Rabbi Ezra Max
As we transition from the joyous spirit of Succoth to the winter season, the secular calendar reminds us to focus on an evening of Thanksgiving. It’s another opportunity to reflect with the power of gratitude in our lives—both personally and professionally. Have you acknowledged your strengths lately? Do you realize how often stress and struggle leads to more strength?
Gratitude is not merely a reaction to positive events but a proactive stance that can elevate our experiences, helping us recognize the beauty and abundance around us, even during cold winter nights and challenging times.
Building on Past Strengths
Every journey is filled with both struggles and victories. In fact, many of our strengths emerge from overcoming obstacles. The Mishnah teaches us, “Who is rich? One who is happy with his lot”–Because putting in effort always matters (Pirkei Abot 4:1). This wisdom encourages us to cultivate appreciation for our circumstances, however difficult they may seem, as this always lays the groundwork for our future successes.
Client Story
A recent client was a business owner with a mid-sized company that operates multiple product lines. This past year has been particularly challenging for him, especially regarding tension with a key employee over the direction of the business and lowered profitability. He reached out for guidance, wanting to navigate these interpersonal complexities and find a pathway forward.
Turning Struggles into Clarity
What initially seemed like insurmountable struggles, is actually becoming the catalyst for a new level of clarity for him. Through careful reflection and strategic conversations, he has identified the essential focus areas for his business. The chaos he faced forced him to hone in on the core strengths of his company and clarify the personnel decisions that would align with his strengths.
As he navigated these tensions, he discovered that the struggles were not merely obstacles but rather stepping stones toward a clearer vision. This newfound clarity not only provided sanity amidst the overwhelming stress but also illuminated a path toward increased profitability. By embracing gratitude for the lessons learned through hardship, he transformed his approach, allowing him to move forward with confidence.
Celebrating Wins and Milestones
Acknowledging and celebrating our wins, both big and small–is crucial in maintaining momentum. It’s easy to get caught up in the grind and overlook our achievements, but recognizing these milestones fosters a culture of appreciation, resources and motivates us to keep pushing forward.
As we cultivate gratitude in our work environments, we foster a more positive and productive atmosphere. This not only benefits us as leaders but also enhances our relationships with our teams, allowing everyone to contribute to and share in the success. More important than our work, we must get better at being more grateful and appreciative at home with our families.
Practical Steps for Gratitude and Clarity
1. Reflect on Your Journey: Take a moment to recognize the challenges you’ve faced and how they’ve shaped your strengths. Reflect on the lessons learned and the growth experienced through adversity.
2. Celebrate Milestones: Make it a habit to celebrate both personal and professional wins. Recognizing achievements, no matter how small, helps maintain motivation and encourages a culture of gratitude.
3. Communicate with Your Team: Share your vision and the steps you’re taking to move forward. Transparency fosters trust and connection, allowing your team to feel valued and engaged.
4. Engage in Gratitude Practices: Incorporate more gratitude practices into your daily routine–whether through journaling, meditation, or expressing appreciation to your team.
5. Seek Support: Don’t hesitate to reach out to a coach or a mentor to help navigate challenges and gain clarity. The support of others can be invaluable in maintaining focus and direction.
Conclusion: Living in Abundance
Let’s make Thanksgiving a regular event. Be more conscious every morning when we acknowledge Hashem’s blessing in our lives and the world in Mizmor Letodah–“Enter His gates with thanksgiving, and His courts with praise; give thanks to Him, bless His name “Tehillim (Psalms 100:4): Let’s take the time regularly to acknowledge the abundance in our lives and the strengths we’ve developed through overcoming challenges. Embracing gratitude will help us foster deeper connections with ourselves, our families, and our teams.
Consider how the struggles you’ve faced have led to your current strengths. What Current struggles might be the key to unlocking more of your strengths? Let’s commit to celebrating our wins and building on them as we navigate the path ahead.
May this season be filled with personal growth, meaningful connections, and the abundance of Hashem’s blessings!
Rabbi Ezra Max, PCC, MHMP, Xchange Guide & Creator of “The Max Method” assists businesses and professionals deal with stress and achieve success. Rabbi Max has witnessed 20 years of results helping executives, parents and teens overcome struggles, improve communication and thrive. He lives in New York with his wife and five children.
