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FATHERHOOD FIRST

A SUCCESS FORMULA FOR JEWISH BUSINESS LEADERS

RABBI EZRA MAX

IN THE WORLD OF BUSINESS, SUCCESSFUL ENTREPRENEURS OFTEN FIND THEMSELVES ISOLATED AT THE TOP, CARRYING THE WEIGHT OF RESPONSIBILITY ALONE. HOWEVER, THIS FATHER’S DAY, AS A JEWISH PROFESSIONAL PLEASE REFLECT ON THE VITAL IMPORTANCE OF INTEGRATING FAMILY AND BUSINESS.

By prioritizing meaningful connections and embracing Jewish values, such as prayer, study, and Shabbat, you can be part of a supportive community that nurtures both your professional and familial roles.

EMBRACE YOUR ROLE AS A FATHER FIRST
In Jewish culture, the role of fatherhood holds profound significance. Amidst the demands of business, it is crucial for you, as a leader, to prioritize your role as father. By recognizing that being a father comes first, business professionals can lay a stronger foundation for their families and foster lasting bonds with their children, ensuring that they remain present and engaged amidst the demands of their entrepreneurial ventures.

INTEGRATION, NOT SEPARATION
The misconception that business and family must be kept separate is prevalent in society. However, Jewish teachings encourage the integration of these two aspects of life. By aligning your business goals with personal values and prioritizing family, you can create a holistic approach to success. This integration allows you to find harmony and fulfillment, recognizing that your professional endeavors are an opportunity to make a kiddush Hashem (glorifying the Almighty), and have a positive impact on the world while nurturing your relationships.

Join a Community of Like-Minded Dads
The loneliness that often accompanies success can be mitigated by plugging into a community of like-minded individuals. You can find support and understanding by connecting with fellow entrepreneurs. Networking events, mentorship programs, and peer groups are avenues to build meaningful connections. These relationships foster camaraderie, allowing business leaders to share experiences, exchange ideas, and support one another. Such a robust support system encourages personal growth, enriches professional journeys, and provides a sense of belonging. You are not alone.

REFLECTION, CONNECTION AND RENEWAL
THE POWER OF SHABBAT
Observing Shabbat, the Jewish day of rest, holds immense power for entrepreneurs. This sacred day offers an opportunity to step away from work demands and prioritize G-d, family, learning, and personal well-being. By dedicating quality time to loved ones, engaging in meaningful conversations, and recharging your spirits, you can rejuvenate your roles as father and leader. Shabbat serves as a reminder to reflect on the deeper purpose behind your work and continuously strive for personal improvement, infusing your life with meaning.
On this Father’s Day, let’s celebrate the power of community and the integration of business and family. By embracing the role of father first, integrating business and family, connecting to supportive networks, and honoring the mitzvah of Shabbat, you will cultivate a balanced and fulfilling life.
This is not just a dreamy possibility, because you can make it your reality. Last month I had the opportunity to design and co-create an experience for Jewish business owners who were attending a conference. This experience connected and bonded those leaders into an incredibly supportive community that will change the world, by honoring being a Jewish father first who also has a business to support them.
And although it’s Father’s Day, let’s not forget the corporate women who go through the same things — they are foundational for the success of our lives.

Rabbi Ezra Max, PCC, MHMP, Xchange Guide & Creator of “The Max Method” assists businesses and professionals deal with stress and achieve success. Rabbi Max has witnessed 20 years of results helping executives, parents and teens overcome struggles, improve communication and thrive. He lives in New York with his wife and five children.