THAT WE HAVE THE PROPER CASH FLOW THAT’S NEEDED IN OUR BUSINESS?

What is Cash Flow?
Cash flow measures the company’s sources and uses of cash. When a customer pays for goods and services, the money received is a source of cash, also called “cash in.” When a business pays its bills or its employees, that is considered a use of cash, or “cash out.”

When the amount of cash coming into the business is larger than the amount of cash leaving the business, there is a positive cash flow. That is a good sign.

On the other hand, if a business has more cash leaving the business than coming into the business, it has a negative cash flow. This is problematic for a business. One way to avoid having a negative cash flow is by doing a cash flow forecast.

What is Cash Flow Forecasting?
A cash flow forecast is similar to a budget. However, rather than summarizing prior activity, the forecast looks ahead to predict and plan future cash flow. Cash flow forecasting is important whether a business is doing well or struggling. Regularly preparing cash flow forecasts is considered good financial hygiene. Knowing what’s likely ahead can help businesses plan accordingly. For example, companies with a cash-positive forecast might look to make some investments, expand their operations or make additional distributions to its owners. Cash-negative companies will need to keep close tabs on their cash flow to keep operations running smoothly by paying suppliers, employees, taxes and lenders on time.

How do I manage my business’ cash flow?
Stay on top of your bookkeeping regularly. This means having your accounts reconciled monthly and keeping information up to date. Having an experienced bookkeeper to handle this is crucial to your business.

Generate cash flow statements to be analyzed monthly. Analyzing your cash flow will give a deep level of visibility for your business. The statement will help you determine whether you need to increase your cash flow. It will also help you see what areas of the business to focus on.

Look to see where you can streamline your spending. Overspending can result from covering unnecessary expenses or paying for expenses at times that are not strategic.

Rinse & Repeat: The more you analyze your financial statements, the better you will become at spotting opportunities to increase cash flow and nip shortages in the bud before they become larger issues.

There is a famous saying: “Revenue is vanity, profit is sanity and cash flow is reality.”

This article is to be used for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, business, or tax advice. Each person should consult his or her own attorney, business advisor, or tax advisor with respect to matters referenced in this post. Lazar Accounting assumes no liability for actions taken in reliance upon the information contained herein.

Sandra Lazar graduated Brooklyn college in 1995. She has served as a CFO in a variety of businesses for the past 25 years.

ARI BAUM ®

$100 IS ON THE TABLE, AND YOU ARE GIVEN A CHOICE. YOU CAN EITHER OPT TO RECEIVE A GUARANTEED $50 OR TAKE A RISK BY FLIPPING A COIN. IF THE COIN LANDS ON HEADS, YOU GAIN $100, BUT IF IT LANDS ON TAILS, YOU RECEIVE NOTHING. GIVEN THIS CHOICE, MOST INDIVIDUALS WOULD LIKELY CHOOSE THE ASSURED $50. HOW ABOUT YOU?

Now, consider a scenario where the focus shifts to potential losses. Imagine you are at risk of losing $50 right from the start. Furthermore, envision that in the coin toss, landing heads would result in a loss of $100, while landing tails would mean no loss at all. Here, most folks choose to flip the coin. What would you do?

In the realm of financial choices, fear and greed often play pivotal roles, influencing decisions that may not be in one’s best interest. The inherent fear of losses and the allure of gains can lead individuals to make emotional decisions that disrupt our ability to make sound, long-term decisions.

How $25 Trillion+ Has Been Lost
To Greed & Fear In 35 Years
1987 Stock Market Crash (Black Monday)
When: Monday, October 19, 1987
Why: Panic! Wall Street melted down, giving into fear in response to major world events. A U.S. attack on an Iranian oil platform caused a massive panic, with fear driving many to sell ASAP. Markets crashed soon after.

The Losses: The Dow dropped 22.6%, falling 508 points. That’s roughly the same as a 7,000-point freefall in today’s markets.

Dotcom Bubble
When: 1995 to 2002, with a peak on March 10, 2000, and a crash on October 4, 2002
Why: Extreme optimism in the early internet age sparked overconfidence, widespread speculation, and overvaluations. Folks gave into greed, rushing to invest in companies and concepts before they had proven models or even a business plan. That lasted for years until the bubble burst in late 2002, as investment dollars dried up and many tech companies went under. When the bubble burst, greed turned into FEAR as investors rushed to get out.

The Losses: The Nasdaq fell nearly 77%, dropping from roughly 5,132.52 (in March 2000) to 1,139.90 by October 2002. Tech companies that didn’t go under saw their values decline by as much as 80%. All said and done, the burst of the dotcom bubble resulted in losses of around $5 trillion.

Cryptocurrency Bubble & Bust
When: 2020 to 2022
Why: Crypto has been through a couple of bubbles and busts. The most recent one happened during the pandemic, with greed gripping many folks out of work and bored at home. That’s when optimism and crypto greed was high, with many rushing to buy the newest blockchain assets available, including nonfungible tokens (NFTs). Some of these assets appreciated by 20 to 40 times their original value, stoking investor greed. But it didn’t last. Rising interest rates, inflation, and world events, like the war in Ukraine, soon turned that greed into fear. That fear led to a crypto crash in late 2022, with incredible losses to follow.

The Losses: An estimated $2 trillion was lost so far in the most recent crypto crash. Most of that disappeared in about 6 months.
What if you ignored the cycle of fear and greed?

The Lump Sum Investment
Let’s look at a simple example: Someone invests a lump sum of $100,000 in the S&P 500 in January 1987. Assuming an average annual return of 10.11% over the next 35 years, that 100k would have grown to about $3,206,940 by the end of 2022.

Takeaway: This shows the significant compound growth possible from a lump sum investment left untouched for decades. Of course, staying invested through many ups and downs requires patience and discipline. But the long-term rewards can be substantial with a buy-and-hold approach.

The Power of Consistency
Consider the following investment approach: Investing $500 per month in the S&P 500 from 1987 through 2022.
That’s a total investment of $210,000 over 35 years. Assuming an average annual return of 10.11%, those monthly $500 contributions would have grown to around $1.7 million by the end of 2022.

Takeaway: This example illustrates the power of consistent investing over long time periods. By sticking to a regular contribution plan, one can potentially build substantial wealth through compounding growth, even if investing relatively small amounts. The key is to stay disciplined and keep investing through ups and downs.

FINANCIAL LESSON
Were you surprised to see the losses caused by greed and fear?
If you could go back in time and handle any of them differently, would you?

No one can predict what’s going to happen next, and that can be a tipping point for fear and greed, especially in turbulent times. With that fear and greed, we tend to be more impulsive. We may even panic and rush to act because we’re afraid of missing out (FOMO, anyone?). That’s when we can be more vulnerable to poor choices and the losses that we’re so desperate to avoid, like selling low and buying high. The more we know about fear, greed, loss, and our financial choices, the better. That’s how we can get our emotions and instincts in check to make better financial decisions, regardless of what the markets are doing. Of course, that’s not always easy to remember in the moment. That’s why we shouldn’t jump on any bandwagons or dive into big financial choices without thinking them through.

Instead, we can take some simple steps to avoid the fear/greed cycle and do the following:

1. Set some long-term financial goals.
2. Get some distance and avoid checking your portfolio day to day.
3. Take your time and think things through.

It’s prudent to check in with the folks you trust, especially when it’s time to make major money moves.

Risk Disclosure: Investing involves risk including the potential loss of principal. Past performance does not guarantee future results. This material is for information purposes only and is not intended as an offer or solicitation with respect to the purchase or sale of any security. The content is developed from sources believed to be providing accurate information. Consult your financial professional before making any investment decision. For illustrative use only.

Ari Baum, CFP® is the founder and CEO of Endurance Wealth Partners, with over 26 years of experience in the Financial Services industry. He brings his in-depth experience to Conceive. Believe. Achieve. for his clients.
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SOPHIA FRANCO

MEMORY IS A FUNNY THING. IT PLAYS TRICKS ON US, FLASHING ONE REEL, AND THEN ANOTHER. WHEN I WAS A TEENAGER, I HAD A MOTTO. “ENJOY LIFE, YOU MAY GET HIT BY A TRAIN TOMORROW.” LOOKING BACK, THAT SOUNDS TERRIBLE, BUT IT WASN’T. I WAS A RULE BREAKER, AND A WHIM TAKER. MY SISTER’S HUSBAND NICKNAMED ME, “FLOWER CHILD,” AND I GUESS I WAS.

Iwas the one who brought an extra pack of Yodels to share with the rest of my table at lunch. I was the one who ordered the French fries at the diner, and I was the one who threw Peanut M&M’s into our popcorn at the movies. I was chunky, as my husband reminds me, and in the version of the story I speak about here, I didn’t care. And yet, even as I type these words, I also remember bringing no-mayo tuna on “thin bread” to lunch, day after day, to the very same table where I once brought Yodels, years before. I remember a strict 800 calorie a day diet that I kept for months, and that the two pieces of thin bread were just 100 calories combined. I remember being hungry. At that time, I remember a nervous tic of clicking my watch buckle open and closed, incessantly, throughout the day. So, no, maybe I wasn’t always a flower child. Maybe I was a nervous little girl trying to make my friends think I was awesome because I ordered whipped cream and hot fudge on my frozen yogurt. I’m not quite sure.

Sari Dana and I grew up together; we are exactly the same age. It is incredible to see her enthusiastic following, and to watch how she has brilliantly tackled the once taboo subject of elevating body image in this community. Her book, Body Positive – The Journey, is more than inspiring. It allows us to experience her personal story in a real and raw way, and says, to each of us, you are not alone. We are in this together.

Mary Anne Cohen, Director of The New York Center for Eating Disorders since 1982, psychotherapist, and Sari’s book editor explains, “Sari has become an energetic warrior against diet culture, expressing a fervent wish for girls and women to truly learn how to free themselves from society’s straight jacket. Her book is filled with wonderful stories from Sari’s life (cue up her sad and hilarious attempts to lose weight through fertility hormones as well as by carrying 50 frozen juice bottles on vacation from Brooklyn to the Caribbean). Body Positive is also a guidebook, inspirational roadmap, educational manual, and most of all, represents her desire to inject hope for those who have constantly struggled with the pain and frustration of eating and body image dissatisfaction.”

“WHAT DO I WANT?”
Sari began her career some thirty years ago as a certified health coach and fitness instructor with a following that grew to over a hundred women and girls attending her classes daily. After she began her journey with Mary Anne’s help, she employed a method of declaring self-love affirmations combined with embodied movement called intenSati, and experienced life changing results. She decided to introduce it to her girls. “I am powerful beyond measure,” she exclaimed, while rolling her hands in front of her heart in a move called Power. “Let’s repeat, I am powerful beyond measure!” They responded, but not with strength. No one understood or cared about how they felt. They cared about a smaller waist and thinner thighs. They cared about how they looked.

Sari explains, “Fifteen years ago, no one spoke about true wellness or healing from the inside out, but I had seen the light. I spent an immense amount of time retraining my brain, and I learned that people can be themselves and love their bodies in all shapes and sizes. I stayed with this message, even though my classes dwindled to almost no one. Still, I’d get calls from moms saying, ‘keep at it; my daughter needs to hear this!’ or ‘I don’t come to your classes but I watch all your videos, you’re amazing!’ I knew how important this message was. And I kept at it. Today, I truly feel like a trailblazer!”

And then, there is social media. No doubt, on Instagram or Snapchat, we will see top models looking gorgeous while heading to the gym, influencers showing off surgically enhanced buttocks and boobs, and friends with pretty drinks in hand, looking oh-so-happy, whether they are or not. How can we ever compare? The analyzers know this, and diligently do their jobs, presenting you with appropriate self-help ads, magical hair straightening tools and potions, clear skin red/blue or green light masks, weight loss pills and injections and “clean” meals delivered to your door. Of course, clothing ads follow, to show off your now perfect body, once you’ve taken advantage of all these fabulous offers. Help!

“FREEDOM IS BEING YOU WITHOUT ANYONE’S PERMISSION.”
Sari explains, “We were all born loving ourselves. Think of a little girl dancing full out in the mirror, loving herself completely. Suddenly, somewhere around puberty that changes. Hips start to expand, bellies round out, friends progress at slower or faster paces — and a new learned message sets in, ‘we are not perfect enough.’ Jane Fonda was iconic back when I was a teenager, in her high cut fluorescent bodysuit and legwarmers. She was thin and perfect, and she told us we could fix our bodies. I, among so many others believed her. Looking back, I see it as change, change, change! You’re not good enough as you are. Was the message to feel beautiful, or to feel thin? Are those words synonymous? Where was the freedom just to be?”

Sari’s docket is full these days, teaching The Body Positive Journey curriculum and Brain Health Positivity in each of our community’s high schools, coaching privately, online, and in groups large and small. She is also promoting her book, lifestyle and “zenSari” positive empowerment and body love brand. “Everyone is tired of perfection. In the schools I show up real. I’ll kick my shoes off and declare positive affirmations, asking them to repeat, and they do! I show them what it feels like to feel free, empowered, positive, smart, beautiful, and authentic. I want them to appreciate the face and the body they have; you may not look like everyone else, but you are who you are, and be proud of that. I like to listen, and let them speak about their pressures. I truly understand their feelings, and the more time we spend together, the more each girl is able to grow into a new empowered woman.”

“EATING DISORDERS ARE NEVER ACTUALLY ABOUT FOOD BUT ABOUT FILLING AN EMPTINESS THAT IS WITHIN US.”
Joanie, one of Sari’s first students, recalls, “I am a friend of Sari’s daughter, Yvette. We came to her house one day to try her mom’s program, and Sari had music blasting. We danced and did the affirmations. She had us reflect, and become aware of how we felt, and it was honestly the best experience I ever had. Years later, she introduced a class called, ‘brain health,’ during lunch, and a lot of us found that it really translated into life. Before a test, a group of us girls would make a circle and do the affirmations together and talk positively about ourselves. It worked! In those days I was shy, even insecure, but with Sari I was able to recognize my capabilities and realize the difference in thinking positively about myself. She gave us a new perspective, and through that lens, I changed, and grew. I would not be who I am without her. Now I’m very outgoing and confident. But this wasn’t always me. It was all from Sari.”

Sari provides an opportunity for girls, young and old, to feel good about whoever and whatever they are on any given day. She asks them to think before they do; is it necessary? Is it helpful? Is it inspiring? Joy, a 15-year-old student reflects, “A lot of people in school don’t talk about mental health. Nobody wants to admit who they do, or don’t want to be, or how they see themselves in the mirror. I really look up to her.”

Rebecca, a Flatbush 10th grader explains, “Sometimes we do power poses, and they actually work! Sari makes me see the world in a different way. She helps me to walk through my day with positivity, self-worth and confidence. I’ve found that once you can see the world in a positive way, everything becomes sharper, and more attainable. Sari helps me to realize that I can do hard things.”

Diane, a young mom in Sari’s online course says, “I learned to love my body with all its imperfections, and that allows me to raise my daughter with a new mindset.” Sarah, a 40-year-old who has dieted since she was 8, explains, “The whole dieting and perfection thing is wrong. Sari’s teachings helped end my binge eating and exhausting dieting cycle. I honestly can’t believe it. This loving method works!”

“WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER.”
“What I see,” says Liat Dahan, head of education for Project Safe, “is a truly healthy woman healing from a lifelong cycle of disordered eating. Sari is educating young girls that thinness doesn’t equal beautiful, but rather, confidence does, and that can only come from within. I recall one of the girls looking at her at the end of the session, saying, ‘I want to be confident like you are. That’s what I would love.’ To hear a 16-year-old say that to a woman over 50, that spoke volumes.”

In this tight knit community, there is much blessing to take advantage of and enjoy, but also high pressure to do it. Acceptance, impression; everyone’s burden is different, but it is all very important to us. Preparing physically and mentally is tiring, and often comes at a cost, not only monetarily, but for the body and soul. Sari’s methods provide a way off this treadmill we are all running on, at full speed. She has honestly shifted the narrative; instead of saying, ‘I need to be perfect,’ she’s telling us ‘you are already perfect.’ She is creating a space for each of us to be proud, and confident. Liat continues, “Through her classes, and now her book, it has become clear that we can feel comfortable in our own skin. Sari has a very special way in which she delivers that message to young girls. She sees herself in each of them and looks at them with love. They look up to her because they can sense that, and see that she is for real.”

Joanie, now in college, continues, “I was laughing, crying, and smiling reading Sari’s book. There is vulnerability, positivity and growth, and it was so inspiring. Looking at Sari, she’s the most positive, happy person. You would think her life is perfect, and never know what went on behind the scenes. Yes, she has confidence, and views herself positively, but the book showed me that she struggled to get there, like we all do. The beauty that is Sari Dana came with growth and hard work, and I can get to that place too. It is relatable. And the goals are achievable. It was very impactful.”

In her book, Sari says, “I knew I was here on purpose, for a purpose.” That line struck me, as I often feel the same. We all should. Sari’s journey has taught her, and now all of us, that it is worth spending more time on how and what we think, and the words and language we use. She continues, “I work with grown women, as well, who have been at constant war with food and their bodies, creating fear, stress and anxiety. This weighs us down! When how we think and feel on the inside becomes strong and positive, the outer appearance begins to match. That’s when the smiles grow wide and beautiful.” As a writer, I often put myself out there, and that’s not easy. I know that when I feel confident, I am braver. When I feel worthy, I stand taller. When I am happy, I am glowing. Bravo, Sari, for opening up our hearts and minds to possibilities; to shaping our own lives, and becoming the best versions of ourselves. There is a way out, and you have opened the door.

Writing this while in Aruba during winter break, seeing each and every girl look spectacular (you do), I cannot help but feel the pressure they are under to present themselves “perfectly.” This topic is so important!

Sophia Franco is a community member, mom and grandmother, author, poet and lyricist. Interviews for this piece were conducted by Gabrielle Greenstein, MDY senior.

KYLIE ORA LOBELL

ADELA COJAB MOADEB HAD BEEN A PROUD JEW AND ZIONIST HER ENTIRE LIFE. IN 2019, WHEN SHE WAS A STUDENT AT NEW YORK UNIVERSITY, AND BACK HOME FROM A RECENT BIRTHRIGHT ISRAEL TRIP, SHE DECIDED TO CELEBRATE ISRAEL’S INDEPENDENCE DAY IN WASHINGTON SQUARE PARK WITH HER JEWISH FRIENDS AND FELLOW JEWISH STUDENTS.

In the past, anti-Jewish protestors had tried to shut down the celebration, so Adela, who was the president of the student group Realize Israel, met with the NYU administration to express her concerns. They told her she was overreacting.

She wasn’t.

As soon as the event started, an anti-Zionist student rushed to the front of the protest line, held up the Israeli flag, lit it on fire, and threw it to the ground where it continued to burn. Adela told her friends to ignore him, sing “Hatikvah” and move on.

Suddenly, a student protestor grabbed a microphone from a Jewish student, yelled “Free Palestine!” and waved his hands in the air. More protestors took the 10-foot Israeli flag, shredded it, and hung it from lamp posts and trees. Two protestors were arrested by NYPD and charged with assault, reckless endangerment, and property theft and damage.

Soon after, Adela, who was also a senator for the NYU student government, met with the administration to tell them that a line had been crossed and it was time to act.

What did NYU do instead? They gave the anti-Israel hate group the President’s Service Award — the highest honor a student group can receive.

“There was so much frustration and sadness,” Adela said. “The school wouldn’t even make a statement about the burning of the Israeli flag. They weren’t even willing to deal with it as a conduct issue.”

SUING NYU
Adela kept trying to meet with the school to get them to do something, but they ignored her. So, she sued NYU under Title VI of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, which states that, “no person in the United States shall, on the ground of race, color, or national origin, be excluded from participation in, be denied the benefits of, or be subjected to discrimination under any program or activity receiving federal financial assistance.”

“My lawsuit against NYU wasn’t about antisemitism or additional protection for the Jewish community,” Adela said. “It was about equal protection under the law. The school and the government have laws to protect religious groups on campus. Jewish students were left out. The school cannot decide which minorities do and do not deserve protection.”

Adela was familiar with anti-Jewish hate, having grown up in a Syrian-Lebanese-Jewish home. Her mother’s side left Lebanon in the 1970’s when the war broke out, and her father’s side left Syria in the 1920’s. As Jews, they were second-class citizens in these countries.

“Jews were not able to get passports,” Adela said. “They were not included. They didn’t feel safe, so they left.”

Adela was born in Mexico, and she went to NYU to major in Near and Middle Eastern studies. She became vice president of her sorority, AEPHi, and served as the official representative of Jewish Students at the United Nations.

The event in Washington Square Park wasn’t the only antisemitic event that occurred on campus during her time at NYU. The Governance Counsel for Marginalized and Minority Students (GCOMMS) put out a statement that compared Zionism to racism and Nazism, and just two weeks after this, a resolution was presented to NYU Student Government to boycott the NYU campus in Tel Aviv. And then, 53 student clubs signed a pledge to boycott Israel and Realize Israel, which Adela was involved in at the time. NYU has a large student population in the second-most-Jewish part of the world.

“Every liberal institution tells people they shouldn’t check their identity at the door,” she said. “Jews shouldn’t have to, either.”

After filing her lawsuit against NYU, Adela made headlines, and then-President Trump invited her to Miami to speak about it. Just three days later, he signed an executive order that expanded the definition of Judaism to be considered an ethno-religion, and it would fall under Title VI. This change in the law meant that NYU would likely lose in court.

So NYU drafted a settlement agreement. Adela did not request damages. She simply wanted NYU to act when there was discrimination against Jewish students.

“Lawsuits take a long time to affect anything,” Adela said. “It doesn’t become instantly better. They start making changes, no matter how small. It’s unfortunate, but at the end of the day, schools do respond to legal action.”

How Jewish Students Should Respond to Antisemitism on Campus.

Even in the face of rising antisemitism on campuses around the U.S., she urges students not to leave their schools or be afraid. Instead, they must be proud and fight back.

Following the settlement, there wasn’t much happening on campus since it was COVID. But since the October 7 attack, antisemitism at Adela’s alma mater has spiraled out of control.

“There has been an explosion of antisemitism at NYU,” she said. “It’s a shame. If NYU had dealt with it head on and instilled proactive programming to combat antisemitism, or they had actually dealt with the real issue, it wouldn’t be happening. I sent them a letter calling for suppression of SJP (Students for Justice in Palestine) as a student organization.”

She continued, “They can’t just sit there and say, ‘We don’t know what to do’ or “This is a complicated situation.’ If you would have done your job four years ago, you wouldn’t be in this situation.”

Now, three NYU students are following in Adela’s footsteps and suing the school. Other students across the United States who are facing antisemitism on campus are wondering if they should do the same.

“You don’t have to run off and sue your school,” said Adela, who is now a JD Candidate at Cardozo School of Law. “That should be a last resort. But every student should be making a record of antisemitic incidents so that the school is aware.”

Adela doesn’t believe the schools are inherently antisemitic — they just don’t know how to deal with antisemitism. Plus, schools including NYU are receiving funding from anti-Israel Arab countries, and NYU has “a good chunk of faculty that are against condemning antisemitism,” Adela said.

However, even in the face of rising antisemitism on campuses around the U.S., she urges students not to leave their schools or be afraid. Instead, they must be proud and fight back.

“These students should be more open about their Judaism and make it clear they belong in that school like everyone else,” she said. “Jewish students should know: they are not alone.”

Kylie Ora Lobell is a Los Angeles-based writer as well as president of KOL Digital Marketing, where she does publicity and marketing and helps clients share their unique stories with the world.

FRIEDA AZRAK, GLORIA CHABBOTT & JOELLE BAWABEH

GEARING UP FOR A FABULOUS YEAR, THE MAGEN DAVID YESHIVAH PTA MET ONE SUMMER DAY TO DISCUSS THE COMING SCHOOL YEAR. AS WE WERE PLANNING, A MEMBER OF OUR TEAM RECEIVED A NOTICE ON THEIR PHONE, ISHAY RIBO HAD SOLD OUT HIS CONCERT IN MADISON SQUARE GARDEN ON SEPTEMBER 3RD.

We allowed ourselves to drift into a daydream for a moment and consider what it would be like if we were able to host him in our school for our children. We immediately added it to our wish list.

Fast forward to October 7th, a war broke out in Israel, as a school and community we put our plans on hold, with a focus on doing everything possible we could to support the soldiers, the country, and the effort. Prayers, fundraisers and hesed, no stone was left unturned. We banded together to achieve one common goal.

Jews from all over the world attended a huge rally held in Washington, DC in support of Israel. One performer who had flown in from Israel to sing at the rally was Ishay Ribo. As he got onto the stage, his music and words brought such a special spirituality to the event. That same feeling crept up on us once again, we would love Ishay to perform for our school! We would welcome that ruach with open arms!

The MDY family has been working so hard in support of Israel, we thought it would be amazing if we could present our school with the ultimate Hanukkah gift! Lo and behold after being introduced to his team, Ishay Ribo was going to be coming to Magen David Yeshivah! We were bursting with excitement, but there was one catch. We couldn’t tell a soul! It was going to be a Hanukkah surprise for our students and teachers! We planned for two concerts, to accommodate grades 3 through 12, and started counting down the days until showtime! December 5th could not come fast enough! We were eager to see the reaction of the Magen David family!

A surprise assembly was scheduled, and students did not know what to expect. As they entered the auditorium under our Hanukkah inspired balloon arch, their faces lit up with excitement and anticipation. They knew something special was happening. The electricity was palpable, the room smoldering with excitement! When our principal Rabbi Cohen-Saban introduced the world-famous performer, the cheers that erupted were deafening. Everyone was ready for the music, and the light it would bring to their lives. The energy level only increased with each song. He sang his beautiful tunes, impactful words, words of prayer and hizuk. Ishay possesses a velvety soft voice, accompanied by the strum of his guitar that captures your heart and pierces your soul.

What a dream come true! Ishay Ribo was in our auditorium, performing for our children in their home, and he was spectacular! It was better than anything we could have imagined. The students and teachers of Magen David were all singing, dancing, cheering and enjoying as one. Ishay sang with them, prayed with our students for the soldiers and the release of the hostages, as we all united in solidarity under the Israeli flag.

There were moments looking out at the crowd of children waving their light up wands that just felt like a pure blessing. The PTA could not have presented our school with a more perfect gift. They needed this. We needed this! How important in this time in such an unstable world, to be unified as one. In a time filled with worry and desperation, we encourage pride in who we are, a Jewish nation, and where we come from.

At MDY we are grateful to be united in such a harmonious fashion. Faculty members were so touched and grateful to be part of such an uplifting experience. We have received numerous messages about that very special day. Here are just a few:

“Wow, wow, wow, what an incredible day!”

‘So grateful, and you managed to pull off Ishay Ribo twice! Kol HaKavod, unbelievable!”

“The PTA did an amazing job connecting our community through Ishay Ribo and his spiritual music, and made me proud to be part of Am Yisrael, thank you!”

As the day came to a close, we felt a deep sense of satisfaction that we ignited a flame in their hearts. We felt very confident to send our children home saying “Now go, light the candles of Hanukkah and celebrate the miracle of our salvation.”

Beezrat Hashem it will come again soon.

Frieda Azrak, Gloria Chabbott, and Joelle Bawabeh are Magen David Yeshivah PTA Presidium.

& OPERATION MAGEN ISRAEL

MIGDAL OHR, ONE OF ISRAEL’S MOST IMPACTFUL SOCIAL WELFARE ORGANIZATIONS, IS LEADING ITS LARGEST HUMANITARIAN RELIEF EFFORT YET, CALLED MAGEN ISRAEL, UNDER THE LEADERSHIP OF ITS FOUNDER, THE TZADIK AND ISRAEL PRIZE LAUREATE RABBI YITZCHAK DAVID GROSSMAN.

Now, in the difficult and uncertain days of the war, Migdal Ohr has been providing ongoing care for thousands of displaced parents and children, visiting and blessing hundreds of wounded victims and soldiers, inspiring army units, and of course, caring for the 10,000 orphaned and underprivileged children who are a part of the Migdal Ohr family.

In times of national crises, Rabbi Grossman and Migdal Ohr have consistently played an active role in supporting Israel, collaborating with government bodies to deliver immediate relief. When the COVID pandemic struck, Rabbi Grossman was called upon by the Israeli government to lead a significant packaging relief effort. Similarly, during the Second Lebanon War, Migdal Ohr opened its campus doors to host hundreds of soldiers. The commitment to providing assistance remains unwavering during these ongoing times of war in Israel.

OPERATION MAGEN ISRAEL MOBILIZING DURING WAR
With the outbreak of the war with Gaza, the organization mobilized donors all over the world in a massive campaign to provide shelter to over 4,000 evacuees from the Gaza border and to help the families most affected by the massacres in the south of Israel. The Magen Israel initiative continues to quickly expand, responding to immediate needs that are emerging on the front lines and in Israel’s hospitals.

As a unifying and beloved national figure, Rabbi Grossman has always taken the approach that Israel is one family, with one heart and has always been willing to do anything necessary to help Israel with the resources at his disposal. Magen Israel has hosted over a thousand soldiers on Migdal Ohr’s campuses, cooked over 2,000 meals a day out of Migdal Ohr’s soup kitchens, and sent thousands of supplies to soldiers on the front lines, among many other activities.

RABBI GROSSMAN ON THE NATIONAL STAGE
Rabbi Grossman has personally visited dozens of army and air force bases, blessing the soldiers with coins to give to tzedakah upon their safe return from war. His regular visits to Israel’s hospitals provide strength to the wounded and instill hope in their families. Miraculous stories are emerging from Gaza, a testament to the profound impact of Rabbi Grossman’s outreach.

The Rav has been seen on national television multiple times, offering interviews that fortify the nation’s unity and resolve. Following each of these appearances, he returns to Migdal HaEmek in the north of Israel, to be among his beloved children. There, surrounded by thousands of orphaned and underprivileged kids, he imparts his values and actively builds his visionary future for Israel.

MIGDAL OHR’S ALUMNI THE LEADERS IN ISRAEL TODAY
For over five decades, Rabbi Grossman and global supporters have devoted themselves to nurturing orphaned and at-risk youth, transforming them into productive, inspired citizens of Israel. Today, tens of thousands of alumni lead institutions, serve in the army, run companies, and raise families, showcasing the profound impact of Migdal Ohr’s work.

These alumni form a resilient shield in Israeli society, embodying dedication, selflessness, and a Zionistic spirit. Like Rabbi Grossman, they are unwavering in their commitment to do anything and everything for Am Yisrael.

One standout example is alumnus Shai Knopfer, who, on October 7th, dropped everything to enlist in the reserves. Tasked with identifying bodies in Be’eri and ruling out hostage scenarios, Shai leveraged his networks to raise $7 million for gear, aiding evacuated families and treating the wounded. Alongside friends, he organized large-scale BBQs and even orchestrated a wedding for a soldier within hours.

Shai reflects, “Rabbi Grossman has been like a father to me since I was 16. When I met him, I was lost in life, caught up in crime and drugs. That wasn’t me, but I didn’t know how to find my way back. I came to Zoharim Youth Village when it was just a dream. ‘There’s nothing here!’ I said. ‘So,’ the Rav replied, ‘You and your friends will be the ones to build it. If Hashem sent you now, then surely that is your purpose.’”

This ethos pervades Rabbi Grossman’s approach—where there’s a need, build it; where there’s no leader., lead.

Observing Rabbi Grossman’s impact — whether at army bases, hospitals, with evacuated families, or at home in Migdal HaEmek — inspires Shai to question, “What excuse do any of us have not to do more for Am Yisrael?”

The achievements of fellow alumni, whether in leadership positions, the army, or community leadership, showcase the pervasive spirit and drive to help, instilled by the Rav in each and every one of them.

LOCAL SUPPORT FOR MAGEN ISRAEL AND RABBI GROSSMAN’S EFFORTS
In the US, the Magen Israel campaign has seen an incredible outpouring of support from synagogues, schools, restaurants, and local businesses, all raising funds and sending donations to Israel.

During Hanukkah, 14 partner schools and communities united with American Friends of Migdal Ohr (AFMO) to raise funds for gifts and celebrations benefiting children from evacuated families. Notable participants included The Frisch School, SAR, Yeshivat He’Atid, Ben Porat Yosef, HALB, NCSY, and many others, each contributing to bring light to Israel’s children and support the Israeli economy.

The Rav has been profoundly touched by the unwavering dedication and support emanating from the Syrian community. The collective impact of each individual’s personal care, and the solidarity of the community at large, has been truly inspirational. In a remarkable display of compassion, the community has contributed hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of brand new clothes, toys, and essentials, providing evacuated families with the means to endure these challenging days with dignity. Multiple shipments have already been dispatched, and there are more on the way. The community has demonstrated robust support, both in giving, ruach, and physical presence, offering a comforting embrace during this challenging time for Am Yisrael.

“We are all driven to act, and the community has been an inspiration for so much good,” shared AFMO’s Executive Director, Atara Solow. “With needs on the ground that are so vital, the feeling and spirit of Am Yisrael together not only supports but strengthens our resolve.” Among other initiatives, Atara was blessed to take part in missions with the Mikdash Eliyahu Synagogue in Brooklyn and Yeshivah of Flatbush High School. This mission was dedicated to offering strength and support to those wounded since October 7th and to supporting the children of Migdal Ohr during this challenging time. The groups renovated bomb shelters and uplifted the morale of the nation.

“As an Israeli living in the Diaspora and far from home,” says Executive Director, Atara, “it has been extremely comforting and inspiring to see the love and unity of the Jewish people. We truly are one nation. When we are hurting in Israel, the Jewish community abroad is with us, feeling the pain and doing everything in their power to send support and assistance. I cannot tell you how proud and humbled I have been to be involved in Migdal Ohr’s Magen Israel war relief efforts. Thank you to everyone who has stepped up to get involved. The Syrian community in particular has been a tremendous part of the Magen Relief effort and Rabbi Grossman wants to extend his deepest appreciation.”

To learn more about Magen Israel and how you can get involved visit migdalohrusa.org/israel.

In March, American Friends of Migdal Ohr is organizing an Online Auction for Israel and asking the community to donate goods and services items to benefit Magen Israel. You can inquire and donate items at: auction@migdalohrusa.org.