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When the Patient Is a Child

mjhsThree-year-old twin brothers, David and Michael, were identical in almost every way. Both liked toy trucks and playing in the park. They even had their own special language. Their sweet bond became more special when David was diagnosed with metastatic liver cancer that eventually spread to his brain and lungs.

Constantly being hospitalized for lengthy stays took its toll on David and his family. Stressed and emotionally vulnerable, his parents also worried about the effect of David’s terminal illness on Michael.

To address the family’s concerns, the hospital’s attending pediatrician recommended MJHS Hospice and Palliative Care because of their impressive pediatric expertise and ability to provide services at home. David’s parents agreed with the plan.

At home, David was cared for by MJHS Hospice pediatricians and nurses who are board certified in pain and symptom management. A social worker, rabbi and volunteer made regular visits. Home health aides gave the parents much-needed breaks and a chance to focus on Michael. And age-appropriate conversations were facilitated by members of the MJHS Hospice team, including a music therapist.

As the twins’ 4th birthday approached, the parents grew concerned about Michael. He neededand deservedattention, too. They could admit David to a hospital, but that would devastate everyone. It was not an option. David remained at home, able to act like a kid not a patient. And the MJHS Hospice team helped both parents figure out how to create more special one-on-one time with Michael. This helped the family feel less conflicted. And an art therapist helped the family create a legacy storybook and photo albumgiving them wonderful, lasting memories.

A month later, surrounded by his parents and brother, and with a MJHS music therapist softly playing in the background, David said his final goodbyes.

No parent ever expects to outlive a child, but David’s parents credit MJHS with helping their entire family prepare for that moment. Had the planned MJHS Hospice Inpatient Residence for children been available at the time, David could have received the specialized, compassionate pediatric hospice care in a beautiful, home-away-from-home that respected the family’s Jewish values. His family could have stayed with him around-the-clock and everyone would have had peace of mind.

MJHS Hospice is determined to fill this critical void. With your generous support, the $10.3 million Sixteen Lights Capital Campaign will bring the concept of hospice into the 21st century.

For the families and friends of hospice patients, the Sixteen Lights Campaign means the creation of two very special residences: The MJHS Hospice Inpatient Residence at Menorah Center for Rehabilitation and Nursing Care in Brooklyn, which just broke ground, and The MJHS Hospice, Muriel and Harold Block Residence, at Jewish Home Lifecare in the Bronx. Both offer spacious, private, home-like surroundings where families can be together, eat together, even stay overnight with their loved one if they wish. And these phenomenal residences will be staffed with the finest board-certified health care professionals, and offer the most effective medications for symptom management and equipment to help improve quality of life.

The centerpiece of the Sixteen Lights Campaign will be our innovative MJHS Hospice Inpatient Residence at Menorah Center for Rehabilitation and Nursing Care. This unique oceanfront residence will be the first in New York City to care for vulnerable children like little David, as well as adults.

Your support is critical to raising the $10.3 million needed to make it happen. So please donate today. Naming and dedication opportunities are available.

Donations to the Sixteen Lights Capital Campaign can be made at mjhsfoundation.org. Please call (212) 356-5300 for more information on naming and dedication opportunities.

MJHS was founded in 1907 by the Four Brooklyn Ladies. Generous charitable support from their community enabled them to establish the Brooklyn Ladies Hebrew Home for the Aged. Rooted in the core Jewish values of compassion, dignity and respect, the home offered frail, elderly members of the community quality health care and a safe place to live in their time of greatest need. Today, those same core values continue to guide us. From the small building among the tenements, we’ve become one of the most expansive health systems in the region.

The Month of Festivals

Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur fall in September, the month of festivals. Sukkot is in October this year.

Rosh Hashanah
It is customary to sound the shofar and blow trumpets at the coronation of a king. Similarly, on Rosh Hashanah, we crown G-d as king over the universe and over each of us in particular.
The shofar is also sounded to awaken people to repent and return to G-d. The shofar represents a simple outcry of a person who recognized his spiritual poverty and whose feelings cannot be contained in words.
It can be compared to a forlorn child in a distant country who has forgotten the language of his people and his father, the king. When he returns to his father, his only means of communication is his simple cry, which his father recognizes. The he lifts the child up to be close to him.

The Life of Yizhak Rabin

Shorty after completing his schooling, Yizhak Rabin joined the Palmachthe elite strike force of the Haganah underground defense organization, where he served for seven years. He distinguished himself as a military leader very early on.
With the establishment of the State of Israel, the Palmach disbanded and Rabin embarked on a military career in the IDF which spanned two decades.
Rising to the rank of Major-General at the age of 32, he established the IDF leadership style which became known by the command, follow me. In 1962 he was appointed Chief of the General Staff and was promoted to the rank of Lieutenant General. He developed the IDF fighting doctrinebased on movement and surprisewhich was employed during the 1967 Six-Day War and ultimately led to the famous military victory. In January 1968, after 26 years in uniform, Rabin retired from the IDF.

Amsterdams Portuguese Synagogue and Jewish Museum

During the 16th and 17th centuries, many Jews that faced persecution in Spain and Portugal fled to Amsterdam, where they enjoyed religious tolerance.

In the early 17th century, there were three Sephardic communities: Beth Jacob, Neve Shalom and Beth Israel. In 1639, these communities merged to form the Portuguese Jewish community of Amsterdam.
In 1665, they commissioned architects Elias Bouwman and Daniel Stalpaert to build a new synagogue. The architects were inspired by the Temple of Salomon in Jerusalem and built a spectacular  synagogue. Construction began in 1671 and in 1675 the Portuguese Synagogue also called the Esnoga (which is the Ladino word for synagogue) was finishedit was the largest synagogue in the world.

Over the entrance is a gilded Hebrew inscription, a verse from Psalm 5:8: In the abundance of Thy loving kindness will I come into Thy house.
Inside, the synagogue is designed in the Sephardic style with the beautiful wooden ark and bimah at opposite ends of the interior. The seating is arranged in two equal halves, which face each other across a central aisle. The floor is covered with fine sand to absorb moisture from shoes and muffle noise.

The Jews of Ferrara, Italy

The Jews of Italy have a history that spans 2,000 years. Many groups of Jews, driven out of their native countries, Spain (1492), Portugal (1498) and Germany (1530) were welcomed there and created a strong and well-organized community, which became one of the most flourishing and important in Italy.
The Dukes of Este, in the 15th century, wanted to strengthen the economic condition of their country. The growing need for credit facilitated the settlement of Jews, who were originally money-lenders, but later became retailers, manufacturers, and tradesmen.
The Jews were given autonomy and although they were permitted to dwell anywhere in the city, most of them lived in the same area.

Late Bloomer or Developmental Delays?

Estee and Chaya were very happy when they had their sons within weeks of each other. As the boys second birthday approached, the mothers got them together for a play date.

When it was time to eat, Estee asked Avi, Do you want pasta? Without looking up, Avi shook his head no.
Okay, would you like a cream cheese and jelly sandwich? she asked. This time, Avi looked up and licked his lips vigorously. He then reached out his hand impatiently to let her know he was ready.
David was playing with a small truck. Chaya asked, What about you, David? Would you like pasta? David looked up, but did not respond. A cream cheese and jelly sandwich? Again, he looked at his mother, but then returned to playing with his truck.
Maybe he isnt hungry, Estee suggested.

Hillel Yeshiva Students Embark on an Educational Cruise

If you had not seen the words Hillel Yeshiva on the building when you drove up, you might have thought that you were actually approaching New York Harbor! Fifth grade students and their parents were greeted with Caribbean music. As they entered the building ready for the evening cruise, they were welcomed by the staff of the USS M.A.S.T. (Math and Science Together).
The evening was designed to give 5th grade students and their parents an opportunity to experience hands-on math and science activities. The building was decorated in a nautical theme, with ships, captains wheels, life preservers, palm trees, and shells. Each student was given a passport with his/her picture and an itinerary for the evening. Additionally, students were given a captains hat and a captains wheel necklace listing all the ports that they would be visiting.

Judaisms Digital Age

The man sitting on the train focusing intently on his iPhone might be playing a game, or he may be studying Talmud, Skyping with a partner in Israel or even teaching Hebrew.

Mobile technologies help people practice Judaism, said Barry Schwartz, CEO of Rusty Brick, a software company that has created more than 30 Jewish mobile apps. It is the future. Wherever you gothe airport, synagoguepeople are looking up information and praying.
Mobile technologies are augmenting traditional learning and how people fill their free time, said Rabbi Jack Kalla of Aish HaTorah, which has been at the forefront of digital Jewish outreach, for many years, with videos, podcasts and an extensive website. Aish recently released its first mobile app, which reproduces content from its website for mobile devices.
The Internet is where people are, and it is the means to reach people today. Jewish organizations across the spectrum are taking advantage of developing mobile and digital technologies to reach new people.
Its not going to be the new modelit already is the new model, said Rabbi Simcha Backman, director of Chabads AskMoses.com. This is the new way and we should embrace it.
Created to reach people who dont have access to rabbis, AskMoses offers live chats with scholars on its website. Earlier this year, the site began a text-messaging program. The website recently unveiled its first mobile app, part of a larger strategy to continue reaching people wherever they are.
Social media is a whole new world for Jews and Judaism. The options are limitless. The ArtScroll Schottenstein Talmud was recently released in an app for the iPhone and iPad. It allows users to get instant translations; highlight specific passages, and to jump quickly from one section to another.
This opens up the whole world of Jewish literature for the past 2,000 years, Rabbi Zlotowitz said, putting it literally at our fingertips. When youre able to actually interact with the words on the page, it changes how you understand what youre learning.
With technology advancing at a rapid pace, just what Jewish education will look like in 20 years, or even in five years, is unclear, but the Jewish world appears ready for the challenge.
All of these things are enabling us to realize our tradition and Judaism in ways that were simply unimaginable a few years ago, said Rabbi Backman. I dont know where its going, but its going to be phenomenal, he concluded.

The Second Annual Top Spin Tournament

When my alarm rang at 6 am, I anxiously rolled out of bed. The weather was a cool 70? and mostly sunnyperfect for tournament day. I was ecstatic because I knew it would be one of the best days of the summerThe Sephardic Food Funds Second Annual Top Spin Tournament.
What began last year as a small tennis tournament, run by a couple of high school kids, has expanded into a mens doubles tennis tournament and a volleyball tournament, featuring over 100 participants.
At about 10 am, the players, kids and young adults ranging in age from 12 to 25, begin to roll into Samantha and Bobby Hararys home. They grabbed something to eat and collected their bags, which included a dri-fit shirt, sweatpants and a towel. They were then sent to the courts to play their regular season games. The competition was fierce, but only eight teams from volleyball and eight teams from tennis advanced to the playoffs.

DSN Summer games

Tournament Champions

Girls Soccer: 3rd and 4th Grades
Helen Ashkenazi, Nina Shamah, Jayne Ades, Alexis Menaham, Ziva Saada and Shirley Goldenberg

Boys Football:
3rd and 4th Grades
Abe Mosseri, Adam Heaney, Joseph Heaney, Uzi Heaney, Eric Cytryn, Ivor Braka and Steven Nasar

Cultivating Happiness

It began 35 years ago. Thats when they stopped speaking.  Each one claims that theyve been angry with the other, on and off, since childhood. Apart, they are able to recount stories of misunderstandings that evolved into arguments that grew into a feud that resulted in two sisters, now 96 and 94 years old, fueling their anger into a state of permanent combustion until they could no longer bear to share anything: not even a conversation.

This is a true but extreme case of anger triumphing. We all get hot under the collar from time to time. Were human beings with a bucket load of emotions. However, holding on to anger can be devastating in more ways than one.
Living in anger leads to frustration, misery and troubled relationships in your personal life. In business, anger lowers performance levels and stifles both creativity and potential.
I have met very few people who prefer or choose to be angry. Most of us react and then get stuck or hijacked by our own negative emotions. For those who are truly interested in letting go of negative emotions in general, and anger specifically, the trick is in the first minute.

Summer Fun at Magen David of Union Square

Engaging Lectures and Fabulous Food

Summertimes and great food! Magen David of Union Square is taking care of both with a weekly Monday night barbecue and lecture program that jump started summer in the city and continues to be a brilliant success.

Each Monday night, approximately 60 people gather at MDUS for Minha and Arbit followed by an amazing lecture given by their summer scholar in residence, Rabbi Avi Harari. Some of the topics have ranged from Maimonedian approaches to life, finding ones soul mate and what it means to follow G-ds will. The barbecue and learning program at MDUS is a chance to form and sustain friendships through learning Torah and enjoying good food in a warm atmosphere, said Rabbi Harari.

Celebrating Jerusalem Chais 33rd Anniversary

Over 600 people gathered to celebrate Yom Yerushalayim (Jerusalem Day) in grand style at the 33rd Anniversary Dinner of American Friends of Ateret Cohanim/Jerusalem Chai. Each year, Ateret Cohanim honors individuals who have dedicated themselves to supporting the re-establishment of thriving Jewish communities in and around the Old City of Jerusalem.

Ateret Cohanim has restored a number of renowned yeshivot, in the Old City and its outlying areas, which has ensured a vibrant future for generations of Jews to come. The organization has successfully rekindled the flame of Jewish life in the heart and soul of Jerusalem.

A palpable electricity filled the room as this years honorees were assembled on the dais. Serving as Master of Ceremonies was Chaim Leibtag who introduced each awardee. The recipients of the prestigious Bonei Yerushalayim Award were Shoshana Hikind, Executive Vice President of Ateret Cohanim/Jerusalem Chai and Dr. Morris and Rickie Platt.

I am most grateful to Hashem for the opportunity I have had for so many years to stand by our courageous brethren striving to keep all of Jerusalem united under Israeli sovereignty. It is my fervent hope to be able to continue to reach many more American Jews with the message that we must step up to the plate if Yerushalayim is to remain our eternal and undivided capital, declared Mrs. Hikind.

Dr. Morris and Rickie Platt have been exceptionally generous supporters of Ateret Cohanim/Jerusalem Chai, Chabad centers around the globe, and have made significant personal contributions to many other wonderful organizations.

This years Oheiv Yisroel Awardees included Helen Freedman, Executive Director of Americans for a Safe Israel (AFSI), and Shlomo and Aviva Mostofsky. Ms. Freedman said, I get great pleasure from planning and leading the AFSI semi-annual chizuk (strength) tour of Israel. Our participants travel through Israel and provide succor to the fearless Jews who live in Judea and Samaria.

Shlomo Z. Mostofsky is a family law attorney in Brooklyn and his wife Aviva is a reading specialist. They count Ateret Cohanim as one of their favorite organizations.

A new and highly enthusiastic generation of Jewish leaders were introduced to the audience. Michelle Laufer and Rachel Zehava Ruchlamer were presented with the Young Leadership Professionals Award. Hailing from a family with a strong commitment and love for Jerusalem, Michelle has been in the forefront of planning numerous events for Ateret Cohanim/Jerusalem Chai.

Its such an honor to receive this award. I love helping the precious Ateret Cohanim children in the Old City and cant wait to do another young leadership event to raise money for their activities, said Ms. Laufer.

Together, we can put more smiles on the faces of the beautiful children living in the Old City, proclaimed Rachel Zehava Ruchlamer, a 30-year old teacher from New Jersey, as she received her award. I congratulate Ateret Cohanim/Jerusalem Chai on 33 years of keeping Jerusalem united and making it a better and safer place for today and tomorrow, she added.

In addition to redeeming land in and around the Old City of Jerusalem, Ateret Cohanim, which was founded by Matityahu HaCohen Dan, establishes educational centers, provides assistance in the renovation of old buildings, installs and maintains security systems and initiates a variety of other Jewish educational projects in an effort to revitalize Jerusalem.

Everyone going to Israel is urged to take one of Ateret Cohanims fascinating tours. For more information visit www.jerusalemchai.org.

The Aleh Foundations Annual Gala

Celebrating 28 Years

The Annual Aleh Foundation Gala took place in the ballroom of the Museum of Jewish Heritage, where beautifully attired guests gathered to celebrate 28 years of service to disabled children.

TV and radio talk show host Zev Brenner was the Master of Ceremonies. He introduced a line-up of special guests including the nights award recipients, NYS Senator Dean G. Skelos, Dr. Jeffrey Wisoff, Jack and Violet Harounian, and Drs. Andrew and Galina Zaretsky. The event was dedicated in loving memory of the late Moshe Ben Michael, Mike Silverstein, brother of our beloved friend and supporter, Stanley Silverstein.

Zev Brenner kicked off the evening by calling upon Senator Dean Skelos who spoke eloquently about Alehs accomplishments, followed by the events Medical Leadership Awardee, Dr. Jeffrey Wisoff.

Jack and Violet Harounian, honorary board members and two of the hardest working philanthropists in the Jewish community, received a beautiful plaque in recognition of their unflagging support. Zev then called upon the Humanitarian Awardees, Drs. Galina and Andrew Zaretsky.

Rabbi Joseph Potasnik spoke about the wonderful work Aleh Foundation does. The rabbis profound soul shined through each of his carefully selected words during his powerful speech.

Rabbi Dr. Elie Abadie, a Foundation Rabbinical Board member and supporter of many years, sang the national anthems of both the United States and Israel, as he has done so many times in the past. He then sang the Hashkava in memory of Mike Silverstein and presented a congressional certificate to Nina Miner and their daughter and son-in-law Leslie and Michael Kule. The Silversteins have generously sponsored a wing in Aleh Negev in loving memory of Chana Emunah Kule.

Sam Amster, a board member, drew the winning ticket in the evenings raffle.

You can join our wonderful supporters, friends and honorees in supporting the worlds most worthy institution for disabled children by sponsoring vital medical equipment. Visit alehfoundationusa.org/prg_eqiupment.html.


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