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Ultherapy – The Only FDA Approved Non-Surgical Face Lift

Are you tired of looking in the mirror and seeing sagging skin on your face, neck, decolletage (upper chest), even under your chin? Then you need to check out Ultherapy, the only FDA-cleared, non-surgical lift for the decolletage, neck, chin and brow! There’s no downtime either! One single in-office Ultherapy treatment uses ultrasound to stimulate the growth of new collagen to achieve a lift!
Laxity commonly first occurs on the forehead, which leads to brow descent, excess skin/hooding on the lids, a less open-eyed appearance. Cheek and neck tissue laxity can lead to flattening of the cheek, nasolabial folds, “marionette” lines; down-turned mouth, loss of jaw line angular “jowls,” and sagging skin under the chin.

Ultherapy uses tried-and-true ultrasound to see, and then treat, the skin’s foundational layers—including what’s typically addressed in cosmetic surgery, but is not a face lift. It deposits focused energy that bypasses the surface of the skin to stimulate the body’s natural production of collagen and elastin. As a result, skin will actually begin to lift and tighten over time. Because Ultherapy is the only cosmetic procedure to use ultrasound imaging, practitioners can actually see—for the first time ever—the layers of tissue deep beneath the skin as they are treating.

Key Benefits of Ultherapy
‱ There’s no downtime
‱ It takes approximately 60 minutes
‱ It’s non-surgical
‱ Most people only need one treatment

Following are the answers to the most common and frequently asked questions about Ultherapy.
How Does Ultherapy Work?
Like other ultrasound procedures, a smooth applicator is placed on top of your skin—in this case to heat the tissue below the surface to naturally and gradually create new collagen. Natural-looking results build gradually over 2 to 3 months, and the collagen-building process can continue for up to 6 months (no one will know you had any work done; they will just notice that you look better with each passing day!). (See diagram)

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How Is Ultherapy Different from Other Cosmetic Procedures?
Ultherapy is the only non-surgical treatment that uses ultrasound to actually see below the surface of the skin and then target the same deep tissue that doctors address in surgical face lifts. (See diagram)
How Much Does It Cost?
Many doctors offer a consultation, to do an evaluation, and then will give you an idea as to the price. In general, it can range between $750 and $5,000 depending on the treatment area.

How Many Treatments
Will I Need?
There have been good clinical results based upon just one treatment. Some people who have a fair amount of laxity may benefit from more than one treatment, but that can be discussed during your consult.

Does It Hurt?
A recent upgrade called “Ultherapy Amplify” now affords a more comfortable procedure. While comfort thresholds vary from patient to patient, most people now report that the procedure is quite tolerable. If and when any discomfort does occur, it happens while the ultrasound energy is being delivered. This is temporary and a positive signal that the collagen-building process has been initiated.
How Long Does
the Treatment Take?
Treatment time is based on your individual treatment protocol (e.g. partial vs. full face treatment), which will be discussed at your consultation.

How Soon Will I See Results?
There can be some lifting and tightening immediately following the treatment, but the full effect will build gradually over the course of two to three months. Most patients have seen results continue to build for up to six months.

Do I Have To Do Anything Special Afterwards?
You are able to return to your normal activities right away, and there are no special measures you need to take. Your skin may be a little red, but this disappears within a few hours.

How Long Do the Results Last?
You still have fresher, younger collagen after a year’s time, but your skin continues to age. We recommend that you see your doctor a year or so after the procedure to assess whether a ‘touch-up’ treatment may be helpful.

Can Anyone Have the Treatment?
A good candidate is someone with skin that has some laxity, to the point of looking, and often feeling, less firm. Both men and women can benefit from an Ultherapy treatment, and because Ultherapy bypasses the surface of the skin, patients of all skin colors can experience the treatment!

Is Ultherapy Safe?
Ultherapy has an excellent safety profile. Over 210,000 procedures have been conducted worldwide with no complaints

What Age Can a Person Start?
Most people opt for Ultherapy at the first signs of aging. This helps to slow the aging process down.

Dr. Edward J. Gindi, the owner and director of Laser Light MD, is a noted and esteemed pediatrician and allergist in the community,
who has been in practice for over 25 years. Both he and his well trained staff are certified Ultherapy and laser technicians.

 

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Unexpected Experiences on lLEAD Trip – American Teens Offer a Little Relaxation to Israeli Families

I anticipated my ILEAD trip to Israel for months—finally the day came. Upon our arrival, we immediately attended the funeral of the three Israeli teenagers that were found a day earlier—a very unexpected way to begin our trip. Two weeks into the trip, our head advisor, Shiloh Plesser, gathered the 40 members of my group together to emphasize the dangers that the country was facing. He explained that over 100 rockets were already fired in the South, and luckily for us, we were high up in the North, therefore clear from the danger.

A few nights later, while we were based at Rosh Hanikra, which borders Lebanon and the Mediterranean, a group of us gathered together to watch Germany play Argentina in the World Cup championship. Enthralled by the game, we were startled when we heard a knock at the door at 2 am, and then the piercing sound of a siren. The adrenaline rush that came over me was a sensation I had never experienced before. We hurried down the stairs, leaving everything behind, because in that moment, the only concern we had was for our lives. As I ran to the shelter, the siren grew even louder. I felt as if the rocket was coming straight toward me. We all arrived safely in the shelter, many of us disheveled and in disbelief. Typically unaffected, I had a flood of feelings come over me. Suddenly, the war became a shocking reality.

The next night, the siren went off around 11 pm. This time, we were all prepared for it, so the scramble for the shelters was a little more under control. We were all safe and sound, but had a clear understanding of what the Israelis go through every day.
This experience incited within us an idea—to bring families that were in bomb shelters all day—up North for a few days of relief and relaxation. Four groups were created. We named ourselves Kipat Tikvah (Dome of Hope). The first group handled raising money to fund our project. They did a phenomenal job—raising around forty-thousand dollars. The second group had to figure out who to bring, and how to get in contact with them. Being a part of that group, and being able to speak Hebrew fluently, I spoke to the municipals of Sderot, Ashkelon, Eshkol and Sde Avraham.

Each municipal linked me with the proper resources, and within the hour, families from Sde Abraham and Ashkelon were calling to speak with me. Eventually almost 50 families came up North and spent the weekend with us.

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The third group was involved with the logistics. They rented buses to bring the families to us, scheduled activities that would help us create relationships with the families, and made sure that everyone was always fed and had somewhere to stay. The fourth group tried to show, the generous people who funded us, how every one of their pennies was put toward good use.
During the five days of the program, we went for lunch in Aco with the families, made a carnival for the kids, danced with them, and forged relationships with everyone. Each family greatly appreciated what we did for therm, and two families even gave me their contact information in order to keep in touch with them. These are brave, incredible families that face unthinkable dangers on a daily basis.

Our trip revolved around the war, and doing what we were able to do to help. We visited the family of an Ethiopian Jewish soldier who fell during the war, and went to the funeral of a soldier named Yuval. The unity of the Jewish people was something that I had never seen before. Families, who didn’t even know the fallen soldier, were not just tearing up, but crying, as if it were their own child.

The most difficult part of my trip was not our eight hour hikes, or the little sleep we received, but it was on Har Hertzel. As we listened to a lecture about the famous heroes that were buried there, like Yoni Netanyahu and Roi Klein, I witnessed grave diggers preparing a fresh grave. They knew a soldier would be killed, and started working in advance. At that moment, I prayed to Hashem that these men would find no need for that empty grave.

Our trip reached its end a few days early because our counselors were called up as reservists to protect their country—our country, a country with limitless strength, faith in Hashem and solidarity—that I was blessed to experience during the trip of a lifetime.

Declaring Peace with Emotional Eating – Girls and Eating Disorders, Part II

According to the National Eating Disorders Association, approximately a half million teenagers struggle with eating disorders or unhealthy eating patterns. The Archives of General Psychiatry states that nearly one in 60 adolescents qualifies for a diagnosis of anorexia, bulimia or binge eating disorder. Ninety percent of young women who develop an eating disorder are between 12 and 15 years old and one-half of 4th grade girls are on a diet.

Clearly, many young girls are in trouble with their eating, bodies, and self-esteem. Let’s explore: Why do girls develop eating disorders? What can parents do? When can professional help be beneficial?

Why Girls Develop Eating Disorders
Although many people believe that our culture’s worship of skinny models and actresses is responsible for causing eating disorders, this only has a limited influence.  Comparing themselves to skinny models may contribute somewhat to girls feeling inadequate, but the truth is that girls are prone to eating problems when their basic self confidence is shaky and they feel insecure.
Adolescents—both girls and boys—face weighty emotional and social challenges at this stage of development: separating from their parents; finding a supportive group of friends; figuring out who they really are and what they want to do with their lives. These are critical and anxiety provoking transitions.

The New York Times article, “Why Teenagers Act Crazy,” explains that teens are uniquely vulnerable to anxiety because of the way their brains develop during adolescence. The part of the brain that will eventually help them develop calm reasoning matures only later, after a biological upsurge of anxiety and fear. Therefore, although teens are grown-up in some ways, they are still dependent on the comforting of their parents. Here is an example of how Mrs. H. helped her worried and upset daughter: “Yes, you do have a pimple on your nose, but I will put on a little makeup for you, and we will make it fade away. You believe that pimple is the only thing that people will see but it is so small compared to what a wonderful, lovely girl you are.” The girl with good self-esteem—let’s call her Rosie—will be comforted by her mother and will feel reassured (even if she huffs off to her room and slams the door).

A girl who is insecure, like Sharon, will not feel reassured but, instead, will continue to obsess about the pimple or another body part that doesn’t measure up to her standards.
How come Rosie can calm down and Sharon cannot? How come Rosie eats normally and Sharon is a binge eater? (All names are changed for confidentiality). The key is self-confidence.

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Help build your child’s self-confidence

What Parents Can Do To Build Self-Esteem
Teens turn to eating disorders as coping mechanisms, as “solutions” to deal with what makes them anxious. The key ingredient to prevent eating disorders is by building a child’s self-esteem. Parents and kids need to talk openly about feelings, problems, emotions, disagreements, and have everyone listen respectfully to the opinions of the other family members. In psychotherapy we call this type of supportive talking and listening “empathic attunement.”

Which Is an Example of Empathic Attunement?
Mrs. C: “You shouldn’t feel disappointed. When I was growing up, my parents never gave me half of what we give you.
Mrs. D: “I understand that you are feeling deprived and mad that we can’t afford to send you on that trip. I’m sorry. I know this is tough.”

Mr. A: “If your sister can lose weight, so can you. Just try harder.”
Mr. B: “I know you feel bad that your sister is losing weight, but everyone’s different. Why don’t we do something special on Shabbat and go for a walk together? Then we can have time to chat about how things are going for you.”

Mrs. E: “So your father and I yell and fight sometimes? I had it much worse than you with my parents. You’ll get over it. Don’t be so sensitive.”
Mrs. F: “I know it’s scary when Daddy and I fight. I wish we could talk about things more calmly. We are trying to work things out. Just know that we always love you even when we are having a hard time with each other.”
(Of course, the second example in each case is the right response.)

There are a host of  reasons for childhood and adolescent eating disorders ranging from biological issues to psychological vulnerability to anxiety and depression. But parents can play a strong role in preventing eating disorders by “inoculating” their children’s self-esteem. When parents empathize with their children, kids feel understood. Talking and listening to a child’s feelings encourages her to express herself directly without the need for the soothing—but temporary—comfort of an eating disorder.

Sharing Family Recipes for Rosh Hashanah

If you are like me, the weeks before the holiday are a hustle and bustle. Kids are back in school, and we have to shop for holiday and school clothes, Shabbat shoes and more. Like any cook, in the weeks before a holiday, I look for new ideas, something to breathe fresh air into the holiday and create new interest in the foods I prepare for family and guests.
Here are some new—and some old—recipes for Rosh Hashanah, that I would like to share with you. To honor the tradition of eating pomegranate on the holiday, try my Pomegranate Balsamic Glazed Chicken. It’s a delicious, healthy chicken dish. Honey Cake is a classic on this holiday. Honey is traditionally used to create sweet dishes in the hopes of a sweet year ahead. My Honey Cake is light and airy, while still very sweet.

I am also sharing two recipes for the brachot said by Sephardic Jews on this holiday. My leek patties are a take on egeh, and a different way to meet the brachot for leek. My grandmother’s Hilu, or candied squash, uses spaghetti squash for the bracha.

All of these recipes are included in my upcoming cookbook, which will be out at the end of the year and will include cooking tips, hundreds of new and many traditional recipes, entertaining tips, food preparation and several other sections.

The Sarina’s Sephardic Cuisine cooking app is available for iPhones and iPads and is receiving an update. It has over 200 recipes.  Understanding that today’s cooks look for recipes with technology, and do not cook from cookbooks, the app is embedded with over 50 videos to help young cooks learn traditional recipes, in which we demonstrate how to make difficult recipes and provide viewers with important cooking tips. There are tricks to preparing many recipes and we share those in the videos.

Proudly, I am my mother’s daughter and the granddaughter of Esther Salem, the first caterer in the Syrian Jewish community in Bensonhurst. Esther’s older sister was the Egyptian Rose (Rose Misrie), who ran a restaurant of the same name on the Lower East Side, for new immigrants from the Middle East in the early 20th century. So the recipes in the app—as well as the cookbook—were handed down from mother to daughter for generations.

There are many ways to prepare the recipes we need for the brachot on Rosh Hashanah. You can prepare Lubya as vegetarian, with no meat. There is no right or wrong way to cook. There are Syrian, Moroccan, Persian and Lebanese varieties of the same or similar foods. Cooking is an adventure and with these ancient recipes, I hope you will renew the traditions of our Sephardic past.

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Pomegranate Balsamic
Glazed Chicken
This chicken recipe is easy and seasonal, and especially elegant and delicious. It’s a very different holiday main course, plus it incorporates pomegranate, typically eaten on Rosh Hashanah.

Ingredients
‱ 4 tablespoons oil
‱ 6 chicken cutlets, seasoned with salt, pepper and oregano
‱ 1 package baby carrots
‱ 2 small onions, peeled and sliced
‱ 1 cup chicken broth
‱ Ÿ cup pomegranate juice
‱ ÂŒ cup balsamic vinegar
‱ 2 teaspoons cornstarch
‱ 2 teaspoons brown sugar
‱ Âœ teaspoon salt
‱ Âč/Âł cup pomegranate seeds
‱ 1 teaspoon basil
‱ ÂŒ teaspoon oregano

Directions
Heat oil in skillet. Add cutlets, onions and carrots. Brown cutlets 5-6 minutes on each side until tender and cooked through. Remove chicken from pan.
Add chicken broth to deglaze skillet. Add chicken back to skillet and simmer 15 minutes, covered. Remove chicken and vegetables and place on serving platter. Reserve Âč/Âł cup cooking liquid.
Add cooking liquid to skillet and stir in pomegranate juice, vinegar, brown sugar, salt, oregano, basil and cornstarch. Reserve a few pomegranate seeds for garnish and add the rest to the skillet. Bring to a boil over medium heat and simmer 3-4 minutes. Drizzle the sauce over the chicken. Garnish with seeds.

 

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Classic Honey Cake
Ingredients
‱ 3 eggs
‱ 1 Âč/Âł cup honey
‱ 1Âœ cup sugar
‱ 1 cup strong black coffee
‱ 2 teaspoons baking powder
‱ 3 tablespoons  margarine
‱ 1 teaspoon baking soda
‱ 4 cups flour
‱ 1 teaspoon cinnamon
‱ 2 cups confectioners sugar
‱ 2 teaspoons orange juice
‱ 2 teaspoons orange zest

Directions
Preheat oven to 350˚. Grease 9 x 13 inch cake pan or bundt pan by spraying with cooking spray and coating with flour.
In mixing bowl of mixer, beat eggs and honey together. Add sugar and mix again. Mix coffee with baking powder. Add to egg mixture with margarine and mix again.
Sift baking soda, flour and cinnamon together. The sifting lightens the cake. Add slowly to egg mixture, beating well after each addition.
Pour into baking pan and bake one hour or until toothpick comes out clean. Cool completely and turn onto serving plate.
Mix orange juice with confectioners’ sugar and zest. You may need to add a few drops more orange juice. Do not add too much. You want a smooth consistency, not too loose. Pour onto honey cake and allow to drizzle over sides.

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Pomegranate Strawberry Cocktail with Sorbet (Virgin)
Ingredients
‱ 2 cups pomegranate juice
‱ 2 cups strawberries
‱ 2 peaches
‱ 5 tablespoons honey
‱ 30 large mint leaves, plus more for garnish
‱ 1 cup ice
‱ Sorbet of your choice
‱ Seltzer

Directions
Pour juice, strawberries, peaches, ice, honey and mint into food processor. Puree and refrigerate until ready to serve.
Pour into wine glasses and fill half way. Add a scoop of sorbet. Fill glass with seltzer. This adds fizz. Garnish with mint leaf.

Candied Spaghetti Squash or Halu
Ingredients
1 spaghetti squash
Syrup
3 cups sugar
1 cup water
1 small lemon, squeezed
Dash of salt

Directions
Spray cookie sheet with cooking spray. Cut spaghetti squash in half. Scoop out seeds and place open side down on baking sheet. Bake one hour in preheated 350˚oven.
Mix the sugar, water, lemon and salt in saucepan and simmer on low flame until thick.
Scoop out the squash with a fork tine, so that it is like spaghetti. Squeeze out all the liquid. Add squash and mix. Store in a jar in refrigerator.

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Leek Patties
We eat leeks at Rosh Hashanah to protect us from our enemies. These mini patties are perfect for the brachot before the meal.
Ingredients

‱ 3 Leeks
‱ 3 tablespoons oil
‱ 1 chopped onion
‱ 2 eggs
‱ 2 tablespoons matzo meal
‱ 1 tablespoon salt
‱ Âœ teaspoon pepper
‱ Oil for frying

Directions
Cut off ends of leek and peel off hard outer shell. Slice the long way to quarter the leek and then slice. Soak and clean leek in cold water. Drain.
Heat oil in saucepan and sauté onion and chopped leek for 5 minutes. Cover with water. Bring to a boil and simmer 30 minutes. Pour into colander to drain and cool. Squeeze out all excess water (by taking handfuls at a time).
In bowl, mix leeks, eggs, matzo meal, salt and pepper.
In skillet, heat oil and drop by spoonfuls into oil. Brown on both sides. Drain on paper towels. Can be frozen at this point. Serve warm.

7 Kid-Friendly Websites

Kid-Friendly Websites
Kid-Friendly Websites

When you Google the word porn, guess how many websites are found. The answer, not hundreds of thousands, not a million, but 520 million. That’s a ridiculously huge amount of websites, considering there are under 320 million people in the United States!
Therefore, it’s important to make sure your kids are visiting child-friendly websites, only. Thus, we’ve scoured the Internet to find the most popular, fun, educational and safe websites for kids.abcya

Seussville.com Enter the highly interactive world of Dr. Seuss, for games, books, activities, videos, and much more. Seussville s the place for children of all ages to play and learn with Dr. Seuss’ wonderfully whimsical books and classic characters. All of the Dr. Seuss books leap to life through interactive games and activities that will enrich each child’s reading experience. Dr. Seuss believed that books and learning to read should be fun and exciting for children. The site maintains this spirit of fun and honors the tenets of his work: discovery, imagination, and creativity. Visitors will explore the lush animated environments as they uncover a wealth of games and information.

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ABCYa.com This website is the leader in free educational kids computer games and activities for elementary students to learn on the web. All children’s educational computer activities were created or approved by certified school teachers. All educational games are free and are modeled from primary grade lessons and enhanced to provide an interactive way for children to learn.
Grade level lessons incorporate areas such as math and language arts while introducing basic computer skills. Many of the kindergarten and first grade activities are equipped with sound to enhance understanding.

Funbrain.com This website was created for kids from preschool through 8th grade and offers more than 100 fun, interactive games that develop skills in math, reading, and literacy. Funbrain’s games help students build on what they have learned in class and helps them acquire new skills. Parents can trust Funbrain to deliver a fun and safe experience for even the youngest children. The Playground introduces preschoolers to the Internet and teaches them how to manipulate the mouse and keyboard.

Nationaleographic.com/kids There is so much to do on this website. It will keep kids entertained for hours with stunning photography, games, articles and videos. There’s also a special Little Kids page that makes learning fun for kids 3 to 8. It’s the next-best thing to taking a trip around the world.
If you type coloring book into the National Geographic search engine, you can download pdfs of great animal pictures for kids to color, featuring everything from owls to elephants and octopuses, to cheetahs and chimps!

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Doodle.ly This one’s for your little artist or any creative kid. It is an ultra-simple virtual sketch pad. You can sign in or just click on a white background and doodle. Once your little Picasso’s picture is complete, you can publish it on the site or older kids can share their pictures on Facebook or Twitter.

Drawingwithhapes.com This will be another favorite website for artistic children. Easy-to-follow lessons teach kids how to draw animals, cartoons, monsters and more, using circles, squares, and other simple shapes. Also included are coloring pages, an online drawing app, and games.

Sesamestreet.org This website is especially good for keeping preschool and kindergarten kids entertained. They can explore the alphabet, do crafts (with your help, of course), and they can play games with all their favorite Sesame Street characters and learn while they’re having fun.

The Symbolic Foods of Rosh Hashanah

On Rosh Hashanah it is traditional to eat symbolic foods that either taste sweet or have names that sound similar to our hopes and prayers for the new year. On Rosh Hashanah, everything we do is imbued with extreme significance. The foods are not magical. Eating these foods is just a little reminder to G-d of our desire and hopes for a happy and blessed new year.

The foods are: apples dipped in honey, leek, black-eyed peas, dates, gourds, pomegranate, head or tongue of cow or fish head and swiss chard.
Circular challahs represent the unending cycle of life and the round bread looks like a royal crown, a reminder of the coronation of G-d as king.
These round challahs are customary on Rosh Hashanah and often raisins are added to sweeten the taste.

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Apples Dipped in Honey
One of the primary reasons why we use an apple is because of its sweetness. Coupled with the added sweetness of the honey, it is symbolic of the ultra-sweet year we hope G‑d will grant us.
There are many other sweet fruits, like peaches and mangos. The apple was specifically chosen because it symbolizes the Garden of Eden, which according to the Midrash has the scent of an apple orchard.

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Swiss Chard
The Arabic word silleq means to remove or throw out. Syrian Jews usually eat Swiss chard in hope that G-d will remove enemies from their midst.

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Black-Eyed Peas
Sephardim eat black-eyed peas for good luck in the new year.

Head, Fish Head or Tongue
Rosh Hashanah literally means “head of the year” in Hebrew. For this reason in some communities it is traditional to eat the head of a fish, head of cow or tongue during the Rosh Hashanah holiday meal. Fish is also eaten because it is an ancient symbol of fertility and abundance, they never sleep and they swim in water. We hope the year will be one of plenty, just as fish are extremely fruitful. Just as fish never sleep, we hope to maintain a constant awareness of our mission in life and to remain cognizant of G-d’s expectations at all times.

Gourds
The Hebrew word for gourd is k’rah, which means proclaim, as in “May our merits be proclaimed before G-d.” K’rah also means “rip up” as in “May harsh decrees be torn up.”

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Pomegranates
Pomegranates often serve as the “new fruit,” a fruit not yet eaten this season. There are two reasons why the pomegranate is used as the new fruit. The Land of Israel is praised for its pomegranates in the Bible and because pomegranates supposedly contain 613 seeds. Thus, we display the desire to fulfill G-d’s 613 mitzvot by eating the pomegranate.

Leeks
These vegetables are known as karsi, related to the word karet, to cut off or destroy. By eating leeks we are asking, “May it be your will Eternal G-d that our enemies will be cut off.”

 

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Dates
Dates are known as tamri, meaning consume or finish. This food is similar to the leeks in that it is eaten with the intent that all enemies will end their wrath.

Happy Rosh Hashanah From Image Magazine

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On Rosh Hashanah, A Breath of Life – Rabbi Sacks’ message for Rosh Hashanah 5775

In the year that we are now parting with, 5774, it became dangerous once again to be a Jew. Israel, subject to sustained missile attack, discovered how hard it is to fight an asymmetric war against a terrorist group ruthless enough to place rocket launchers beside schools, hospitals and mosques. It found itself condemned by large sections of the world for performing the first duty of any state, namely to protect its citizens from danger and death.

Anti-Semitism returned to the streets of Europe. One hundred and twenty years after the Dreyfus trial, the cry “Death to the Jews” was heard again in Paris. Seventy years after the Holocaust, the call of “Jews to the gas” was heard in the streets of Germany. There were times when it felt as if the ghost of a past we thought long dead had risen to haunt us. More times than was comfortable I heard Jews say, “For the first time in my life I feel afraid.”

Let us stay with those fears and confront them directly. We are not back in the 1930s. To the contrary, for the first time in the almost four thousand years of Jewish history, we have simultaneously independence and sovereignty in the land and state of Israel, and freedom and equality in the Diaspora. Israel is strong, extraordinarily so. The success of the Iron Dome missile defense was the latest in an astonishing line of technological advances — not just military but also agricultural, medical and commercial — designed to protect, save and enhance life.

Israel has lived with the disdain of the world for a very long time. Even the most lukewarm among us knows that it is infinitely preferable to have a state of Israel and the condemnation of the world than no Israel, no Jewish home, and have the sympathy of the world.

The unity Israel showed during the Gaza conflict was deeply moving. It reminded us that in a profound existential sense we remain one people. Whether or not we share a covenant of faith, we share a covenant of fate. That is a good state to be in as we face the Yamim Noraim, when we stand before God not just as individuals but as a people.

As for anti-Semitism, rarely has it been more self-evident that the hate that starts with Jews never ends with Jews. The most significant enemies of the Jews today are the enemies of freedom everywhere. Worldwide we may feel uncomfortable, anxious. But there are parts of the world where Christians are being butchered, beheaded, driven from their homes and living in terror.

As for Muslims, one prominent academic recently estimated that of the hundreds dying daily, at least 90 per cent were doing so at the hands of their fellow Muslims. Bahai are at risk. So are the Yazidis. So in other parts of the world are Buddhists, Hindus, Sikhs, and for that matter atheists. No historian looking back on our time will be tempted to call it the age of tolerance.

Which brings us back to the Yamim Noraim. There is a note of universality to the prayers on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur that we do not find on other festivals. On other festivals the key section of the Amidah begins, Atah bechartanu mikol ha-amim, “You chose us from among all the nations.” The emphasis is on Jewish singularity. On the Yamim Noraim the parallel prayer begins, “And so place the fear of Lord our God, over all that You have made
 so that all of creation will worship You.” The emphasis is on human solidarity. And human solidarity is what the world needs right now.

One message resonates through these days: life. “Remember us for life, King who delights in life, and write us in the book of life for your sake, God of life.” We sometimes forget how radical this was when Judaism first entered the world. Egypt of the Pharaohs was obsessed with death. Life is full of suffering and pain. Death is where we join the gods. The great pyramids and temples were homages to death.

Anthropologists and social psychologists still argue today that the reason religion exists is because of people’s fear of death. Which makes it all the more remarkable that – despite our total and profound belief in olam haba and techiyat ha-metim, life after death and the resurrection of the dead – there is almost nothing of this in most of the books of the Bible. It is an astonishing phenomenon. All of Kohelet’s cynicism and Job’s railing against injustice could have been answered in one sentence: “There is life after death.” Yet neither book explicitly says so.

To the contrary, King David said in a psalm we say daily: “What gain would there be if I died and went down to the grave? Can dust thank you? Can it declare your truth?”

Almost at the end of his life Moses turned to the next generation and said to them: “Choose life, so that you and your children may live.” We take this for granted, forgetting how relatively rare in the history of religion this is.

Why so? Why, if we believe the soul is immortal, that there is life after death and that this world is not all there is, do we not say so more often and more loudly? Because since civilization began, heaven has too often been used as an excuse for injustice and violence down here on earth. What evil can you not commit if you believe you will be rewarded for it in the world to come? That is the logic of the terrorist and the suicide bomber. It is the logic of those who burned “heretics” at the stake in order, so they said, to save their immortal souls.

Against this horrific mindset the whole of Judaism is a protest. Justice and compassion have to be fought for in this life not the next. Judaism is not directed to fear of death. It is directed to a far more dangerous fear: fear of life with all its pain and disappointment and unpredictability. It is fear of life, not fear of death, that have led people to create totalitarian states and fundamentalist religions. Fear of life is ultimately fear of freedom. That is why fear of life takes the form of an assault against freedom.

Against that fear we say from the beginning of Ellul to Sukkot that monumental psalm of David: “The Lord is my light and my salvation. Whom then shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life. Of whom then shall I be afraid?” On Rosh Hashanah we blow the shofar, the one mitzvah we fulfill by the breath of life itself without needing any words. On the first day of Rosh Hashanah, the “anniversary of creation,” we read in the Torah and haftorah not about the birth of the universe but about the birth of Isaac to Sarah and Samuel to Hannah as if to say, one life is like a universe. One child is enough to show how vulnerable life is – a miracle to be protected and cherished. On Yom Kippur we wear the kittel, a shroud, as if to show that we are not afraid of death.

Never before have I felt so strongly that the world needs us to live this message, the message of the Torah that life is holy, that death defiles, and that terror in the name of God is a desecration of the name of God.

The state of Israel is the collective affirmation of the Jewish people, a mere three years after emerging from the valley of the shadow of death, that Lo amut ki echyeh, “I will not die but live.” Israel chose life. Its enemies chose the way of death. They even boasted, as did Osama bin Laden, that the love of death made them strong. It did not make them strong. It made them violent. Aggression is not strength; it is a profound self-consciousness of weakness. And the main victims of Islamist violence are Muslims. Hate destroys the hater.

Today it is not just Israel or Jews whose freedom is at risk. It is the whole of the Middle East, large parts of Africa and Asia, and much of Europe. Therefore let us approach the New Year with a real sense of human solidarity. Let us show, by the way we celebrate our faith, that God is to be found in life. The love of God is love of life. Let us take to heart King David’s insistence that faith is stronger than fear. No empire ever defeated the Jewish people, and no force ever will. May God write us, our families, the people and State of Israel and Jews throughout the world, in the book of life. And may the day come when the righteous of all nations work together for the sake of freedom, peace and life.

Community Supports Israel

Teddy Kurtz, a 3rd grader from Magen David Yeshivah, organized the tournament that raised money for an organization called Friends of Maglan. Maglan is one of the only Special Forces combat units operating behind enemy lines, and they are in pressing need of special combat boots. Over 40 boys participated in this event, and after hearing about the soldiers, they felt proud to know that they helped.

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In addition, Magen David Yeshivah held a Kids Literacy Event at the home of Joyce and Raymond Betesh, where guests were encouraged to write letters to the IDF. Those letters were sent to Israel that week, and will be given directly to the soldiers! There are many people to thank, including Suzanne and Eric Sasson for graciously opening up their home for the girls’ car wash, and to all that volunteered including: Mimi Cohen, Vivian Cohen, Sharon Dabbah, Ruthy Dweck, Sarita Esses, Sarah Goldman, Rochelle Hafif, Betty Hidary, Jennifer Mudick, Virginia Oved, Jennifer Salzman, Marcelle Sasson, Rita Scaba, Rebecca Sitt, Jamie Tawil, and Vivian Terzi.

Thank you to Erica Dweck and Nicole Oved for overseeing the boys’ event and to Tami and Sol Mosseri for graciously opening their home. Thank you to volunteers: Alvin Ades, Morris Dweck, Alan Frastai, Joe Gindi, Jack Hadar, Jack Hanan, Morris Hanan, Isaac Kroub, Isaac Maleh, Jacob Mosseri, Michael Oved, Steven Rabiti, Leo Rahmey, Gerry Sabbagh, Charles Safdieh, David Shalam, Joshua Shalam, Max Shalom, Micky Shamah, and Ralph Terzi. Thank you to Stephanie and Howard Kurtz for graciously hosting the dodge ball tournament and to Klemi Azrak, Danny Chabbott and Lawrence Kurtz for volunteering as referees.

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Congregation Shaare Shalom’s Home Alone Summer Series

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With many men home alone in Brooklyn in the summertime, or just enjoying a more relaxing schedule, Congregation Shaare Shalom introduced The Home Alone Summer Series with newly appointed Rabbi Avi Harari. The weekly series has been a wonderful opportunity for the congregants to get to know the Rabbi, while enjoying a delicious dinner and class. With a different topic every week, Rabbi Harari has captivated the attendees with its diversity. The simple concept has kept the Shaare Shalom congregation close during the summer months.
“I immediately felt comfortable in the warm atmosphere of Shaare Shalom. It is a kahal (congregation) that has grown so much under Rabbi Joseph Dweck, and I hope to continue it forward in all aspects of growth and avodat Hashem (service of G-d),” said Rabbi Harari.
Born in Brooklyn, Rabbi Harari studied several years in yeshivot in Israel and at Yeshivah University, and currently teaches Tanakh (Torah) and Talmud at the Yeshivah of Flatbush High School. He and his wife have three children—two boys and a baby girl.

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“The Rabbi’s smooth and effortless delivery translates to an easy explanation of the topic discussed, making his classes so enjoyable,” said Joey Shomer.
Moshe Hazbany added, “The weekly Monday night class at Shaare Shalom has allowed those spending most of the summer in Deal to stay connected to our shul and committing time to learning Torah. Over the course of the summer, I had an opportunity to bond with my fellow congregants through Rabbi Harari’s thought-provoking and insightful shiurim (classes). This program offers only a glimpse of what lies ahead in Shaare Shalom’s exciting future.”
“Monday night is the night of the week when many men, who spend most of the summer with their families in Deal, spend the night alone in Brooklyn. Providing them with a ready dinner and a class is an obvious draw,” said Rabbi Harari, adding, “A few years ago, I ran a similar set of classes during the summer at Magen David of New York, and judging by its success, I knew it would work at Shaare Shalom as well.” The topics of the classes range from Torah and Livelihood to The True Meaning of the Kaddish.
“Rabbi Avi Harari has captivated all that have attended his class. He has been excellent in engaging his audience. His topics are well presented with subjects that are pertinent to today. The dinners offered before the classes have been great and have given our congregants an opportunity to mingle,” said Salomon Cohen.
“Although this class was intended for the ‘home alone’ men, a good 50% of the attendees were men that don’t go away. It’s really very exciting what’s happening here. We plan to expand on these types of programs in the coming year,” said Moses Maya.
Please visit the Congregation Shaare Shalom website at shaareshalom.com to learn more about the fall class schedule.

SFF Climbs the Ladder of Success

Steve Jobs’ words have been the guiding principle behind the work of a freelance committee dedicated to helping change the worlds of individuals in our community every single day. With the youngest member only 16 years old and the oldest 26, these individuals have devoted so much time and energy to giving back to the community.

It is no surprise that they found themselves at the helm of another spectacular and successful summer, netting over $200,000 for the Sephardic Food Fund and uniting thousands of our community members for the same cause.
The SFF summer began with their 2nd Annual Shootout event, graciously hosted by Esther and Joey Jerome. The day saw over 450 participants competing in various sports, including basketball, soccer, tennis, and volleyball, with over 1,000 spectators showing their support. The BBQ was absolutely mouth watering, and the Chinese Auction was a huge hit! At an awards ceremony, trophies and iHomes were given to all of the winners.

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Although it was wonderful, that wasn’t the biggest event of the summer. On August 18, 968 runners, over 200 cheering spectators, and 30 volunteers showed up for the largest community run to date. This was no ordinary run, though. With a growing popularity around the world, the SFF decided to organize its 2nd Color Splash Community Color Run.

It was a spectacular morning of color and fun as participants ran through the streets of Long Branch. Runners of all ages were covered in blue, pink, green and orange paint. Some even rolled in the paint-filled street to cover every inch of their bodies.

With Joe Betesh at the DJ stand, the final throw of paint came with a countdown to the drop to the song Colors. One thousand paint packets met the clouds, creating an artsy and symbolic notion of many individuals joining together to become one communal family.
We would like to thank everyone for their continued support of the SFF and for their support of our soldiers in Israel, who received some proceeds from the event.
A special thank you to our selfless sponsors, our gracious hosts, and our awesome volunteers! Special thanks to our photographer Morris Anteby, DJ Joe Betesh, Stormins Sports, Bobby Morabia, Stacey Gindi, Vicki Hoffstein, Edlo Sorcher, Prime Cut, Ray T. and the entire SFF family.

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Arnold Fine, Longtime Jewish Press Editor and Columnist, Passes Away At 90

Arnold Fine, a beloved fixture at The Jewish Press for more than half a century, passed away in his sleep at his home in Battery Park City, Manhattan, on Friday, September 5, at age 90.
Fine’s association with the late founder of The Jewish Press, Rabbi Sholom Klass, began before The Jewish Press was launched when Fine worked for The Brooklyn Daily and Brooklyn Weekly, both published by Rabbi Klass.

In the mid-1960s Fine started writing a weekly Jewish Press column called “I Remember When” (an exclamation point would eventually be added to the title). The column, which brought to life the sights, sounds, and smells of New York City in the 1930s and ‘40s, quickly became one of the paper’s most popular features and to this day has continued to enchant readers of all ages.
The paper will continue to publish the column, said associate publisher Naomi Klass Mauer.

“The subjects Arnie wrote about are timeless and new generations have always taken to the column’s warmth and nostalgia,” she said. “His writings will live on even though he is no longer with us.”
Fine’s writing spoke to generations of readers, both Jewish and non-Jewish. Several of his articles appeared in the Chicken Soup for the Soul series of inspirational short stories; his article “The Letter in the Wallet” appeared in Reader’s Digest and has been reprinted in numerous anthologies and appeared on countless websites and blogs (sometimes under the shorter title “The Wallet”).
In addition to his work at The Jewish Press, where he eventually served as senior editor, Fine was a photographer, a musician, and an educator.

An armed forces veteran, he had the distinction of being in both the Navy and the Army. He joined the Navy at the end of World War II and then found himself drafted by the Army a few weeks later.
After the war he roamed New York City as a press photographer with a 4×5 camera shooting for local newspapers. Looking to get ahead in the newspaper business, he went to college and earned a bachelor’s degree thanks to the GI Bill.

Later on, after going back to college for a master’s in education, he became a celebrated special education teacher in the New York City school system. He was a pioneer in teaching brain-injured children and was loved by his students and their parents.

A natural musician, he played the clarinet, saxophone, and piano and loved the old big bands and their music.
Late in life he developed Parkinson’s disease but was still able to get around with the aid of a wheelchair. He was a frequent sight in Battery Park City where he could occasionally be spotted with the family poodle, Lisette, sitting on his lap as he wheeled down the Esplanade.

A loving husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, he was predeceased by his wife, Edith, who passed away in 2006. He is survived by three children, Jay (spouse Cindy), Brian (spouse Dina), and Martin (spouse Janet); six grandchildren, Eric (spouse Cece), Daniel (spouse Tara), Joan, Sarah, Max, and Adam; and two great-grandchildren, Ella and Eve.
Interment was at New Montefiore Jewish Cemetery in West Babylon, New York.

Better to Give Than Receive

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Do you ever think about why we are here, on this earth? Ask your friends; I bet at least one of them answers, “To give,” though others may not. That was the Mitzvah Man’s answer, when he began to think about his purpose, years ago, before this organization ever existed. We function daily, we work, we keep our houses tidy and running, we go from day to day dealing with problems of all shapes and sizes. We rest, we celebrate, we mourn, and the circle of life continues. Through it all, we create bonds. I believe the way we do that is through giving.
When the Mitzvah Man founder heard about a family living in their car, he was floored. “It was just heart wrenching for me,” he explained. “Imagine a couple and their two children sleeping, eating and functioning out of the small space we squirm in if we have to go more than an hour away? You really can’t understand the depth of these people’s pain and suffering until you see it with your own eyes.”

Baruch Hashem, the Mitzvah Man’s task force got to work. Through their volunteers and services this family was put up in a hotel for two weeks until better arrangements could be made. Finally, a kind-hearted soul from our community offered his home, rent-free for one year. Along with that came assorted large and small appliances. Soon clothing, footwear and many everyday needs began to arrive. This presented a much-needed opportunity for a struggling couple to grow and rise up. We are happy to report that six months later this family is back up on their feet, working and doing beautifully, thanks to the Mitzvah Man.

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This year, the Mitzvah Man’s 4th Annual Chinese Auction took place at Maggie and David Bawabeh’s home. The outpouring of generosity was a testament to this beautiful family who truly exemplify hesed, and a cause that does its best to multiply it ten thousand fold. When the crowd arrived on Wednesday evening Michael Cohen, founder of the Mitzvah Man, opened his heart and shared the story of the beginning of this multifaceted organization. It started simply, with visits to the sick and kind favors to people in need during his spare time. Sometimes it was a ride to a doctor, a bulb that needed replacing, or assistance putting on tefilin in the morning. No job was too big or small, but quickly one soul in need became 10, 20 and 100. Fortunately, where there is need, there will be volunteers. This community is incredible, and this one-man show grew as quickly as the problems that needed tending. A force that started with one volunteer soon manifested itself into an army of over 1,900 soldiers, all giving of themselves to help anyone and everyone in need.

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As a backdrop to the evening, there was a beautiful photo display of the many volunteers in action, along with food by Nicole Shammah, wine and a beautiful auction. Playing throughout was a spectacular video of hands-on hesed through the eyes of both volunteers and clients. It quickly became clear that whether the giver or the receiver, these mitzvot have changed their lives.
Rabbi Joey Haber topped off the afternoon with over 200 women listening raptly to his words. “There is nothing like the feeling of putting a smile on someone’s face. I want to thank Mitzvah Man, not for what he does and the hesed that people receive, but for turning 1,800 community members into hesed machines. And for giving them the opportunity to see life and experience life as someone who does
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Today, reaching volunteers is easy. Texting, Facebook and Instagram can create hesed opportunities all around us, and there is truly something for everyone. This week three autistic teens volunteered to do hesed. Mitzvah Man explained, “Hesed is real, tangible and do-able. Everyone can help in their own way either monetarily, or through volunteering time, goods or services. Every day acts of kindness for those in need are diamonds for those who rely on the Mitzvah Man for assistance. It has been said that those who survived the sinking of the Titanic could not rely on the huge ship to rescue them—it was the little tiny rowboat that saved them in the end. Michael is carrying the oars, but he needs more people to row. A simple act of kindness goes beyond comprehension.
Another touching story occurred when a 95-year-old blind client had a volunteer visiting. The mitzvah girl realized that a woman like this, living alone was in grave danger should anything unexpected happen at home. She thought about it and decided that a voice activated, hands free telephone might keep this woman safe. It was a simple expense that was generously donated, but in the end, it literally saved her life.

This woman lives alone and has no family and no aid—nothing. When she woke up one evening with pains in her chest, she yelled into her phone, “Hatzalah!” Hatzalah came within minutes, and brought her straight to Maimonides Hospital. When Mitzvah Man was alerted, volunteers reached community contacts in the ER and set her up with the best doctors and care. The woman had in fact had a heart attack. As soon as she was released, a private ambulance was arranged, and volunteers were waiting at her doorstep to carry her up to her apartment. Baruch Hashem, she is doing wonderfully.
Each one of us has the potential to create our very own storybook of hesed. We all have it in us; we just have to let it out. Giving is an incredible feeling. It is amazing, uplifting and inspiring. Join the force and be a part of our team. For more info please visit our website atthemitzvah-man.org, or call our hotline 1(866) 355-1825.

A Summer Night of Reading and Fun At Magen David Yeshivah

On a warm Monday evening in mid-August, a quiet street on the Jersey Shore was transformed for the young members of our Magen David Yeshivah family and their exciting literacy event. The students, along with their parents, were thrilled when they arrived and saw a backyard filled with colorful balloons, an assortment of delicious foods, and countless books for their very special “read aloud.” It was an MDY summer literary happening set in a warm and nurturing atmosphere.

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The youngest students were invited to A Summer Night of Reading and Fun, which featured a read aloud with MDY teachers and administration and craft projects for all ages. Children were welcome to wear storybook themed pajamas and share their favorite storybook characters.
The beautiful home of Joyce and Raymond Betesh served as the setting for the event. Children, parents, and faculty had an unforgettable, fun-filled and educational evening organized by MDY’s talented and creative PTA.
The director of the early childhood division, Mrs. Terri Mizrachi, the Assistant Principal of the elementary school lower division, Mrs. Debra Hamburg, the director of the elementary school’s learning center, Mrs. Stacy Katzwer, the literacy coach and associate program director, Mrs. Carly Mavorah and other faculty members read iconic children’s literature—The Day the Crayons Quit, Knuffle Bunny, Chrysanthemum, and Miss Brooks Loves Books—to the attentive children Mrs. Hamburg said, “It was a perfect evening.

Our children and parents experienced one of our major school goals—reading and enjoying books. The listeners were totally engaged. The storytellers did what they love to do, read to and experience books with their cherished students. It was the perfect combination for a night whose impact will last well past this event.”
MDY elementary school has become a haven for readers. Celebrated authors of children’s books often visit and students are engaged in literacy activities consistently during the year.
As the sun began to set, it was time for the spectacular evening to come to a close. Mrs. Norma Chehebar, a parent of two MDY students, perhaps best summed up the evening, “Wow! It was a really amazing night. It gave my young children a great foundation for the love and enjoyment of reading and enhanced my excitement and eagerness to read to them.”

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